Purpose
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What does it mean to truly love?
This is the beauty of life
With deep love, comes deep grief.
The two are intertwined.
A beautiful lifelong dance of tension, light and joy with shadow and heartbreak.
To love is to expand your heart beyond your deep-seated fears, doubts and vulnerabilities.
With that opening comes not only expansion and bliss but smashed pieces.
No matter what happens in this life, beautiful soul, never close your heart.
Never regret a fleeting moment.
Never regret moments that feel like eternity, even if they don’t last forever.
It is through this opening that we receive.
We feel it all.
We ache in our humanness.
This is the beauty of life.
We feel, we feel it all so deeply it shakes us to our core and wake up the divinity within us.
Expand your heart...
What does it mean to truly love? To truly love is to…
Expand your heart beyond your deep-seated fears, doubts and vulnerabilities.
With that opening comes not only expansion and bliss but smashed pieces.
No matter what happens in this life, beautiful soul, never close your heart. Never regret a fleeting moment. Never regret moments that feel like eternity, even if they don’t last forever.
It is through this opening that we receive. We feel it all. We ache in our humanness. This is the beauty of life. We feel, we feel it all so deeply it shakes us to our core and wakes up the divinity within us.
Inspired by the duality of love I have experienced brought out by the grief and loss of it. My dad passing away when I had just turned 20 years old. Break ups that have had me crying on my knees.
Read more… 📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang
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What’s meant to be will be
Have faith...
Have faith that it will all work out.
What’s meant to be will be.
Even if it looks or feels like it won’t.
Even when you think everything is going wrong.
Even when you feel discouraged and want to give up.
At times it will be overwhelming.
At times it may be heavy.
At times you’ll need a moment to take it all in.
You can’t mess it up.
It’s yours.
All you have to do is trust the process and continue on your journey.
It might take a day or maybe it’ll take years but what is meant for you will always find its way to you, even if it’s a roundabout way.
The waiting, the gap, the in between, the changes, the transitions, the meantime… they all serve a necessary purpose.
Even delays and detours are part of it.
You will arrive at the perfect time, as the exact person you need to be, ready.
Eventually everything will work out.
It always does.
Take a deep breath and let go.
Hold your power and vision.
Everything will fall into place.
You don’t have to worry about anything.
Have trust and have faith.
The Great Unlearning...
📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang (hi that’s me 🙋🏼♀️)
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love & positivity ✨ phi
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The greatest gift of all
I hope you remember...
When everything seems too hard, I hope you remember the strength and resilience that has kept you here despite all the hardships and heartache you’ve endured.
I hope you remember how deeply you’re loved.
I hope you remember how much you’ve grown.
I hope you remember the purity and innocence of your heart, with its vast capacity to love.
I hope you remember how incredible it is that you’re here and get to experience the greatest gift of all: life.
Despite it all...
Because better days are on their way… ✨ and you still being despite it all, breathing, believing is truly a gift in itself 🌟
An excerpt from my book – The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life
Available 23 June 2023 worldwide.
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Honour your truth
Honouring your inner truth
Exercise the ultimate act of self-love, honouring your inner truth even when it is painful.
This means walking away from and letting go of what no longer serves you.
Maybe it’s a job, relationship or location.
It’s breaking free from what boxes you in – the pressure of society, the weight of what other people think and your own beliefs.
When everything falls away, one thing will always remain: the truth.
It cannot be ignored.
You can live in ignorance, but the truth won’t.
There will be days when loving being yourself will be tough.
Sometimes all you can do is love a tiny bit more than yesterday and that is more than enough.
Sometimes growth means walking away
Can you really hear yourself? Your soul; your true inner voice? Or are you weighed down by other voices: conditioning, programming, culture, the outside world.
Honour your truth.
That may be painful for others but you owe yourself the love and dedication you so willingly give to others.
Sometimes life and growth means walking away 🌱
Making space and letting go for a new door to open 🚪
On the other side is everything you could’ve wanted and more, are you brave enough to open it?
An excerpt from my upcoming book — The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life
Available for preorder world wide, out June 23 2023.
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Strong soul…
Life doesn't get easier, you get stronger
Even when a storm comes and rocks you, there is safety within.
It’s not about what’s happening around you on the outside world, it’s about what’s happening inside of you, your internal world.
It’s easy to be strong when life is going the way you want it.
It’s easy to be strong when positivity comes naturally.
Real strength comes from braving the storms, riding the waves and withstanding the hurricanes.
Life doesn’t get easier, you get stronger.
Strong soul
There are times in life where you have to sit in the discomfort; the pain; the unpleasant; the chaos 🌀
These are the times where you are being called to go within.
To tap into your inner strength; inner resilience; inner essence.
These are the times you get to know your true self — your soul that cannot be messed with.
Your power isn’t determined on controlling the outside, it’s from calming and braving the inside.
Your world, your domain ⚔️
As Haruki Murakami says: “When you come out of the storm, you won’t be the same person who walked in. That’s what this storm’s all about.” ⛈️
An excerpt from my upcoming book — The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life
Available for pre-order worldwide, releasing June 23 2023.
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I’m grateful for…
I'm grateful for...
I’m grateful for all that my heart feels.
