Purpose Archives - Phi Dang, Human Design Life Coach Sydney

Resurrection isn’t a one-time miracle

Resurrection isn’t a one-time miracle – it’s the rhythm of your soul’s journey back to itself.

Your soul’s journey is not a linear path but a series of ebbs and flows, of rising and falling.

Much like the changing seasons, you may experience periods of stagnancy, reflection or even apparent “death” — only to rise again, reborn with fresh insight, energy and understanding.

Every moment of struggle or being stuck holds the potential for renewal, just as a seed must break apart before it can grow into something new.

Just as the rhythm of the earth has its seasons, so does the soul.

Every experience — whether joyful or painful — contributes to a greater understanding of who you truly are.

It’s in the small moments of self-discovery and reflection, when you confront your fears and limitations, that the soul begins to reclaim its power and authenticity.

Resurrection, therefore, is not a one time event — it’s the ongoing process of shedding old layers, unlearning, reawakening to your truth and embracing a deeper connection to yourself.

You are constantly in a state of resurrection, rising again and again, each time a little more whole, a little more aligned with your deepest desires and purpose.

This cyclical nature of transformation invites you to embrace the flow of life, knowing that each chapter, each twist and turn is part of the grand dance that leads you back to your fullest self 🫶🏽

More on the latest episode of my podcast Grow Through it with Phi Dang.

Ready to rise? For your next level, rebirth and rebrand? I got you 🧡 I offer 1:1 coaching, human design readings and retreats. Message me for more details.

This is the great unlearning

You think you’re behind but really – you’re breaking cycles that were never meant to be yours to carry. You’re setting boundaries instead of being a suffering martyr. You’re speaking up where others have stayed silent. You’re letting yourself feel, love and rest. You’re right where you need to be, healing timelines and making sure the ones who come after you will know what it feels like to be free.

You’re not behind—you’re just on a different timeline than the one you thought you had to follow. The version of you that feels late is measuring life by someone else’s milestones, but deep down… you know your path was never going to look like theirs.

This is the great unlearning.

You’re doing work that doesn’t show up on a highlight reel.

You’re breaking patterns that kept women before you stuck.

That kind of work is invisible—it doesn’t come with quick wins or applause. It’s can be slow, quiet and messy.

It takes time.

You don’t see it visible on social media like an engagement ring or bought sale sign on a home.

So if it feels like you’re moving slower than everyone else, it’s because you’re walking a path that wasn’t paved yet.

You’re not behind—you’re building something entirely new.

That doesn’t happen on anyone’s schedule but your own 👊🏽

Cheering you on 🥰

love & positivity ✨ phi

Life has been preparing you…

You don’t even know it yet, that everything you’ve been through is preparing you for something greater.

Sometimes life’s most challenging moments are actually the universe’s way of guiding you toward the next phase of your journey.

Whether it’s a career change, shifting friendships or changes in your relationship status, each of these moments is a chapter in your story of growth.

It’s easy to get caught up in the uncertainty and fear of the unknown, but remember—this is the moment that you’re being called to step into a version of yourself that is stronger, wiser and more aligned with your true desires.

Trust the process, even when it feels hard.

There’s power in the discomfort and on the other side of it, there’s a version of you that you’ve been waiting to become.

As your relationships evolve and your career shifts, it’s natural to feel a sense of loss or even doubt. But those endings?

They’re not permanent.

They’re simply the old chapters closing to make space for new ones.

This is your invitation to step into what you truly deserve, whether that’s a career that lights you up or friendships that support you at your highest level.

Let go of the stories that no longer serve you, and trust that the universe is creating space for the people, opportunities and experiences that align with your authentic self. It’s okay to shed what isn’t working because what’s coming is so much more aligned with your purpose.

Embrace the unknown with open arms, knowing that you are exactly where you need to be. The changes you’re experiencing aren’t signs of failure—they’re signs of courage, resilience and an unwavering belief in your potential.

The best is yet to come 🧡 and I’m so excited for you my love

love & positivity ✨ phi

What if discipline was an act of devotion?

Discipline has often been framed as something harsh, something that requires relentless willpower, restriction and forcing yourself to do things even when you don’t want to 😩This mindset creates burnout, resentment and a disconnection from your deeper why… your purpose.

The Unlearning: True consistency comes from love, not rigid self-punishment. When you shift from force to devotion, everything changes.

Devotion is fuelled by purpose, by the deep knowing that you want to show up—not because you have to, but because you get to. The most sustainable discipline is the kind that honours your rhythms and is rooted in care rather than control.

This year, in 2025, I’ve really honed in on what it means to approach discipline from a place of love—especially when it comes to my spiritual practices and physical health.

In the past, discipline felt like force, like something I had to do to be good enough, productive enough, or worthy enough.

