Purpose
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It will always truly be…
On having faith...
Have faith it will all work out.
What’s meant to be will be.
Even if it looks or feels like it won’t.
Even when you think everything is going wrong.
Even when you feel discouraged and want to give up.
At times it will be overwhelming.
At times it may be heavy.
At times you’ll need a moment to take it all in.
You can’t mess it up. It’s yours.
All you have to do is trust the process and continue on your journey.
It might take a day or maybe it’ll take years but what is meant for you will always find it’s way to you, even if it’s a roundabout way.
The waiting, the gap, the in between, the changes, the transitions, the meantime… they all serve a necessary purpose.
Even delays and detours are part of it.
You will arrive at the perfect time, as the exact person you need to be, ready.
Eventually everything will work out.
It always does.
Take a deep breath in and let go.
Hold your power and vision.
Everything will fall into place.
You don’t have to worry about anything.
Have trust and have faith.
What is meant to be...
For anyone who needs to hear this right now 🧡
What is meant for you won’t pass by you.
Let your heart be at ease.
Let your mind be at peace.
Little by little, moment by moment, day by day everything is working out for you.
You are divinely loved and supported.
Force is not required.
Worrying won’t help.
If it doesn’t work out the way you wanted for whatever reason know that you are being divinely protected and guided.
Melt into this moment and be here now 💫
What is meant to be, will always truly be.
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The electricity of life
The things I hope...
I hope this month treats you well.
I hope whatever is going on in your life causing you anxiety and stress is alleviated.
I hope whatever makes you question yourself leads to a breakthrough in your confidence.
I hope whatever keeps you up at night is resolved so that you have a peaceful sleep.
I hope you are surprised by something that makes you smile.
I hope you get everything that you wish for.
I hope that your heart beats fast and you feel so lit up by the spark of your soul within.
I hope you create new memories that will last a lifetime and beyond.
I hope you realise that you are loved, you are appreciated and deserve all the good things.
You deserve it all
Because no matter what day or time of the year, you deserve to feel love and inner peace.
You deserve to be recognized for all that you’ve been through and all that you do for everyone else.
You deserve to have the breakthrough you’ve been craving and the clarity you’ve been seeking.
You deserve to feel fully alive and so consumed by the electricity of life, it’s beating heart and pulse.
You deserve to be reminded that even though life can be tough at times, most of the time, there is so much love and joy yet to fully emerge and bloom.
Here’s to your best month yet 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi
Book coming June 2023 📖
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Finding light in the darkness
The darkest season
The darkest season of your life will precede your greatest breakthroughs and the emergence of light so beautiful, it will ripple and sparkle in your eyes.
The darkest season is full of painful kisses from thorns of roses.
The darkest season is the deep void, floating in the abyss or dwelling at rock bottom.
The darkest season inevitably comes with the pain of shedding who you were to become more of your authentic self.
It is all worth it for the light that will emerge once again.
The light of the bloom.
The light of love and self compassion.
The light of your wings ready to soar and fly high.
The light of your heart, full of deep gratitude and experience from the darkest season.
Trust the magic veiled by darkness
The darkest season will ask you to honour endings to begin again. To trust and have faith in what is happening beneath the surface.
To surrender to the greatest mysteries.
To be held by the divine.
To be cradled by love.
You are not broken.
You are healing.
You are being reborn.
Trust the process.
Trust the journey.
Trust the magic veiled by darkness.
It is only then you will truly come to understand why everything happens 🌹
Under the blanket of darkness life is initiating you 🧨
love & positivity ✨ phi
I would love to bring light to your world and help you integrate the darkness and shadows into your life to fully bloom… 🌹
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Turning pain into purpose
On pain...
There isn’t a minimum when it comes to pain and suffering.
You don’t have to hit a certain amount or for for it to feel a certain way to qualify for something.
How you feel is completely valid no matter what anyone else says or some text book definition.
You don’t have to keep it to yourself and go through your experience alone.
You don’t have to outwardly show signs of distress to seek help.
You don’t have to feel bad comparing your experience to another.
You aren’t weak for feeling this way and people don’t think less of you.
You are a human being.
You’re understandably allowed to seek a way to move through it all.
You are loved beautiful soul.
More on suffering...