I’m grateful for the way it beats with pride and joy.
I’m grateful in the way it floats with excitement and swells with tenderness.
I’m grateful when it feels heavy and anchored.
I’m grateful when it feels like it’s being crushed alive.
I’m grateful when it swoons with delight and wonder.
I’m grateful when it beats slowly and gently.
I’m grateful when it races to the rush and thrill of it all.
I’m grateful when it aches and I feel every time it bleeds.
I’m grateful when it rushes off the cliff and suspends itself for a moment in time.
I’m grateful because my heart reminds me I’m alive.
Allow yourself to feel it all
With all the emotions arising from the potent energies we’ve experienced; it is my hope that you let them flow like water.
Allow yourself to feel it all.
Every layer.
Every shift.
Every ounce.
Be in the flow instead or resisting it.
And then you will feel free… 🦋
An excerpt from my debut book — The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life
Available for preorder world wide, releasing June 23 2023
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Welcome to the darkening of the light
Dark & Light
Welcome to the darkening of the light.
Just like winter or the dark night of the soul, we need darkness to ultimately find the light.
We need darkness as a veil to what is growing beneath the surface.
What surfaces is your endurance to channel your crisis into change.
It is time to surrender your heart and soul to the universe.
Shed like a snake what no longer serves you.
Let go and flow with where the steam of life wants you to go.
Listen to the rhythm and beat of your heart.
Surrender your soul to the alluring pull of what you desire.
Release your fears and doubts, child of the universe.
The stars and angels are always supporting you.
You are exactly where you need to be right now.
When the world is dark your inner light shines bright.
Allow yourself to change...
🎢 Life is a rollercoaster of experiences and emotions driven by the highest of highs and lowest of lows.
The feels can be excruciating.
To feel so deeply.
Heartache and pain contrasted with liberation and ecstasy.
From a spiritual point of view our soul chose to get on this ride.
To learn.
To grow.
To expand.
Your soul is hungry for experiences and emotions that nudge you into alignment.
The depth of darkness and shadow you feel also opens up the limitless love and joy you can also feel.
Allow yourself to change.
Allow yourself to merge with your shadow.
On this rollercoaster of life one minute we are up and the next we are down… and it will continue to go on. Otherwise wouldn’t life be boring?
Enjoy it for all that life is – it’s only temporary anyway!
An excerpt from my upcoming debut book available for pre-order worldwide—
The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang
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CHANGES…
Change pushes you to expand...
Why do you only want change if it’s on your terms?
That is not how change works.
Change pushes you to expand.
The circumstances of life and the universe will show you what is happening.
Some doors are closed to redirect you.
A door to another path will open and show you another way of doing things.
Rejection is protection.
You cannot control the pace of change.
It just happens and is inevitable, so you might as well embrace it because you’ll emerge stronger, wiser and smarter than before.
Trust and surrender...
There’s one common thing that most of us do that stops us from growing and changing 👀
That very thing?
The desire to control.
So very human of us.
You are a powerful creator collaborating with the universe and life force itself.
You’ll find your life fill with more ease when you realise the only thing you can control is you.
Your inner reality.
Choosing what thoughts you’ll follow and go into the rabbit hole with.
Choose your perspective on the world and what you’ll do with those feelings.
Choose your impact on the world through the way you move and what you do.
No matter how hard you try — you cannot control life.
It’s the beauty of life, it will unfold as it should.
Trust and surrender beautiful soul 🌊
Let go of the heavy need to control it all because you can’t and why would you want to?
It would be a heavy task and where’s the fun in that?
Enjoy the ride 🦋
📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang
Now available for pre-order worldwide at all good online retailers and bookstores, releasing June 2023.
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Who are you?
The jigsaw puzzle of life
Stories aren’t just found in fairy tales, books and movies.
We live inside stories that our mind creates and identifies with.
Our brain pieces these stories together to create the ultimate story of ‘me’.
The voice inside your head has created ‘you’ by weaving together pieces of your past experiences and what you believe to be true.
It all then pieces together like a jigsaw puzzle.
Only certain pieces make it into this jigsaw puzzle.
The great unlearning...
So who are YOU really? You aren’t these stories, you are what’s beneath them all. Pure consciousness — soul.
Have you observed this story telling?
The stories vou believe in the form of “l”.
I am the type of person who…
I am not like that because…
I am not worthy because..
I believe that…
I am right because…
The stories make us feel a certain way, the stories have us act a certain way.
Your true self doesn’t identify with the stories.
Your true self is in your expression, being, essence and knowing.
There’s nothing to defend, assert, prove or cling onto.
You haven’t done this knowingly – it has instinctively happened through your experiences and conditioning.
You aren’t who you think you are – you are the presence underneath and behind all the layers.
You awaken to your true self when you become conscious of this and free yourself from the stories.
You are.
So freeing, so powerful – to break free from the stories and simply be.
This is the great unlearning…
An excerpt from my debut book “The Great Unlearning — Awakening to Living An Aligned and Authentic Life”
Currently available for preorder in Australia via Booktopia or Amazon (link in bio), International preorders opening soon via Amazon and Book Depository. Releases worldwide June 23rd 2023.
love & positivity ✨ phi