Quotes

  • You have a good heart

    A gentle reminder...

    You’ve got a good heart.

    Even when you make mistakes.

    Even when you try your best and it doesn’t work out.

    Even when you snap because you are angry and frustrated with the world.

    Even when you’re annoyed at yourself and others.

    Even when you’re caught up in an anxious loop.

    Even when you fall asleep with tears in your eyes.

    Even when you feel like a burden to everyone.

    Even when you are caught up in the past.

    Even when you feel so stuck in your head and you feel like you are making everything about you.

    Even when you second guess and doubt yourself.

    Even when you have a critical self voice that says otherwise.

    It can be easy to forget, so a gentle reminder: you are loveable and you are loved.

    You are trying your best and I see you for it.

    Listen to your heart

    you’ve got a good heart and no matter what I hope it never hardens.

    I hope you continue to wear your heart on your sleeve.

    I hope you continue to listen to your heart.

    I hope you continue to trust your heart.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • A little perspective

    It's okay to feel lost

    There comes a point in time where you feel lost and that’s okay.

    That path isn’t always clear.

    At times it may be hidden.

    There’s twists and turns.

    It’s okay to change your mind.

    It’s okay to be scared.

    What matters is you know that whichever way you go, all will be okay. 

    You’ll end up exactly where you need to be as exactly who you are meant to be.

    Think about how proud your future self will be of you.

    For continuing the journey despite the pain, fear and confusion along the way.

    Sometimes all you need is perspective.

    To zoom out a little and see all the progress you’ve made and will continue to make.

    Keep moving, keep going

    being lost is part of the journey, for if you have never been lost how do you know you’ve ever really found yourself?

    be the one in control of your destiny, step into your power.

    do not be afraid to live life.

    go at it with all your all, you are here on this earth to be alive 🧨

    the only way to know is to keep moving and to keep going.

    you got this 👊🏽

    I believe in you 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • The electricity of life

    The things I hope...

    I hope this month treats you well.

    I hope whatever is going on in your life causing you anxiety and stress is alleviated.

    I hope whatever makes you question yourself leads to a breakthrough in your confidence.

    I hope whatever keeps you up at night is resolved so that you have a peaceful sleep.

    I hope you are surprised by something that makes you smile.

    I hope you get everything that you wish for.

    I hope that your heart beats fast and you feel so lit up by the spark of your soul within.

    I hope you create new memories that will last a lifetime and beyond.

    I hope you realise that you are loved, you are appreciated and deserve all the good things.

    You deserve it all

    Because no matter what day or time of the year, you deserve to feel love and inner peace.

    You deserve to be recognized for all that you’ve been through and all that you do for everyone else.

    You deserve to have the breakthrough you’ve been craving and the clarity you’ve been seeking.

    You deserve to feel fully alive and so consumed by the electricity of life, it’s beating heart and pulse.

    You deserve to be reminded that even though life can be tough at times, most of the time, there is so much love and joy yet to fully emerge and bloom.

    Here’s to your best month yet 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Good things are coming

    Move at your own pace

    Good things are coming.

    Good things are waiting for you.

    Good things are about to happen.

    Life has its high and lows.

    Life has its setbacks.

    The weight of sadness, grief and pain.

    The ache of a broken heart and overwhelm mind.

    The frustration of being stuck with no where to go.

    The paralysis of anxiety and perfectionism.

    The yearning for hope and relief… there is more to come.

    The old energy is clearing and the new is ready to rush through.

    In the meantime be kind to your mind, be kind to your body, be kind to your heart and be kind to your soul.

    Move at your own pace.

    The good is inevitable.

    Better days are on their way.

    Be here and you will see

    If you were looking for a sign, here it is 💌 the best is yet to come and all you have to do is keep going.

    Things fall apart for better things to come together.

    It is just around the corner ✨ you’ve got to hold your power, belief and trust in that.

    Your life can change in any moment.

    You can’t predict the future with absolute certainty 🔮

    How do you know that better days AREN’T coming? You don’t.

    A string of bad moments and days doesn’t mean good isn’t coming.

    All you can do is be here in the present. Forget the past it’s dead and gone. Forget the future it’s an illusion.

    Be.

    Here.

    & you will see 👁

    love & positivity ✨ phi

     
     
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  • The pain behind the beauty

    Turn your pain

    Your pain and wounds need not be ugly.

    They can be turned into something so beautiful.

    You can turn your pain into pride for how far you have come.

    You can turn your pain into love with a deep appreciation for your strength and character.

