Purpose

  • The possibilities are unfolding…

    Waiting for the possibilities to unfold

    I’m homesick for a place I’ve never been.

    I’m craving the arms for the one I’ve yet to love.

    I’m pining for their eyes to meet mine.

    I’m giddy for the butterflies that I will feel.

    I’m missing their presence in my energetic field.

    I’m longing for the home I’ve yet to live in.

    I’m floating in waters I’ve never waded before.

    I’m nostalgic for memories I’m yet to create.

    I’m lost in the lust to truly live and experience it all.

    I ache for the possibilities knowing that it’s coming but not quite here and all I know is that I’m excited for it all to unfold.

    Growing out of your comfort zone

    It’s that feeling… when you’re not quite sure what is going on but you KNOW that things are changing.

    As humans we have our comforts and we get comfortable… and even though we want to change and uplevel there’s a part of us that holds onto our old self because it’s safe and familiar.

    As I voyage into new depths and dimensions in my life, I have found myself in fear and control – wanting to know how everything unfolds but here’s the thing…

    There’s such magic and delight in the unknown, in all the possibilities that could happen, in all the different timelines, on how it all unfolds…

    Can you shift into a state of awe and wonder like a child at what’s to come and what’s already here?

    Can you tap into the energy of excitement and anticipation, that everything you desire is just around the corner, that every point and moment of change is leading you there…

    Can you?

    💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Why are you waiting to truly live?

    Do you feel it?

    Why do we wait on death to take us?

    Like it should happen at some old age or when we get sick.

    Why do we wait for that moment to then truly live?

    The truth of the matter is everyday, in every moment you are closer to death.

    Death is the only guarantee in life.

    This is death’s greatest gift to us.

    Knowing this is to truly live.

    You might be living, but are you alive?

    Do you feel your heart beating?

    Do you feel your muscles tense?

    Do you feel yourself breathing?

    Do you feel the nectar and potency in every moment – that anything can change?

    Do you feel the ache of what it means to want something so bad?

    Do you feel the yearning for all that you could achieve?

    Do you?

    Making the most of our gift of life

    Life is a gift and life is borrowed time yet still we wait…

    For the perfect time.

    For the perfect moment.

    For when A or B happen.

    Realise this.

    There is no guarantee of tomorrow.

    All you have is this moment now.

    In this moment now anything and everything could happen.

    The idea happens.

    You meet that person.

    The money lands in your account.

    Be open to THIS moment.

    Don’t wait to live later in life when you’re old on your deathbed regrets if you even make it there…

    Live life NOW.

    It’s all we have.

    To live is to be fully ALIVE.

    Feeling it all.

    Being alive isn’t just happiness and joy.

    Being alive is also feel the depths of despair to know that you’re truly alive enough to feel the pain of it all.

    Two parts of a whole.

    Not one or the other.

    That’s what it means to truly live and to be alive.

    Here.

    Right.

    Now.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Do you want to start living your true potential?

    Your potential activates when...

    The biggest flex of this year is to stop playing with your potential and to start living it.

    Life is full of endless possibilities and you are full of power and potential.

    Start where you are, with what you have and do what you can because if you don’t full live you’ll never know what you are truly capable of.

    Potential doesn’t reside in the comfort zone.

    Potential activates in the breath of bravery.

    Potential activates in the cusp of courage.

    Potential activates in the depths of discomfort.

    Potential activates in facing your fears.

    Potential activates in open opportunities.

    Potential activates in the leaps of faith.

    Potential activates when you keep looking forward and never back.

    Without your opt in potential will stay just that.

    On making it happen

    Many people think that failing is the worst thing that could ever happen but nothing will haunt you more in life is not living up to your potential.

    Abandoned dreams.

    Ignored ideas.

    Sacrificial settling.

    As Les Brown said “The graveyard is the richest place on earth, because it is here that you will find all the hopes and dreams that were never fulfilled, the books that were never written, the songs that were never sung, the inventions that were never shared, the cures that were never discovered, all because someone was too afraid to take that first step, keep with the problem, or determined to carry out their dream.”

    The only way and time to tap into your potential is … NOW.

    Potential doesn’t care what happened to you before.

