Mindset
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It’s all yours
If it is meant for you...
I know sometimes it pains you beautiful soul, to think about what could have, should have or may have been… here’s the thing, we think we have the right person, opportunity, job, whatever it may be at the wrong time but if it was meant to be… the timing would be right too.
You haven’t lost out or messed it up somehow.
What is meant for you will always find its way to you even if it has to come back later.
If it is meant for you, it will always be for you and only you.
Trust me when I say it’s yours.
No matter how long it takes.
No matter how it comes.
No matter the blocks, challenges, obstacles and set backs.
It’s all yours.
This or something better
Save yourself from the what if or if only… if it’s meant to be it will be. No ifs, buts bla bla.
You’ll torture yourself with these.
No need to obsess.
No need to ache over all the different timelines and possibilities.
It’s not right, if there’s one thing off… 😪
The universe only wants what is best for you at the best time.
In fact the one thing off may be the very thing the universe is using to protect you from what is not yours or greater pain.
All in divine timing and order.
If it’s not what you desired, something better is coming.
My favourite mantra right now?
“This or something better!”
Trust in the timing of your life, it’s led you to be where you are exactly right now as who you are meant to be right now.
Move past the over thinking and ease into the inner peace you so rightly deserve.
And so if you’re reading this, it’s your sign. It wasn’t meant to be right now or back then and it’s okay – bigger and better things are coming.
Patience beautiful soul, it will be worth it!
love & positivity ✨ phi -
Open your heart
Open your heart
Beautiful soul, I know it feels like at times, life isn’t pretty or kind to you – even though you have the biggest heart.
Don’t harden your heart, don’t close off your heart.
Your heart is meant to be open.
With time you will understand why you had to go through the clouds for the sun to shine.
The tears you shed are clearing and making way for your desired path.
You asked for change and for new beginnings.
Let your tears dry and your light shine brighter than ever before.
The very heart that beats in your chest can hold so much pain but it’s this very heart that can hold and expand with so much love.
Better days are coming
It’s easy to cut yourself off from loving and feeling more deeply in fact it’s evolutionarily instinctual to protect yourself.
It’s harder to remain open and loving yet despite it all, do so.
A big heart is a beautiful thing.
Life can be cruel we know that but don’t let that discourage you.
Better days are coming.
One day you’ll look back and realize why everything has unfolded the way it has.
Keep going 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi -
Trust your journey
You have not seen it all...
Trust how your journey is unfolding.
I know at times it’s so hard.
Not everyone is going to support you or understand it.
I know it’s hard to have faith.
I know it can be at times so hard to believe.
Beautiful soul, you have not seen it all.
Every moment is a precious part of your path unfolding.
Do what you can from where you are.
Keep going, it’s all coming together perfectly.
Simply being
Just because you don’t know exactly how it unfold, when, how, where and all the details… just because you can’t see it right now – it doesn’t mean that it isn’t happening.
Trust that every piece of the jigsaw is coming together, that everything is unfolding exactly as it should.
You cannot rush it.
You cannot slow it down.
All you can do is simply be.
Relax and surrender.
Don’t reach the destination and forget the beauty of the journey.
Don’t reach the destination, wondering how you even got there in the first place because time slipped by.
Don’t reach the destination resentful of how it came to be instead of being so full of love, joy, gratitude and expansion.
You have not seen it all yet.
You have not felt it all yet.
That’s the magic and beauty of the journey 💫
love & positivity ✨ phi -
Love is always worth it
Love is always worth it...
On love.
Continue to open your heart again even after it’s been crushed.
Continue to try even though you’ve been disappointed.
Continue to let down your walls even when your heart wants to remain guarded.
Continue to be your most authentic self even though it’s scary because you deserve to be loved as you are.
Continue to feel it all, the highs and lows because feeling is so beautiful.
Continue to believe in the magic and joy of love.
Because love, is always worth it.
It might not always be with the right person, but one day it will be.
Always, always, always.
Love.
Being in love
I know you’ve been hurt and disappointed not by love itself but your experiences in searching and experiencing love.
How can a heart hurt and yearn so much?
From fiery passion to empty silence.
To taste a glimpse of paradise and eternity for it to crumble into ashes.
When you let down your walls and the vulnerability of it all.
When you go first and they don’t follow.
For all the aches, for all the tears, for all the disappointment continue to love deeply.
Because love is always worth it.
Love will never let you down, sometimes people will and that’s okay.
Not everyone is ready for the depth and magnitude of your precious beating heart and that’s okay.
One day you’ll be with someone who is and you will understand the journey it took to be wholly and fully with love… in love.
love & positivity ✨ phi -
Who you are becoming
Lessons from life...
You can’t rush who you are becoming.
Life will unnerve you and take away all that you thought you needed.
The security.
The comfort.
Life will make you question the twists and turns leading to anger, angst and agony.
Life will send a quaking storm to shake you up and present a new fork in the road.
Life will strip you down to your heart and soul, laying bare your inner truth.
Life will throw sharp curveballs you least expect.
Life will have you reeling from feeling so raw and vulnerable.
Life will have you digging deeper into your own self, the roots and foundation of who you really are.
Trust in this all, beautiful soul, because life is unfolding more of who you really are, in all its beautiful, wild, messy and divine timing.
You are exactly the person you need to be right now, here in this very moment.
Growth isn't linear...
