It can be easy to get caught up in the hard, the negative, the fear, the overwhelm, the doubts, what’s not going right, how you’ve messed it up, how it isn’t enough, what’s missing aaaaand it goes on and on
And truth be told?
Sometimes we need that.
To be in it.
To feel it.
A big overarching theme I’m feeling for 2024 ✨ is to remember the light especially in what has been such a year of growth and change in 2023.
To find the glimmers ✨ opposite to triggers — moments that spark joy, peace and safety often in the small things 😌
Here’s to seeing, feeling and being the light in 2024 💡
love & positivity ✨ phi
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Old energy is clearing and the new is ready to rush in.
In the meantime, be kind to your mind, be kind to your body, be kind to your heart and be kind to your soul.
Move at your own pace.
The good is inevitable.
Better days are on their way.
Good things are coming
Good things are coming.
Good things are waiting for you.
Good things are about to happen.
Life has its high and lows. Life has its setbacks. The weight of sadness, grief and pain. The ache of a broken heart and stress of an overwhelmed mind. The frustration you feel being stuck with nowhere to go. The paralysis of anxiety and perfectionism. The yearning for hope and relief… there is more to come.
When you ask the universe to go to the next level, don’t be surprised when it feels like life is too hard, almost unbearable at times.
Your strength resides deep within you, even when it doesn’t feel like it.
The universe would never give you anything you couldn’t handle.
Life is tough but so are you.
Stepping into your power
What you can take out of this all, is that if you’re seeking spiritual breakthroughs, you can expect a clearing to make space for new growth.
When you ask the universe to go to the next level, don’t be surprised if people leave your life and tell you that you’ve changed (like that’s a bad thing! It’s in your nature to evolve and transform, not to stay the same).
When you ask the universe to go to the next level, don’t be surprised when it feels like your heart is bursting open at the seams and your soul is shaking.
You’ll experience the rise of emotions you’ve hidden or repressed, and they’ll leave you trembling and questioning everything.
During this time, you are collapsing old stories and stepping into your power. 💥
It’s only natural that when you evolve, your life will too.
You’ll experience the ebbs and flows, the highs and lows.
When life falls apart, know that the future is coming…
So enjoy the ride and know that one day you’ll look back knowing that everything wasn’t falling apart but falling together.
Embracing the nature of life
What would life be without change? The same. Stagnant. Boring.
Often breakdowns lead to breakthroughs. That doesn’t make it easy nor does it feel fair. That is life in itself. It’s not ‘good’ or ‘bad,’ nor is it ‘fair’ or ‘unfair’ because it just is.
May we embrace the nature of life as we do of the ocean waves.
Let us learn to surf and ride the waves, to make the most of what they are 🌊
Release your fears and doubts, child of the universe.
The stars and angels support you.
When the world is dark, your inner light shines bright.
Life is a rollercoaster of experiences and emotions driven by the highest of highs and the lowest of lows.
It can be excruciating to feel so deeply.
Heartache and pain contrast liberation and ecstasy.
From a spiritual point of view, your soul chose to get on this ride. I suggest this perspective to you as I do with my clients, ‘How does it feel to go through life knowing your soul chose this curriculum for your personal growth?’
To grow.
To expand.
Your soul is hungry for experiences and emotions that nudge you into alignment.
The depth of the darkness and shadows you feel also open the limitless love and joy you can feel.
You think your life is falling apart when really it is coming together.
With every loss, comes a gain, more than you could ever imagine.
With every setback, you will fall and get back up one more time again.
Life if not happening to you beautiful soul, it is happening for you.
It really was all coming together...
If I could go back in time… I would tell myself that in the end everything will be okay, it will all work out. The way that it’s meant to.
In the perfect way.
In the perfect time.
Perfection isn’t yours, it’s the universes 💫
A year ago it felt like my life was crumbling when really the universe had a bigger plan for me more than I could ever know…
Heartbreak, the end of a 3 year relationship.
Being full time alone in my own business.
Moving out of my dream apartment of 4 years.
With every heartbreak you are moving closer towards the one you’re meant to be with… the one you choose over and over again.
With every rejection you’re being redirected to the path that serves you best. With every morsel of pain, your wounds will heal and drip into wisdom.
With every disappointment, the smiles of tomorrow will be a soothing balm. With every tear, you move closer to your divinity and inevitable happiness.
A year later I see it really was all coming together… ✨
I now live in my dream apartment by the beachfront, I hit 6 figures in my first year full time… all of this came together behind the scenes when I thought reality showed me it was a Saturn return mess… ❤️🔥
More on my store and my writing in my book 📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang. Link in bio for more details.
In this lifetime, we will mourn and hold funerals for all the versions of ourselves that we’ve been.
You aren’t who you were in the past anymore.
You are who you are now, here, in this present moment.
Thank your past self for helping you survive.
Thank your past self for being strong and enduring pain.
Thank your past self for doing their best and fighting hard.
Thank your past self for being brave.
Thank your past self for getting back up and continuing to try.
Thank your past self for making you who you are today.
Thank your past self for making mistakes which you’ve learned from.
Thank your past self for letting you move forward.
Thank your past self because even if they no longer resonate or align with who you are today… you couldn’t have done it without them.
Let go in order to be you are now
It’s understandable if you’re mourning for who you used to be and feeling all of the feels that come with change: sadness, joy, fear, excitement, anxiety and elation.
You’re allowed to mourn for who you used to be whether you were proud of past you or not.
And when you’re ready, truly let go… in order to be who you are now 💐
Who you are becoming.
Who you choose to be.
Whilst remembering with great gratitude to the past you, who has enabled you to be who you are today and where you are today.
How you show up today, will result in who you become in this moment, in tomorrow, in the future.
An excerpt from my book — The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life.