    Potential doesn’t care that you have or haven’t been a high achiever in the past.

    Potential doesn’t care for the future if it never sees the light of day.

    Potential cares about the PRESENT.

    Not when you have the money.

    Not when the opportunity comes.

    Not when you have the time.

    NOW.

    Through your potential you will create money.

    Through your potential opportunities will come.

    Through your potential you will prioritize and find time.

    Face your fears.

    Stop the excuses.

    Find the way.

    Blaze the trail.

    Make it happen.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Finding the truest you

    Be you, be free...

    Maybe it’s not that you’re changing… maybe it’s your remembering and reawakening to who you really are.

    The you before the world told you to be a certain way.

    The you that’s battled and weathered the storms.

    The you that’s embodied all aspects of yourself.

    The you that’s switched on to your spark and light.

    The you that’s peeled off layers of conditioning.

    The you that’s stripped to your true essence.

    The you that shines in your authenticity and truth.

    The you that chooses to love despite fear and hate.

    Reawakening all that you are

    It’s hard to be true to yourself in a world that values being a follower not a leader.

    It’s hard to be true to to yourself for fear of judgement, of being a light that shines too bright.

    It’s hard to be you under layers of programming, conditioning, pressure and expectations that weigh you down.

    It’s hard to be you when your ideal image of yourself is a mosaic of the external world and influences beyond you.

    It’s hard to be you with your past haunting you and everything that you’ve been through which makes you put up your walls.

    Your truest self is always within raw, beating, pulsing, loving – your highest self.

    How does it feel to come home to you.

    Your highest self.

    Loving.

    Kind.

    Compassionate.

    An unwavering mountain of strength.

    The golden warmth of sunshine.

    The wind beneath thing wings of a bird.

    The gentle breeze of the tree.

    The glory and sparkle of the stars.

    You are here in this beating moment.

    Existing.

    Reawakening to all that you are 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Falling in love with living

    Falling in love with living

    I hope there are days when you fall in love with being alive.

    When your skin is serenaded by the salt and sea. When you laugh so hard your stomach hurts and you are convinced you’ll have abs from it all.

    When sunlight dances upon your eyelids and kisses your wrists.

    When you’re rolling around thick green grass and making friends with bright bluebells.

    When you hear your name on the lips of your lover going down a treat like warming whisky.

    When you hear the ripples of the wind dancing between the trees.

    When your face scrunches from sour sweets and tangy tangerine on your tongue.

    When you are high on the realisation that some of the best days of your life are yet to happen and the infinite possibilities that exist for you and your life out there.

    I hope so, from my heart and soul to yours, because being alive is truly an experience and blessing.

    Busy being me: Phi

    For the last few months you may have noticed that I haven’t been posting or in my stories as much.

    That’s because I was busy living.

    Still coaching behind the scenes but also doing me: Phi.

    At first I did it from a place of fear… what if I don’t make money and guilt… I should be online everyday.

    In the last 2 weeks I’ve shifted into embracing it all, from a place of love and power.

    All of the things have now shifted. Almost booking out for 1:1 coaching. On track to hit my first 6 figures in my own business (!!!) Posts going organically viral without me having to lift a finger. I feel high on life with a full heart and joyful soul.

    I hope you come to realise it’s not when you get certain things or do something that gets you what you want… maybe it’s that when you’re so happy and alive you magnetically get everything you want and more 🧲✨✨✨

    You’re here for a reason beautiful soul, yes I know you have a soul mission and grand purpose but also… you’re here to be human. To not just live but truly be A L I V E 🧨

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Confronting yourself in order to grow

    The hard is worth it

    It’s easy to blame others and the world.

    It’s easy to stay the same and be comfortable.

    It’s easy to ignore patterns and turn a blind eye.

    It’s easy to project your problems onto others.

    It’s easy to have a closed mind.

    It’s easy to not try.

    You know what’s hard?

    Stepping up and taking responsibility.

    Feeling fear and doing what you need to anyway.

    Noticing patterns and doing something about it.

    Choosing to work on yourself.

    Breaking through limiting beliefs.

    Overcoming your negative self talk.

    Prioritising your happiness above others.

    Having an open mind and kind heart.

    Putting effort in, investing and committing.

