Self Love Archives - Page 5 of 7 - Phi Dang, Human Design Life Coach Sydney

You have a good heart

A gentle reminder...

You’ve got a good heart.

Even when you make mistakes.

Even when you try your best and it doesn’t work out.

Even when you snap because you are angry and frustrated with the world.

Even when you’re annoyed at yourself and others.

Even when you’re caught up in an anxious loop.

Even when you fall asleep with tears in your eyes.

Even when you feel like a burden to everyone.

Even when you are caught up in the past.

Even when you feel so stuck in your head and you feel like you are making everything about you.

Even when you second guess and doubt yourself.

Even when you have a critical self voice that says otherwise.

It can be easy to forget, so a gentle reminder: you are loveable and you are loved.

You are trying your best and I see you for it.

Listen to your heart

you’ve got a good heart and no matter what I hope it never hardens.

I hope you continue to wear your heart on your sleeve.

I hope you continue to listen to your heart.

I hope you continue to trust your heart.

love & positivity ✨ phi

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Always choose yourself

This life is yours...

Choose yourself beautiful soul.

Choose yourself because you aren’t here to put others before you at the cost of your happiness and mental health.

Choose yourself because it isn’t selfish, it’s the most important thing you could ever do to honour your heart and soul.

Choose yourself because if you don’t, who will?

Choose yourself because not everyone deserves to have your energy and presence in their life.

Choose yourself because you are so incredible and deserve someone who knows it well too.

Choose yourself because your dreams ought to become a reality that you experience in this lifetime.

Choose yourself because it will save your heartache and pain later down the track.

Choose yourself first because this life is yours and you are here to live it.

It's okay to be selfish

We have been conditioned our whole lives to choose others before ourselves, to not be “selfish” or to perhaps even wait to be chosen by another.

Choose yourself in alignment with the best version of you here and now in this moment.

Choose without fear knowing that when you are at your best and happiest you will have the greatest impact and influence in this world.

Choose yourself first beautiful soul 🧡

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Igniting a new spark…

Trust your potential

You are so full of potential.

You are the universe and the universe is you.

Dripping in possibility.

Oozing in potency.

A new spark is igniting in your life now.

A spark that will create waves and mountains of momentum.

Trust in it. Hold it. Flow with it. Expand with it.

You have so much to look forward to.

You have so much to enjoy in the present moment.

Tune into your heart and tap into the magic.

You are surrounded by magic

the channeled message I’ve received over and over this week: you are magic 💫

you are surrounded by magic.

don’t be so serious and stifled by life all the time.

have ease, play, have pleasure.

see the world with child like eyes again.

innocence.

curiosity.

fun.

wonder.

love & positivity ✨ phi

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Be kind to yourself

Perhaps it's time for change...

Why is it that the person we are hardest on is ourselves?

We seem to be so understanding and compassionate towards others, yet we seem to forget ourselves.

Don’t be so hard on yourself beautiful soul, you are doing the best you can with whatever is going on right now.

You’ve been through so much already.

You are strong.

You are a survivor.

Life is already tough, you don’t need to be even tougher on yourself.

Perhaps you could bring more love to all parts of yourself?

Perhaps you could make peace with all the doubts and worries that snake around in your mind.

Perhaps you could meet yourself with more tenderness.

Perhaps it’s time to be less hard on yourself…

A gentle reminder

A gentle reminder and love letter from your heart and soul 🧡

You can do it all.

You are full of possibilities.

You have so much potential.

Yes, yes, yes!

You are also human (the best and most beautiful thing).

You will make mistakes.

You will get tired.

You may get sidetracked.

And that’s okay.

Remember that hate, shame and guilt will never fuel sustainable growth.

Let love lead the way always 🧡

love & positivity ✨ phi

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The pain behind the beauty

Turn your pain

Your pain and wounds need not be ugly.

They can be turned into something so beautiful.

You can turn your pain into pride for how far you have come.