    You can turn your pain into a means to validate how you are feeling, no matter what anyone else thinks.

    You can turn your pain into an opening into your heart with great compassion for yourself and others.

    You can turn your pain into the bedrock of your personal growth journey ahead.

    You can turn your pain into your great rebirth as someone wiser and kinder than ever before.

    You can turn your pain into a beautiful life no matter how rocky or difficult the path has been.

    At any moment you can make it something so beautiful, beyond beauty…

    Finding the beauty

    we’ve been conditioned to believe that beauty only lies in the ideal and perfect 👁👄👁

    pain can be a beautiful thing, it doesn’t have to be at all but it can be ❤️‍🩹

    everyone’s experience is valid and different.

    I hope you see the beauty in it all as I do in you – as you are – even if you’re going through it all

    🥀 the beauty in the fall 🌹

    🌹 the beauty in your tears 🥀

    🥀 the beauty in your ache 🌹

    there is so much beauty and beyond in the shadow & darkness if you only dare to see it… 🪄

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • A message of hope and love

    I know it feels...

    Beautiful soul, I know it feels like you’ll break from the weight of the world on your shoulders and the heavy ache of your heart.

    I know it feels like you wish you could rip your heart out and not feel every ounce of pain.

    I know it feels like you’re sick of crying, it is as if the tears will never end.

    I know it feels like you will not be able to carry on, that the world has forced you on your hands and feet.

    I know it feels like everything is crumbling and collapsing, leaving you trembling in the wake of the void.

    I know it feels uncertain and scary in the clearing of it all, even though you know, it will all be for your highest good.

    I know it feels like you’re alone and no one gets it.

    I promise you, it will be okay.

    Hold on and keep going.

    I believe in you.

    All is on your side.

    Have faith and have love.

    You’ve made it through so much already and will continue to.

    You got this.

    Let yourself be...

    from my heart & soul to yours, a message of hope and love 💌

    what an excruciating gift it can be to be human especially one that feels it all.

    letting the pain into every crevice of your being and body.

    letting yourself open to the wisdom of what you’re feelings are teaching you.

    letting love take over and crack you from the inside out.

    despite how hard and heavy it can be, have no regrets.

    be proud of how you are handling it all right now because someday you’ll be even prouder looking back at this moment.

    you’ve got this 🌹

    everything you feel is a testament to your strength and bravery, it’s easy to ignore, avoid, suppress … to feel? that’s for the big hearts, the lovers, the dreamers…

    here’s to you ☁️

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Better days are coming

    Better days are coming...

    Some days will be harder than others and that’s okay.

    Some days will feel heavier than others and that’s okay.

    Some days pain and suffering will convince you that it will last forever.

    It won’t.

    Better days are coming beautiful soul.

    They always do.

    It may take time, but it’s always worth the wait.

    The light will trickle back in.

    Your heart will mend piece by piece.

    You’ll remember why you love life so much in the first place.

    Rainbows always like to hide behind storms and clouds.

    Your tears will water the flowers blossoming in the seams of your soul.

    You’ll look back at this time thinking that life has buried you, when really you’ve been planted to bloom.

    You’ll look back at this time, in awe of your strength and beaming with pride for yourself.

    You’ll look back at this time and realise that you wouldn’t change a thing, because everything unfolded the way it was meant to, for your highest growth always.

    Facing your emotions

    I hope hard moments and days don’t convince you that you have a bad life or that the good ones aren’t coming because they are.

    Beautiful soul, life’s only constant is the rollercoaster and waves. The ups and the downs. It’s okay to not have every day be so happy, exciting and soul fulfilling. It’s more than okay because it’s human.

    I know you have days where you feel so much suffering you can’t even put how you feel into words.

    I know you have days where you question if you’ll make it through because you’ve just had enough.

    I know you have days where you feel like a fool for thinking better days are coming (you aren’t because they are).

    I know because I’ve been there too🤍

    As they say if you feel like you’re losing everything, remember that trees lose their leaves every year and yet they still stand tall and wait for the better days to come 🌳

    Eventually it will all make sense.

    Eventually those better days will be here, right now and you’ll smile looking back knowing it all happened the way it was meant to be.

    They are coming, just because you can’t see them or feel it doesn’t mean that they aren’t.

    Hold on, you’ve got this beautiful soul, I believe in you 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Finding light through the darkness

    Your journey through darkness...

    People may be jealous of your light, but they won’t be jealous of the the journey through darkness you had to take to shine.