    Remember, it’s always hard at the beginning before it gets easier.

    The hard is worth it.

    What we see in ourselves, we also see in others

    The #1 reason why people aren’t interested in personal growth and development is… 🪞

    They don’t like what they see in the mirror.

    Doing personal growth is having a huge mirror put in front of you.

    You cannot hide.

    It’s all laid out before you so clearly – it can be confronting and scary.

    It can bring up a spectrum of emotions from anger to disgust to shame.

    To see your fullness and wholeness in all its glory.

    The messy parts of you that you deem unworthy, shameful and embarrassing.

    The parts you want to hide from the world yet you see them beneath all the layers and masks.

    The shadow and darkness which can even frighten yourself.

    What we see in ourselves, we also see in others. We are all walking mirrors!

    In that mirror is so much beauty too but of course our brain is negatively wired from an evolutionary standpoint ⚠️

    We send love because everyone is exactly where they need to be in their path and journey.

    Not all of us will transcend this lifetime… but many of us, we will try.

    Not necessarily to be enlightened but to be in the light of consciousness.

    To live life with awareness, compassion and kindness.

    To better ourselves for ourself but for our family, shattering ancestral patterns and for the generations to come.

    To you beautiful soul, I celebrate you.

    I see you in all your light choosing the harder path and it IS worth it.

    Time and time again I see it as a life coach – the magnitude of what you’re doing cannot be captured in words but in heart, soul, essence and feeling.

    Watch this space, next month something incredible is coming from my heart and soul to yours to help you on your personal growth journey in a consistent and accessible way… I truly cannot wait 🤩

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • The investment in yourself is worth it

    The edges of your fear will sharpen you

    Spiritual growth comes at a cost.
    It will cost you your old self and ways of being.
    You no longer close your eyes to the truth that resides in your heart and soul.
    You no longer deny what you truly long for and desire.
    You will shed the masks you hide behind and break down the walls you put up in self defence.
    You will outgrow people that you thought would be a part of your life forever.
    Your heart will shatter in ways you thought it could no longer break.
    Your mind will open up to possibilities and beliefs that you never thought possible.
    With all this cost – the investment is worth it over and over again.
    The edges of your fear will sharpen you.
    Your heart will beat with ecstasy and joy you never knew possible.
    Your world will open up to infinite potentiality.
    You’ll dance with magic, miracles and manifestation.
    Within you is the deep knowing, that you have arrived, that you are your highest self.

    One step at a time

    The price of being your highest self can be tiring and exhausting.

    Even though it is… it IS worth it.

    When you are living your dream life.

    When you truly believe in yourself.

    When your actions match your words.

    When you love yourself so deeply.

    When you trust yourself so deeply.

    When you share your wisdom.

    When you beam with pride of your journey.

    When your heart and soul align.

    When you break ancestral patterns.

    When you heal for your family and future generations.

    When you sleep easy at night.

    When you make a difference in the lives of many.

    That is WHY you do it.

    Looking ahead it can be overwhelming and scary.

    Feel the fear and continue anyway, you owe it to your highest self but mostly you owe it to present you.

    One step and a time, day by day, moment by moment.

    Cheering you on always 🥳 through the good times, the bad and everything that falls in between in this human experience 🥂

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • The future is coming

    On falling together

    And maybe it’s not that everything is falling apart rather than everything is falling together… that doesn’t make it easy.

    At times it doesn’t feel fair. And that is life in itself.

    It’s not good or bad. It’s not fair or unfair. It just is. What would life be without change?

    The same. Stagnant. Boring. 

    It’s only natural that when you evolve, your life will do so too.

    The ebbs and flows, the highs and lows.

    When life falls apart, know that the future is coming… so for now enjoy the ride and know that one day you’ll look back knowing that it all fell apart to come together.

    Here's to change

    When everything is changing and falling apart it can be easy to get sucked up into it.

    It feels as if you’re drowning, struggling to break the surface and grasping for air.

    It feels uncomfortable as if a new version of you is trying to emerge but not quite there. You want to break free from the skin you’re in.

    It feels like a rollercoaster of emotions where one day you’re up and the next you’re down so low.

    It’s how I’ve been feeling and many of my clients too.