You don’t have to measure how much pain and suffering you’re going through, you don’t have to show your pain and suffering.
Pain and suffering is so unique to each individual – there’s no uniform look or symptoms.
Your pain and suffering is valid no matter what.
I hope you know that you’re allowed to process it in your own way.
I hope you know that you’re allowed to process it in your own timeline.
I hope you know that you’re allowed to do it on your terms.
Lots of love beautiful souls 🧡
This week has been an emotionally dense and heavy one for the collective.
In human design the energy has been that of crisis also known as the darkening of the light 💡
No matter how dark, the light is there not only at the end of the tunnel but within you ✨
All you have to do is remember 💫
love & positivity ✨ phi
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Love is life
What happens to love...
What happens to love when we break up?
What happens to love when it’s unrequited and the other person doesn’t feel the same way?
What happens to love when they don’t even know you exist?
What happens to love when there are no labels?
What happens to love when they aren’t here anymore?
What happens to love when they forget about you and move on?
What happens to love when it gets complicated?
What happens to love when you keep trying but it never works out?
What happens to love when they ghost you and disappear?
What happens to love when they find it with someone else?
So, what happens to love?
It circulated. It continues. It is never wasted.
Love will always come back to you in one form or another.
Love is abundant.
Love is love.
More on love
I see you beautiful soul — you’ve got such a big heart and so much love to give.
It can feel so deflating when you’re capable of so much love and yet it feels like no one can hold it and embrace it like you do.
It feels like your heart is continuously broken and you feel hopeless.
As if there’s something wrong with you. Maybe you’re too much of a lover…
Don’t let moments of heartbreak, pain and suffering define love for you.
Love never ends.
Love transforms.
Here’s to love in all its forms, in all its magic, in its wholeness — the “good”, “bad”, “ugly”, “messy” and most of all beauty 🧡🌹
love & positivity ✨ phi
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A message of hope and love
I know it feels...
Beautiful soul, I know it feels like you’ll break from the weight of the world on your shoulders and the heavy ache of your heart.
I know it feels like you wish you could rip your heart out and not feel every ounce of pain.
I know it feels like you’re sick of crying, it is as if the tears will never end.
I know it feels like you will not be able to carry on, that the world has forced you on your hands and feet.
I know it feels like everything is crumbling and collapsing, leaving you trembling in the wake of the void.
I know it feels uncertain and scary in the clearing of it all, even though you know, it will all be for your highest good.
I know it feels like you’re alone and no one gets it.
I promise you, it will be okay.
Hold on and keep going.
I believe in you.
All is on your side.
Have faith and have love.
You’ve made it through so much already and will continue to.
You got this.
Let yourself be...
from my heart & soul to yours, a message of hope and love 💌
what an excruciating gift it can be to be human especially one that feels it all.
letting the pain into every crevice of your being and body.
letting yourself open to the wisdom of what you’re feelings are teaching you.
letting love take over and crack you from the inside out.
despite how hard and heavy it can be, have no regrets.
be proud of how you are handling it all right now because someday you’ll be even prouder looking back at this moment.
you’ve got this 🌹
everything you feel is a testament to your strength and bravery, it’s easy to ignore, avoid, suppress … to feel? that’s for the big hearts, the lovers, the dreamers…
here’s to you ☁️
love & positivity ✨ phi
ready to rise and learn to navigate your emotions with strength and bravery? let’s work together through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading. contact me for more info 🧡
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Making moves
Taking action
You know what’s better than thinking about doing something for 15 minutes or even 5 years?
Actually doing it.
Out of your mind and into the present
🥴 yes I am calling you out… I’m calling you out to get out of your mind and into the present moment here.
It’s the biggest thing I see with clients.
They spend sooooo much time in their mind.
Going over scenarios.
Preparing for different outcomes.
Reading a tonne of information.
Listening to a tonne of information.
Watching all of the videos and content.
Yet no one is actually doing anything with the data and information they’ve accumulated 🥴
Embodiment > Knowledge.
Here’s the thing too, so many people are in fear.
They don’t want to do something because it won’t be perfect.
They don’t want to do something because they’re unsure.
They don’t want to something because they don’t want to fail.
So they don’t move. They just stay still and stuck. Even though their mind is looping around for miles and miles.
