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  • And suddenly you’re older

    And suddenly you’re older. Fear hits you like a truck as does the anxiety and panic.

    Here’s the the thing, what a privilege it is to age. You are also wiser. You are also stronger. You are also more resilient. 

    Age has made you more agile and adaptable. 

    You’ll never be as young as you are right now. Your spirit is eternal. Your spirit is endless. The sum of who you are in this moment is every age that you’ve been. 

    Think of who you’ve been before, who you are now and who you are becoming. That is oh so very beautiful.

    Society often portrays aging, especially for women, as something to be feared or avoided. But aging is a natural, inevitable part of life that brings wisdom, experience, and new opportunities.

    Marilyn Ferguson rightly says “Of all the self-fulfilling prophecies in our culture the assumption that aging means decline and poor health is probably the deadliest.”

    People immediately think of everything to lose with age and forget that with loss comes so much gain…

    Experience

    Self Acceptance

    New Opportunities and Possibilities

    Growth

    What is forgotten is that your soul is ageless.

    “How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?”

    More on this in a new episode of my podcast (#77) 🎧 Grow Through It Podcast with Phi Dang

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    If you like my writing, you’ll love my book! 📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang

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  • You have a higher calling in life

    You have a higher calling and your life is meant for more. You know it. Trust in what your heart is telling you. You aren’t here for approval, you are here for purpose. Cycles are closing and your timing is here. It’s time to embrace the magic in the unpredictability of it all.

    It’s a love hate relationship with unpredictability in life.

    It keeps it interesting and we thrive in being challenged to flexible and adaptable.

    Yet our mind and physiology craves stability inherently. Our mind wants to control not surrender.

    There really is a magic in not knowing every single detail and every thing 🪄

    How can you lean in? 🎢

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • When life doesn’t go the way you planned

    Maybe life has a better plan...

    So maybe your life hasn’t gone in the direction you wanted or expected so far. It doesn’t mean the destination won’t be worthwhile. Just maybe where you end up, will be more than you ever dreamt of or desired for yourself. Perhaps life has been waiting for you to let go of the life you envisioned for yourself because life has bigger plans awaiting for you. The only way to find out is to keep going, your journey is not over yet, in fact maybe it’s just begun…

     

    When life isn't what you thought it would be

    What happens when you realise that your life looks nothing like what you wanted or hoped for?

    When you feel disappointed, frustrated, lost, sad amongst many other emotions.

    I can definitely relate with moments in my life having hopes and expectations.

    Nowadays I live a life that looks nothing like what I expected but it truly is better than what I had ever dreamed of for myself. It didn’t always look or feel that way, sprinkled amongst the ways have been moments… the dark nights of the soul, rock bottom… but from the darkness came the light. The light was always there, I just couldn’t connect at that point in time. I was too in the weeds that I lost the bigger picture.

    Life isn't in your full control

    There are things beyond our control — a total mystery and it’s so understandable to feel an array of often quite intense emotions.

    Life is made up of moments and some of them will have you questioning if you’ve got it right, been doing it right and on the right path…

    Ultimately what I’ve personally experienced and seen in my clients lives is when it doesn’t look a thing like what you envisioned… your journey isn’t over yet. We are seeing one part of it.

    The bigger picture

    It could be the moment amongst a few more before the breakthrough.

    What can keep you going is knowing that it’s not done or over, your journey is still unfolding.

    There’s reasons why it’s unfolding as it is that you don’t understand right now or can’t comprehend. When it all does eventually come together, just maybe you will.

    Keep going 🦋

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • What is meant to be will find it’s way

    This message was meant to find you;

    Relying on faith can be overwhelming.

    At times you’ll need a moment to take it all in.

    You can’t mess it up.

    It’s yours.

    All you have to do is believe in the process and continue your journey.

    It might take a day, maybe a year but what is meant for you will always find it’s way to you.

    Why the wait? Why the pain?

    The waiting, the gap, the in between, the changes, the transitions, the meantime… they all serve a necessary purpose. Even delays and detours are part of it.

    You will arrive at the perfect time, as the exact person you need to be, ready.

    Eventually everything will work out.

    It always does.

    Take a deep breath in and let go. Hold your power and vision. Everything will fall into place. You don’t have to worry about anything. Have faith.

    📖 The Great Unlearning by Phi Dang

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  • New beginnings aren’t perfect…

    Everything will be okay

    You don’t have to have a happy start or beginning.

    Maybe it’s been mediocre.

    Maybe it’s been messy.

    Maybe it’s been confusing.

    Maybe it’s been just down right terrible and that’s okay.

    It doesn’t mean the journey or the destination won’t work out.

    Don’t overthink things.

    Take it step by step, moment by moment.

    Be kind to yourself.

    Give yourself love, compassion and grace.

    Everything will be okay.

    YOU set the tone

    Not so happy new year? 😕 Guess what?

    It’s okay!

    It doesn’t set the tone for the rest of what’s to come… it won’t define the year ahead, it won’t unless you let it…

    I remember starting 2023 in a strange place, everything on paper was perfect yet I wasn’t fully “happy” and “lit up” off the back of a breakup and the anniversary of my dads death and birthday… yet I ended up having one of the best years of my life in 2023 🥰

    I got to work with amazing clients, have the biggest month of my business, release my debut book 📖 The Great Unlearning, travel internationally, spend time with friends and family and met my now new partner 🫶🏽

    New beginnings can be overwhelming even when you’re excited.