You can turn your pain into love with a deep appreciation for your strength and character.

You can turn your pain into a means to validate how you are feeling, no matter what anyone else thinks.

You can turn your pain into an opening into your heart with great compassion for yourself and others.

You can turn your pain into the bedrock of your personal growth journey ahead.

You can turn your pain into your great rebirth as someone wiser and kinder than ever before.

You can turn your pain into a beautiful life no matter how rocky or difficult the path has been.

At any moment you can make it something so beautiful, beyond beauty…

Finding the beauty

we’ve been conditioned to believe that beauty only lies in the ideal and perfect 👁👄👁

pain can be a beautiful thing, it doesn’t have to be at all but it can be ❤️‍🩹

everyone’s experience is valid and different.

I hope you see the beauty in it all as I do in you – as you are – even if you’re going through it all

🥀 the beauty in the fall 🌹

🌹 the beauty in your tears 🥀

🥀 the beauty in your ache 🌹

there is so much beauty and beyond in the shadow & darkness if you only dare to see it… 🪄

love & positivity ✨ phi

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You will find love

On love...

I know how heavy your heart aches right now.

I know how it hurts to breathe.

I know it feels like your heart has shattered into a million pieces.

I know it feels like the tears will never end.

I know your heart is hurting and as if nothing else matters.

I know you are in so much pain.

I know you are skeptical of love.

I promise beautiful soul, one day when you are ready, your heart will open again.

You will find love again.

You will find love in an oversized t-shirt.

You will find love in flossing your teeth.

You will find love in the way the ocean kisses the shore.

You will find love in the glimmer of the stars.

You will find love again because it never left, it’s always been inside of you.

Acknowledge your broken heart

A broken heart is never easy, you question if it was worth even feeling love in the first place 💔

It absolutely is.

To feel every ounce of your broken heart – the sharp edges, the heavy beating, the drip of aching… is an exquisite reminder of your living, breathing human nature.

Your broken heart meant that love truly touched your heart… it didn’t just touch it… it consumed it, it merged with it, it became it ❤️‍🔥

The love you had, the love you gave, the love you received… it’s all you because you are love.

Sure you will find love again in another soul 💘 but never forget that the love already exists, always had and always will within you.

love & positivity ✨ phi

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Love is life

What happens to love...

What happens to love when we break up?

What happens to love when it’s unrequited and the other person doesn’t feel the same way?

What happens to love when they don’t even know you exist?

What happens to love when there are no labels?

What happens to love when they aren’t here anymore?

What happens to love when they forget about you and move on?

What happens to love when it gets complicated?

What happens to love when you keep trying but it never works out?

What happens to love when they ghost you and disappear?

What happens to love when they find it with someone else?

So, what happens to love?

It circulated. It continues. It is never wasted.

Love will always come back to you in one form or another.

Love is abundant.

Love is love.

More on love

I see you beautiful soul — you’ve got such a big heart and so much love to give.

It can feel so deflating when you’re capable of so much love and yet it feels like no one can hold it and embrace it like you do.

It feels like your heart is continuously broken and you feel hopeless.

As if there’s something wrong with you. Maybe you’re too much of a lover…

Don’t let moments of heartbreak, pain and suffering define love for you.

Love never ends.

Love transforms.

Here’s to love in all its forms, in all its magic, in its wholeness — the “good”, “bad”, “ugly”, “messy” and most of all beauty 🧡🌹

love & positivity ✨ phi

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The beautiful soul you are right now

Right NOW

The beautiful soul you are right now, has fought invisible battles and conquered wars with tender scars and a full heart.

The beautiful soul you are right now, has struggled in the seas of misery yet resurfaced to conquer the waves.

The beautiful soul you are right now, has had to die and hold funerals for past versions of self in order to be reborn.

The beautiful soul you are right now, has walked through fires of pain and suffering, to rise from the ashes.