    When I”m in the depths of the waters of change I bring it back to this one truth that grounds me.

    Change is a part of life.

    My ego may not like that, but it’s true.

    Who is my ego to think that change can only happen on my terms and my timeline only?

    When I check in with my soul deep down inside, I know that I’ve been in the comfort zone for too long. For wanting of everything to be easy and breezy… and that is probably when I need change the most.

    To come in and shake things up.

    To help my personal growth and expansion.

    To align with my highest self and values.

    Here’s to change – we may not like it, but we need it.

    love & positivity – phi

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  • Following my heart

    I'm grateful for my heart...

    I’m grateful for all that my heart feels.

    I’m grateful for the way it beats with pride and joy. I’m grateful in the way it floats with excitement and swells with tenderness. I’m grateful when it feels heavy and anchored. I’m grateful when it feels like it’s being crushed alive. I’m grateful when it swoons with delight and wonder. I’m grateful when it beats slowly and gently. I’m grateful when it races to the rush and thrill of it all. I’m grateful when it aches and I feel every time it bleeds. I’m grateful when it rushes off the cliff and suspends itself for a moment in time.

    I’m grateful because my heart reminds me I’m alive.

    Following my heart through grief.

    Sometimes I really resent my heart.

    Following my heart has led to painful situations that my mind wanted to avoid.

    Following my heart has led to judgement from others who wouldn’t understand.

    Following my heart has led to more difficult decisions that could logically be answered.

    Following my heart has led me to a life beyond logic and my wildest dreams.

    Following my heart has led to deepened love that ha changed my life in ways I never knew it could.

    Following my heart has never been wrong even when I’ve felt that I couldn’t handle the heartache that wouldn’t stop coming in waves.

    We live in a society that values logic and the brain.

    After my dad died I made a conscious decision to live with my heart because I realised my mind caused me so much pain.

    Use the weekends to work and make money instead of spending time with family and friends (if I could go back in time to spend one more minute with my dad I would).

    Do the logical thing that makes you unhappy but theoretically will give you what you want (I stayed in a job where I felt unhappy but made up for it in my bank account – being miserable and wealthy is no fun).

    You’re going to have so much time to do other things (spoiler alert; we only have the present moment) – it’s short term sacrifice for long term gain.

    When my dad died, initially I could not feel my heart.

    I was so overwhelmed with grief, pain and shock that I went into shut down.

    I numbed everything out… and I did not feel anymore.

    I would later be diagnosed with onset delayed grief that led me to a dark dark place because to live without feeling made me feel like a zombie not truly alive.

    I literally remember being so much wishing I could feel something even pain! Even to cry would be something.

    The day my heart came back I was elated.

    Even as I navigate tough times with my heart I am so grateful.

    I am grateful for this mighty muscle that physically keeps me alive but also reminds me that I am truly alive.

    How is your heart today?

    love & positivity – phi

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  • It’s all going to work out, beautiful soul…

    Ending up where you need to be

    Even when it feels like life is a tangled chaotic mess, it’s all going to work out beautiful soul.

    Loose ends will be tied. Stuck stagnant energy will unravel into a beautiful symphony.

    The tears you shed will give life to new love and light in your life.

    You will end up exactly where you need to be, as exactly who you are meant to be, doing what you are supposed to do.

    Everything is aligning in your favour, trust the process, trust the journey, trust the timing.

    You are deserving of the light that you yearn for.

    Hold on beautiful soul, the darkness is only temporary.

    All is conspiring in your favour.

    Can you have faith?

    Because life won’t deliver your spiritual lessons in the form of rainbows and butterflies.

    Often life will deliver the greatest gifts and growths disguised as darkness, as discomfort, as pain, as challenges, as obstacles…

    The darkness is a disguise that will be inevitably unveiled by the light of insight and expansion that will breakthrough.

    Can you have faith knowing life is by design not accident?

    Can you have faith knowing that it’s all happening for you, not to you?

    Can you have faith that whilst it may not feel great at the time, it doesn’t mean it won’t be great in time?

    love & positivity – phi

    Ready to embrace change to the fullest? To change with support and guidance with me along your side? I would love to help you through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading. xx

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