    Let your light shine

    Let your light shine so bright that others can see and find their way out of darkness ✨

    I still remember when I first was told the below quote by Marianne Williamson it sent tingles up my spine…

    “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate, our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous…actually…who you are you not to be?”

    It made me realise whilst I was afraid of failure, in a subconscious conditioned way I was scared of success.

    What people would think of me?

    Who I would become shedding my old scared self in the process?

    Know that all your triumphs and successes are yours.

    Know that you were born on this earth and discover your purpose – to be the best version of you which allows your highest self to shine.

    Remember this, happy people never tarnish or diminish your light and if someone is jealous of your light you know you’re clearly up to good because no one is jealous of pain, misery and suffering.

    Imagine if you got out of your own way today to be your true, free, liberated self.

    What would you achieve?

    Who would you become?

    Be like the sun 🌞 the sun shines everyday evenly blindingly so and doesn’t give a damn 🌻

    You weren’t born to be ordinary.

    You weren’t born to be bland.

    You weren’t born to fit in.

    You weren’t born to shrink yourself.

    You weren’t born to be mediocre.

    You were born because you are EXTRAORDINARY ⚡️

    I hope you dare to shine beautiful soul because the world needs your light more than ever 💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Grow through what you go through

    A change of perspective...

    Perspective Shift:

    What if everything you’re going through right now is preparing you for everything that you want and have asked for?

    Pain always proceeds growth

    The universe, life is incredible. Everyday what unfolds before our eyes (and also what we can’t see…) is nothing short of a miracle… magic.

    The oceans roar everyday with wildlife gleaming beneath its mighty depths.

    The sun shines even when there’s cloud providing warmth and food to all.

    Technology for us humans has advanced at such a rapid rate… I mean the iPhone didn’t exist only like 30 years ago!? The fact we are all here, you reading (!) from different parts of the world.

    Given all this do you think it just unfolds as an accident? A coincidence?

    Apply this perspective to your life… 🤯

    Hindsight is often a beautiful thing when we fleetingly visit the past, reflect and dance in nostalgia lane…

    That time you had your heart broken… and found love again. In the world around you. In the small things. In yourself.

    When you didn’t get what you wanted and got something even greater.

    That disastrous time that showed you it just wasn’t meant to be… at that time.

    How your biggest pains and traumas have catapulted you to self discovery and growth.

    How that time you didn’t think you would survive or make it… yet here you are reading this 🧡

    You are a living breathing miracle and vessel of magic, I hope you never forget that 💫

    If you’re reading this in a world of pain or struggle, sending you so much love 🌸 I hope one day, it will all make sense, it will…

    Pain always proceeds growth 🌵

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • This is your soul speaking

    On desire...

    You know that niggling feeling that pulls at you and makes you feel uncomfortable deep down inside that you can’t explain?

    Yeah that’s your soul being unsettled because maybe you’re not listening.

    Maybe you desire more…

    You aren't your thoughts

    Caught between your head and your heart beautiful soul? 🤕

    Your head… your mind… your brain – it isn’t you.

    You aren’t your thoughts 💭

    In fact your mind lies all the time – it’s a drama queen 🎭 the negative self talk…

    “You should do it… don’t be stupid”

    “Who do you think you are?”

    “I mean the answer is so obvious are you dumb?”

    Remember your head and mind is here to protect you, to keep you safe (which often can mean in the comfort zone which is great – stable and secure but it ain’t soul fulfilling)

    Your heart… your soul… your higher self – that can’t be made up.

    It bypasses your survival mode analytical mind.

    It’s FELT in your BODY.

    Drop into your body.

    The stillness.

    When your heart and soul speak through the body what do they say?

    Trust the pull and nudges… it’s there for a reason.

    That’s the biggest flex: faith, the knowing.

    Following my mind let me to great places… for a while.

    Everything on paper was perfect yet deep down I KNEW I wasn’t truly happy and satisfied.

    For a while I TRIED to ignore it… but it just got LOUDER AND LOUDER.

    It felt heavy, that I couldn’t carry it – the pounding, the knowing, that feeling… so I surrendered and trusted (yes it’s scary and uncomfortable… it’s called the leap of faith for a reason)…

    Following my heart has led me to everything… love, abundance, health, wealth… living a life beyond my wildest dreams.

    It’s not for the faint hearted… I mean imagine a world where we all truly did follow our heart 🤯

    If you did…

    If you do…

    Who will you be?

    What decisions will you make?

    What will your life be like?

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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