The beautiful soul you are right now, has turned wounds into wisdom, anguish into achievement and trauma into triumph.

The beautiful soul you are right now thought they could not make it, yet here you are right now.

Celebrating your past, present and future

We all have had a past. Maybe it’s a past you’re not proud of, ashamed of, guilty of, sad of… and that’s okay.

Here’s the thing, without this past version of yourself, you would not be who you are today.

Celebrate yourself as you are right now 🥳

Growth isn’t just about what’s to come… it’s also about how far you’ve already come and where you are right now.

It’s a simultaneous duality.

You can be so proud of yourself and still have a long journey ahead

You can be sad about aspects of your old self yet love, hold and respect them at the same time.

You can be not happy with where you are right now, but know a brighter future is just around the corner after a dark past.

To be here now after all that you’ve been through… what you’ve seen, what you’ve felt… is absolutely incredible.

If no one else has told you today or ever before, I am so proud of you.

I am cheering you on.

You’re reading this for a reason.

Take it as the sign you’ve been waiting for.

Keep going 🧡

love & positivity ✨ phi

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Everything you need is within

A change of perspective...

Your reality reflects your inner world.

If you don’t like what you see, turn inwards not outwards.

Understanding your reality

For your whole life you’ve been conditioned to seek outside of yourself and this makes sense.

We are conceived in the uterus, grown in the womb and then ripped away into reality.

We grow up watching the media where it seems like all the answers are outside of ourselves.

Prince Charming, Make Up, Food, Gym, This Product, That Product.

Realise that everything you NEED is within… that you have the POWER.

The solution to your problems is WITHIN.

Look and find it within yourself instead of masking it with a bandage solution in your outer reality.

Notice how when you’re miserable inside, life falls apart on the outside. Parking fines, late bill charges, nothing seems to go right.

When you’re happy on the inside, physical reality is amazing you notice the birds chirping, the sun shining.

Further to that every person you meet and encounter is a mirror and their perspective of you is a reflection of them.

Inner world = Cause
Outer world = Effect

love & positivity ✨ phi

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Investing in your growth

The essence of you

People have no problem spending to grow.

To buy a house, a car, clothes, holidays… of all the things in life to grow, wouldn’t it be your soul?

The essence of who you are, the beating pulse of life, isn’t that your priority?

Investing in your growth

Why do you easily spend money on Uber eats or clothes without second thought but when it comes to you… your growth and expansion you hesitate and become fearful 🥴

Do you know where every dollar and minute of your time is being invested?

Mindset shift: instead of saying you can’t afford something what if you put it as… I’m choosing not to invest because this isn’t a priority right now…

And then you’ll understand why the people who do invest in their soul and self such as through 1:1 coaching live their dream lives and quantum leap vs those who don’t.

Access to money is a privilege for sure, what I know is that if I want something enough I’ll find a way to make it happen. That’s that. It might take a week or maybe even a year – again, I will make it happen.

So no excuses and realise your actions reflect your inner world.

You can’t be annoyed your stuck but you don’t want to invest to get unstuck 🥴

So if you’re ready to invest in yourself and soul, contact me – let’s work together through 1:1 coaching to help you shed old patterns and overcome your negative self talk so you can step into your power, to be happier + more confident ⚡️

love & positivity ✨ phi

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Self Love

You have a good heart

A gentle reminder...

Listen to your heart

Always choose yourself

This life is yours...

It's okay to be selfish

Igniting a new spark…

Trust your potential

You are surrounded by magic

Be kind to yourself

Perhaps it's time for change...

A gentle reminder

The pain behind the beauty

Turn your pain

Finding the beauty

You will find love

On love...

Acknowledge your broken heart

Love is life

What happens to love...

More on love

The beautiful soul you are right now

Right NOW

Celebrating your past, present and future

Everything you need is within

A change of perspective...

Understanding your reality

Investing in your growth

The essence of you

Investing in your growth

LIFE COACH & HUMAN DESIGN

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