But I’ve learned that true discipline isn’t about punishment; it’s about devotion.

Making time to exercise, to move my body, to show up for my practices—it’s not about fixing myself, but about caring for myself.

When discipline is rooted in love, it stops feeling like a chore and starts feeling like a sacred commitment to your own well being. And that shift changes everything.

This was an excerpt from my 100th podcast episode if this resonated and you want to hear more 🎧 grow through it podcast with phi dang. If you like the concept of unlearning, check out my book 📖 the great unlearning.

love & positivity ✨ phi

I offer 1:1 coaching, human design readings and retreats (Vietnam in May and Bali this August 2025). Message me for more details and let’s chat ☺️

You’re wasting energy worrying about this…

What if I told you that other people’s opinions are none of your business? Think about it—how much of your life have you spent filtering your words, shrinking your dreams or hesitating to take up space just to avoid judgment? And for what…? 🤔

It’s completely understandable why you’re worried about what other people think. You care deeply and that is a reflection of your heart 🧡 Wanting to be seen in a positive light is human, and it’s okay to feel this way. Just remember, your worth isn’t measured by outside opinions — you are already enough, just as you are.

No matter what you do, someone will always have an opinion. But their opinions don’t pay your bills, build your dreams or live with the consequences of your choices — you do.

The truth is when you start living for yourself instead of for approval, you become unstoppable. You stop performing and start existing fully, unapologetically.

You realise that the people who truly matter will celebrate your authenticity, not your ability to conform.

And the ones who judge?

They were never your people to begin with. Imagine the freedom of not needing to explain yourself, justify your desires or seek permission to take up space. That’s the power of owning who you are.

So sure I have my moments as any human does but the answer is no. I’m not worried about what people think — I’m focused on what I think.

And I want the same for you. Because the moment you stop seeking external validation, you start leading your own life.

When you do that, you inspire other people around you to do the same 👊🏽

As a woman in your 30’s you should be…

You should be married, settled down, happy in a traditional job with a steady income thanks to your uni degree, done with travel, own your home.

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By this age, I should be married, “settled,” working a traditional job tied to the degree I earned in my 20s, and maybe even owning a home with a picket fence. But those expectations? They were never mine to begin with.

As a woman in her 30’s who is single, traveling the world more than even in my 20’s as an entrepreneur, I’ve had to unlearn a lot of societal gender norms that once felt like rules and restrictive timelines.

They’re old school hand me downs from a society that measures women’s success by how well they fit into a script that hasn’t evolved fast enough with modern women.

I’ve realised that fulfillment doesn’t have a one size fits all formula. For me, it’s about exploring new cultures, building something of my own, and having the freedom to design a life that reflects me, not what others expect.

It’s been a process of unlearning — peeling back those ingrained beliefs, recognizing they were never about my happiness, and giving myself permission to live fully, on my terms.

Unlearning isn’t easy, but every step away from those old stories is a step toward a life that feels authentic, free, and unapologetically mine.

love & positivity ✨ phi

If this is your vibe and you’re ready to break free from the mold to live life on your terms, let’s work together. It’s time to create a life that’s authentically, unapologetically yours 🤤 I offer 1:1 coaching, human design readings and retreats. Message me and let’s chat 💬

Aaaand — if this is the life you have, I hope you chose it! This isn’t to take away from that at all. Your life is valid and beautiful if it brings you joy and fulfillment. The message here is simply that it doesn’t have to be this way. There’s no single path to happiness or success, and every woman should feel empowered to define these things for herself ❤️‍🔥

The 2024 season has come to an end

The end of 2024 feels like closing a chapter filled with both challenges and breakthroughs.

Personally, from my heart to yours it has been a year of deep introspection, growth, and leaning into the discomfort of change. From moving homes multiple times, a relationship ending to my biggest months in business ever, scaling into a company and spending 1/4 of the year abroad from Sydney to Bali to India.

This year marked my first in my thirties, and I can genuinely say I feel like I’ve matured in more ways than usual years. There’s been a steadiness in how I show up for myself, a quiet strength in navigating life’s curveballs, and a deepening sense of self awareness.

A major highlight was running my first retreat recharge and renew in bali august 24’ —a dream come true to hold space for women to connect, transform, and find their flow. Next year, I’m thrilled to be expanding on this, with 3 x retreats in 2025.

I am so incredibly proud and grateful to work with incredible souls in awe of their transformations; from launching businesses to achieving 7 – 8 figures. Leaving unaligned relationships to becoming mothers. Accelerating long due job promotions and more women becoming wealthy and abundant than ever before ⚡️ the women and men I work with are truly amazing 🥹 (#proudcoach)

The growth I’ve experienced this year directly reflects the work I guide my clients through—ready to step into their power, embrace change, and align their lives with their deepest desires.