What’s the rush? There is no race. Often what feels like blocks and delays is the universe protecting you, keeping you on track for divine timing or even redirecting you.
It’s all happening for you not to you.
Life isn’t meant to be easy and breezy all the time and going perfectly to plan because if it was… what’s the point?
It would be boring.
Life is about growing and expanding that often happens most profoundly and deeply when you are uncomfortable and feeling into your edges.
Life is not static and neither are you.
You are becoming someone you haven’t been before, be patient – slow growth is beautiful too.
Growth isn’t linear either it curls, goes sideways, plunges, shoots back up, stalls you get the point…
Know here right now as you’re reading this, in this moment you are exactly who you need to be and exactly where you are meant to be.
love & positivity ✨ phi -
Life is happening FOR you…
Life is happening FOR you, not TO you
You think your life is falling apart when really it is coming together.
With every heartbreak you are moving closer towards the one you’re meant to be with… the one you choose over and over again.
With every rejection you’re being redirected to the path that serves you best.
With every morsel of pain, your wounds will heal and drip into wisdom.
With every disappointment, the smiles of tomorrow will be a soothing balm.
With every tear, you move closer to your divinity and inevitable happiness.
With every loss, comes a gain, more than you could ever imagine.
With every setback, you will fall and get back up one more time again.
Life is not happening to you beautiful soul, life is happening for you.
Finding your power
growth is often disguised and delivered as painful lessons and challenges.
we want growth on our terms, to feel like rainbow and sunshine dreams 🌈
often our biggest growth isn’t in those moments though ☔️
we get frustrated about why it has to be like this and if it could be less painful when truthfully this is the only way
we need the tower moments and to be thrown off the cliff to realize the wings we have to fly and soar 🦋
it’s up to you, suffering is optional, pain is inevitable so you can continue asking why me or decide that you’re a powerful co creator with life, that you can take responsibility for your inner world and have the grace to let go of the things you cannot control.
it’s up to you, you always have a choice and will always have a choice, that is your power 💥
love & positivity ✨ phi -
A channeled message for you
Trusting your journey
Trust how your journey is unfolding.
I know that it is so hard to do sometimes.
Know that not everyone is going to understand it.
It’s your journey to take and no one else’s.
I know it’s hard to have faith.
I know it can be at times hard to believe.
Beautiful soul, you have not seen it all.
You have not felt it all.
Every single moment is a precious part of your path unfolding.
Do what you can from where you are.
Step by step, it’s all coming together perfectly.
A channeled message for you:
This is the sign you’ve been asking for – everything will be okay 🦋 it’s no mistake you’re reading this right now.
a channeled message for you:
it’s okay to let go of control, it’s okay to surrender.
your team have heard your messages loud and clear.
they’ve got you and everything is unfolding perfectly as it should.
relax into this present moment and enjoy.
let life surprise you.
the unexpected is the best part of life.
even though it may feel like at times things aren’t going your way, they most certainly are.
your team and the universe know what they are doing – there is no such thing as failures and mistakes.
sigh; let go – it’s all good 🦋🐝
love & positivity ✨ phi -
Letting go, moving on..
I'm still learning...
I’ve learnt to let people go.
I won’t knock on doors closed shut.
I won’t chase.
Those meant to be in my life will be.
What is meant for me, will be.
I now embrace endings with open arms.
For every chapter closed is a new one open.
I’m making space for the new by clearing the old.
I’m learning to trust my internal navigation system, my gut feelings and instincts by intuition.
I’m learning not to heroically hold on but powerfully let go.
I’m learning it does not have to go out with a bang but a quiet surrender.
I’m learning to let my heart bleed and stitch it back together with love and compassion.
I’m learning to step back from what no longer serves me and lean into my highest aligned self.
By letting go, I am choosing to move forward with my life, carrying the pieces with me that will go onto become a beautiful masterpiece that I will one day understand.
One day before me I will see the grand picture of my life.
On letting go...
how we grow is by letting go and surrendering to the flow.
you need not force or push.
if it’s meant to be, whatever it is with whomever, it will be.
we admire those who hold on but it is harder to stop fighting and let go.
let go in order to receive what you fully deserve and what is in alignment with you.
let go of the person, let go of the place, let go of the home, let go of the job, let go of the client, let go of the money, let go of the circumstances… create space in order to receive
as painful as it is right now even though it’s not what you wanted, one day you’ll look back and understand why everything is unfolding the way it is 👁️
love & positivity ✨ phi -
To be human…
I live and love to be human
After all I’ve been through I’m here to embrace being human.
I don’t long to be enlightened or above it all.
I love being human and what it entails.
Sure, there are moments where it gets really hard.
When you’re crouched on the floor, hugging your knees questioning if everything will be okay and spoiler alert: it always is.
For moments like that, there are always many that keep you going.
The moments that take your breath away.
The moments that make your heart beat faster.
The moments where you feel like you can fly.
The moments that give you the tingles and butterflies.
The moments where everything suddenly makes sense and everything falls into place.
I live for those moments.
I live and love to be human.
Live, live, live!
Why run from your humanity? It’s the very reason of your existence and why you are here beautiful soul.
You are a soul; the divine — having a human experience.
Part of this journey will be painful.
You will feel anguish.
You will feel heartbreak.
Life will bring you to your knees and that’s okay.
Just as so there will be moments that make your heart sing and soar.
Where you can’t stop smiling.
Where joy fills your whole being.
Live, live, live!
Live for those moments 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi