All you have to do is believe in the process and continue your journey.
It might take a day, maybe a year but what is meant for you will always find it’s way to you.
Why the wait? Why the pain?
The waiting, the gap, the in between, the changes, the transitions, the meantime… they all serve a necessary purpose. Even delays and detours are part of it.
You will arrive at the perfect time, as the exact person you need to be, ready.
Eventually everything will work out.
It always does.
Take a deep breath in and let go. Hold your power and vision. Everything will fall into place. You don’t have to worry about anything. Have faith.
It’s easy to get caught up in the belief that life seems easy and effortless all the time for everyone except you, that there must be something wrong with you because you are struggling and haven’t achieved the same amount as that person or done a lot like the other.
The truth is life is hard inherently, life isn’t meant for your happiness, or at least just that… 💣
Life is orchestrated for your growth and expansion 💥
There will be tough times but if you’re honest, in those moments don’t you seem to change the most?
The uncomfortable, the hard and discomfort help you to grow (it doesn’t feel like it at the time and often does looking back).
Life is tough, but so are you 👊🏽
I wrote the following in my book 📖 The Great Unlearning;
“I know some days turn into nights and everything seems so unbearable you want to escape into darkness. When everything is dark, don’t forget about the light. Turn within and whisper to your soul. Place your hand over your heart and feel the devotion that beats for you. Some of the best days of your life are yet to happen. Some of the best moments of your life are yet to be had. Some of the unforgettable memories are yet to be made. The people you’ll meet are yet to be met. The souls you’ll fall in love with are yet to be loved. The excitement you’ll have that’s yet to unfold. The mystery and magic of life that’s waiting to reveal itself. Hold on because you’re only on a single page while novels are being written within you.” 🪄
This is your sign to keep going, tough times aren’t the end, maybe they are a beautiful new beginning…
Gentle reminder: You are loveable, and you are loved.
You are trying your best and I see you.
Even when...
Even when you make mistakes. Even when you try your best and don’t succeed. Even when you snap because you are angry and frustrated with the world. Even when you’re annoyed at yourself and others. Even when you’re caught up in an anxious loop. Even when you fall asleep with tears in your eyes. Even when you feel like a burden to everyone. Even when you are caught up in the past. Even when you feel stuck in your head and feel like you’re making everything about you. Even when you doubt yourself. Even when you have a critical self-voice that says otherwise. It can be easy to forget and this is why this reminder exists 🥹
An excerpt from my book 📖 The Great Unlearning by Phi Dang
It can be easy to get caught up in the hard, the negative, the fear, the overwhelm, the doubts, what’s not going right, how you’ve messed it up, how it isn’t enough, what’s missing aaaaand it goes on and on
And truth be told?
Sometimes we need that.
To be in it.
To feel it.
A big overarching theme I’m feeling for 2024 ✨ is to remember the light especially in what has been such a year of growth and change in 2023.
To find the glimmers ✨ opposite to triggers — moments that spark joy, peace and safety often in the small things 😌
Here’s to seeing, feeling and being the light in 2024 💡
love & positivity ✨ phi
Looking for support and guidance to make 2024 your biggest and best year yet? 🚀 let’s work together through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading 🧡
because life isn’t just a highlight reel, don’t let social media fool you!
2023 has been one of the best years of my life and no it wasn’t happy and positive all of the time…
It was actually a year that started amazing on paper but despite all the surface level stuff: a thriving business, incredible home, freedom lifestyle, abundance, loving and supportive friends and family yet something felt missing and it was worse because according to society I had the life and things that “should” make you happy…
What is was… was a year I gave myself permission and allowed myself to truly feel it all. To make mistakes. To try again.
A year I unlearned a lot that didn’t serve me so that I loved myself more deeply than I ever had and in turn started the year single and am ending it with a partner.
A year where I had moments I didn’t think I would make it through but I did. A year filled with lows I had never felt with highs and joys too 🥹🥲
I hope you give yourself permission to be so proud of yourself no matter how the year went and know that at any moment, you can change and so can your life.
So heres to another year 🫶🏽🥰
It doesn’t have to be the 31st when you let everything go nor does it have to be the 1st to start everything over. Whenever you decide is right for you.
And if you’re looking for support and guidance… 🙋🏼♀️ here’s your sign I can’t wait to work with you either through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading… contact me 🧡
If no one else has told you — I’m proud of you! I hope you give yourself the grace and love to be more you, to embrace yourself and life to its fullest and enjoy the ride 🌊
The year you call it in, everything you dream and desire of.
The year you release, everything that holds you back.
The year you embrace, all opportunities and possibilities.
The year you do, whatever nourishes and lights up your soul.
The year you love, nurture and worship every aspect of you.
The year you are truly seen, heard and cherished for who you are.
The year everything you asked for is in the process of manifesting.
The year that makes up for all the other years… the year.
The year you make it happen
It’s going to be the year that makes up for all other years, the year where it all starts to click and fall into place ✨
The year you make it happen, following those intuitive nudges and taking inspired action focused on the vision, trusting in the process and allowing it to unfold in the perfect timing and way in accordance with the universe ☁️
love & positivity ✨ phi
Ready to have the best year yet? Let’s work together through 1:1 coaching and/or a human design reading 🧡
📖 if you enjoy my writing you’ll love my book; The Great Unlearning
You don’t have to have it all figured out – all you have to do, is try your best to move forward.
Just because the calendar year is ending doesn’t mean manifestations, miracles and momentum take a break.
The universe works 24/7, 365 days a year. In fact isn’t there a saying, always save the best for last?
Your happy ending is here – blessings on blessings, renewed purpose and love for yourself, new energy, the unexpected…
Make it a December to remember.
Keep your energy open
Many people make this mistake at the end of the year… and it’s easy to do so. Do you live in a reality of constraint or one where there is ✨ no limits ✨
I dwell in abundance, a boundless universe where anything can happen at any time.
Everything you want… just around the corner.
Everything you want… unfolding in the most unexpected ways.
Everything you want… happening at the last moment.
Keep your energy open for all you desire ❤️🔥
Don’t close yourself off energetically because of a calendar year.
Tune into your body what is for you — there is no right or wrong. Some will be gearing up, others will be winding down.
I wrote this a year ago and I was hustling, this year I’m slowing down — life it’s dynamic and changing, it ebbs and flows 🌊 trust yourself, trust your body.
Give yourself permission for what feels good for you, not what you “think” you ought to or “should” 🧡
📖 If you love my writing you’ll love my book The Great Unlearning out now and available via Amazon worldwide or your local bookstore too.