Whether it’s helping you navigate life changes or transitions,
launch or scale a business or live a life that makes you feel so excited to wake up, my mission is to hold space for your transformation and lovingly support you.

Here’s to 2025 and I invite you to join me—whether it’s through retreats, 1:1 coaching, or a human design reading. Let’s make 2025 the year you claim your fullest, most radiant self. Are you ready? 🚀

Your 20’s are meant to be imperfect

Your 20’s are meant to be imperfect…

Life doesn’t magically “come together” after a certain age, and that’s the beauty of it.

Especially as you approach and move through your Saturn return—a powerful energetic period typically in your late 20s to early 30s—you’ll find yourself questioning, breaking down, and rebuilding.

This time invites you to face reality, let go of what isn’t aligned, and step into the next chapter of your life (I do specific Saturn return readings to help you navigate this rite of passage!)

For me, my Saturn return felt like a cosmic wake-up call. I experienced corporate burnout, found myself in debt, getting out of it and had to reevaluate the path I was on, which ultimately led me to becoming a life coach. It wasn’t a straight line, but every twist and turn became part of my foundation.

It doesn’t end with the Saturn return, we also have our Uranus opposition in our late 30s to 40s, Chiron return in our 50s, another Saturn return… many astrological passages + chapters (yes I do readings for those too!)

Imperfection never stops for anyone it shifts because we are al human! I have navigated the heartbreaks of relationships ending, the ups and downs of being an entrepreneur, and the chaos of moving homes.

Every step came growth: patience, resilience, and learning to trust that the discomfort wasn’t punishment—it was preparation.

Through it all, I’ve learned that success isn’t about a flawless life; it’s about how deeply you show up for yourself, even when it’s hard.

Life is not about perfection; it’s about presence, purpose, and progress. So if you’re in the thick of it, especially during your Saturn return, know this: you are not behind, you are not broken, and you are not alone. The mess is where you meet yourself—and that’s where the magic happens.

If you’re looking for support, growth and business I got you 🧡 I offer 1:1 coaching, human design readings and retreats. Message me 💌

There’s something bigger planned for you

Maybe life has something bigger planned for you, and that’s why things don’t unfold the way you thought they would or had hoped.

Sometimes, what you think is best for you may not align with the deeper potential you hold. The universe has a way of steering you toward experiences and opportunities that match your true alignment, even if they don’t fit within the framework of your original plans.

It’s in those moments of uncertainty and redirection that life often reveals something greater, something you couldn’t have imagined but are exactly what you need for your growth.

It doesn’t mean that it’s easy, because honestly, dealing with the unexpected can be really tough. When life takes a turn that you didn’t anticipate, it’s natural to feel disappointed, frustrated, or even heartbroken.

Letting go of what you thought would happen and embracing the unknown is a process that requires courage and faith. It’s hard to surrender when you’ve put so much time, energy, and hope into a particular outcome, only to have things go in a completely different direction. That’s the reality—sometimes it’s painful, and sometimes it feels unfair.

But even in those difficult moments, there’s an opportunity for growth. When you face the discomfort of uncertainty, you’re invited to build resilience, trust, and patience. It’s a chance to deepen your connection with yourself and the universe, to lean into the idea that there’s a larger force at play. It’s in those hard, messy moments that you often discover your strength and capacity to adapt.

The path might not be easy, but every challenge you face equips you with the tools you need to navigate future obstacles. I believe in you beautiful soul, you’ve got this! Should you want or need support, guidance I got you. I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings, get in touch I am here for you 🧡

The sun still rises

Maintaining hope during difficult times doesn’t mean pretending everything is fine when it isn’t. It means acknowledging the pain and feelings while still choosing to believe in a better future.

Hope fuels resilience, helping you bounce back from setbacks and build your inner strength. Each challenge faced is a testament to your ability to persevere, even when the odds seem stacked against you. In the midst of a tough season, it’s important to remind yourself that these moments won’t last forever.

Challenges are temporary, even if they feel overwhelming in the present. Just as the sun rises after the darkest night, so too will you find light after periods of turbulence and uncertainty.

Every person, no matter how successful, wealthy, or seemingly happy, faces moments of difficulty.

It’s easy to look at others and assume their lives are free from hardship, but beneath the surface, everyone experiences their own struggles.

We often compare our worst moments to someone else’s best, but this comparison is neither fair nor accurate.

The truth is… life’s challenges are universal. They are part of being human. In a way this can be comforting to know.

What matters most is not avoiding difficulty, pain or hardship, but how you choose to respond to it.

One choice and aspect is to hold onto hope, there is healing and joy to come. What’s important is to have support and find aligned ways of healing and moving forward for you. You don’t have to do this alone and you aren’t meant to ❤️‍🩹

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