    Allow yourself the grace and love to feel it all.

    After all life is a duality of high highs, low lows and everything in between.

    What matters is your mindset. Your perspective, what is IN your control.

    You set the tone. You set the pace.

    You have power.

    Enjoy the journey!

    Here’s to your growth and expansion in 2024.

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  • Happy Human Design New Year!

    Happy Human Design New Year!

    Fantasy.

    Imagination.

    Contraction.

    Inspired action.

    Feel it.

    What is the energy?

    The way human design sees the new year is a whole new cycle of experience.

    Human Design New Year for many is very much about intentions over resolutions or goals because the majority of the population have an open heart, which is the centre for motivation and willpower.

    When it’s open you have inconsistent access to your own motivation and willpower therefore if you do happen to have an open heart, please don’t beat yourself, get annoyed and frustrated when you seemingly seem so motivated one minute and the the next not, that’s how you are designed and built to be in human design.

    From my experience doing hundreds of reasons, it is about unlearning the societal expectation to always be working towards something and instead getting you to shift into the being. We all have some seasons, move and flow with your energy instead of blocking it.

    The human design energy itself is fantasy, imagination, possibilities, contraction, inspired action.

    This is the week to dream big but also to come up with a plan to make it happen — big dreams, grounded in reality.

    There are several ways to tap into this energy mainly imagination and what I have channeled sensuality 👀

    More on this on the latest episode 🎧 Grow Through It with Phi Dang episode 61 Human Design New Year.

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  • Here’s to recapping the highs and lows

    Life isn't just a highlight reel

    because life isn’t just a highlight reel, don’t let social media fool you!

    2023 has been one of the best years of my life and no it wasn’t happy and positive all of the time…

    It was actually a year that started amazing on paper but despite all the surface level stuff: a thriving business, incredible home, freedom lifestyle, abundance, loving and supportive friends and family yet something felt missing and it was worse because according to society I had the life and things that “should” make you happy…

    What is was… was a year I gave myself permission and allowed myself to truly feel it all. To make mistakes. To try again.

    A year I unlearned a lot that didn’t serve me so that I loved myself more deeply than I ever had and in turn started the year single and am ending it with a partner.

    A year where I had moments I didn’t think I would make it through but I did. A year filled with lows I had never felt with highs and joys too 🥹🥲

    I hope you give yourself permission to be so proud of yourself no matter how the year went and know that at any moment, you can change and so can your life.

    So heres to another year 🫶🏽🥰

    It doesn’t have to be the 31st when you let everything go nor does it have to be the 1st to start everything over. Whenever you decide is right for you.

    And if you’re looking for support and guidance… 🙋🏼‍♀️ here’s your sign I can’t wait to work with you either through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading… contact me 🧡

    If no one else has told you — I’m proud of you! I hope you give yourself the grace and love to be more you, to embrace yourself and life to its fullest and enjoy the ride 🌊

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • The year you make it happen…

    2024 is your year...

    2024 is your year.

    The year you call it in, everything you dream and desire of.

    The year you release, everything that holds you back.

    The year you embrace, all opportunities and possibilities.

    The year you do, whatever nourishes and lights up your soul.

    The year you love, nurture and worship every aspect of you.

    The year you are truly seen, heard and cherished for who you are.

    The year everything you asked for is in the process of manifesting.

    The year that makes up for all the other years… the year.

    The year you make it happen

    It’s going to be the year that makes up for all other years, the year where it all starts to click and fall into place ✨

    The year you make it happen, following those intuitive nudges and taking inspired action focused on the vision, trusting in the process and allowing it to unfold in the perfect timing and way in accordance with the universe ☁️

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Ready to have the best year yet? Let’s work together through 1:1 coaching and/or a human design reading 🧡

    📖 if you enjoy my writing you’ll love my book; The Great Unlearning

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  • To truly be alive…

    On your death bed...

    On your death bed, you won’t wish you’d worked more hours.

    You’ll wish you spent less time working and more time with your loved ones.

    On your death bed, you won’t wish your body was different.

    You will wish you appreciated your body more for its strength and grace.

    On your death bed, you won’t wish you were just like everyone else.

    You will wish you stayed true to yourself and stood out from the masses.

    What you should be afraid of is never truly living…

    To be truly alive...

    What’s scary? To have an unlived life.

    What will it take for you to truly realise life is precious?

    There is no guarantee in life except that you will die. This is death’s greatest gift to us.

    Knowing this is an opportunity to live.

    To truly be alive ❤️‍🔥

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  • Good things are coming

    Move at your own pace

    Old energy is clearing and the new is ready to rush in.

    In the meantime, be kind to your mind, be kind to your body, be kind to your heart and be kind to your soul.

    Move at your own pace.

    The good is inevitable.

    Better days are on their way.

    Good things are coming

    Good things are coming.

    Good things are waiting for you.

    Good things are about to happen.

    Life has its high and lows. Life has its setbacks. The weight of sadness, grief and pain. The ache of a broken heart and stress of an overwhelmed mind. The frustration you feel being stuck with nowhere to go. The paralysis of anxiety and perfectionism. The yearning for hope and relief… there is more to come.

    📖 The Great Unlearning by Phi Dang
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    love & positivity ✨ phi

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