If you actually DO something and take INSPIRED ACTION whatever the outcome at least you moved ⚡️
And so then new data and information to make your next move.
Not rocket science but pure simplicity (but the mind likes to complicate 😅)
When in doubt, DO SOMETHING! ANYTHING!
Nothing changes…. If nothing changes.
Here’s to making moves (because even if you “go backwards or fail” at least you’re moving and it’ll likely propel you into the right direction 🚀)
love & positivity ✨ phi
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My heart reminds me I’m alive
I'm grateful for it all
I’m grateful for all that my heart feels.
I’m grateful for the way it beats with pride and joy.
I’m grateful in the way in floats with excitement and swells with tenderness.
I’m grateful when it feels heavy and anchored.
I’m grateful when it feels like being crushed alive.
I’m grateful when it swoons with delight and wonder.
I’m grateful when it races to the rush and thrill of it all.
I’m grateful when it aches and I feel every time it bleeds.
I’m grateful when it rushes off the cliff and suspends itself for a moment in time.
I’m grateful because my heart reminds me I’m alive.
On following my heart
Sometimes I really resent my heart.
Following my heart has led to painful situations that my mind wanted to avoid.
Following my heart has led to judgement from others who wouldn’t understand.
Following my heart has led to more difficult decisions that could logically be answered.
Following my heart has led me to a life beyond logic and my wildest dreams.
Following my heart has led to deepened love that has changed my life in ways I never knew it could.
Following my heart has never been wrong even when I’ve felt that I couldn’t handle the heartache that wouldn’t stop coming in waves.
We live in a society that values logic and the brain.
After my dad died I made a conscious decision to live with my heart because I realized my mind caused me so much pain.
Use the weekends to work and make money instead of spending time with family and friends (if I could go back in time to spend one more minute with my dad I would).
Do the logical thing that makes you unhappy but theoretically will give you what you want (I stayed in a job where I felt unhappy but made up for it in my bank account – being miserable and wealthy is no fun).
You’re going to have so much time to do the other things (spoiler alert; we only have the present moment) – it’s short term sacrifice for long term gain.
When my dad died, initially I could not feel my heart.
I was so overwhelmed with grief, pain and shock that I went into shut down.
I numbed everything out… and I did not feel anymore.
I would later be diagnosed with onset delayed grief that led me to a dark dark place because to live without feeling made me feel like a zombie not truly alive.
I literally remember being so numb wishing I could feel something even pain! Even to cry would be something.
The day my heart came back I was elated.
Even as I navigate tough times with my heart I am so grateful.
I am grateful for this mighty muscle that physically keeps me alive but also reminds me that I am truly alive.
How is your heart today?
love & positivity ✨ phi
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Are you falling apart, or falling together?
The future is coming
And maybe it’s not that everything is falling apart rather that everything is falling together… that doesn’t make it easy.
At times it doesn’t feel fair.
And that is life in itself.
It’s not good or bad.
It’s not fair or unfair.
It just is.
What would life be like without change?
The same. Stagnant. Boring.
It’s only natural that when you evolve, your life will do so too.
The ebbs and flows, the highs and lows.
When life falls apart, know that the future is coming… so for now enjoy the ride and know that one day you’ll look back knowing that it all fell apart to come together.
Accepting change
When everything is changing and falling apart it can be easy to get sucked up into it 🌊
It feels as if you’re drowning, struggling to break the surface and grasping for air.
It feels uncomfortable as if a new version of you is trying to emerge but not quite there. You want to break free from the skin you’re in.
It feels like a rollercoaster of emotions where one day you’re up and the next you’re down so low.
It’s how I’ve been feeling and many of my clients too.
When I’m in the depths of the waters of change I bring it back to this one truth that grounds me.
Change is a part of life.
My ego may not like that, but it’s true.
Who is my ego to think that change can only happen on my terms and my timeline only?
When I check in with my soul deep down inside, I know that I’ve been in the comfort zone for too long. For wanting of everything to be easy and breezy… and that is probably when I need change the most.
🌬 To come in and shake things up.
To help my personal growth and expansion.
To align with my highest self and values.
Here’s to change – we may not like it but we need it.
love & positivity ✨ phi
Navigating the waters of change and desiring support and guidance? I’d love to dive deep with you through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading. Contact me for more info 🐋