Questions to your thoughts and beliefs around timelines in life
Why do you have to get married by a certain age? Why do you have to be at the top of your career ladder by a particular age?
Do you live based on timelines
Life is a string of moments, and each moment counts. Where you are right now is where you’re meant to be. Life is a divine miracle unfolding in real time. At any moment, at any chance, life can change.
Come back to presence, come back to living in there here and now…
It’s easy to get caught up in the belief that life seems easy and effortless all the time for everyone except you, that there must be something wrong with you because you are struggling and haven’t achieved the same amount as that person or done a lot like the other.
The truth is life is hard inherently, life isn’t meant for your happiness, or at least just that… 💣
Life is orchestrated for your growth and expansion 💥
There will be tough times but if you’re honest, in those moments don’t you seem to change the most?
The uncomfortable, the hard and discomfort help you to grow (it doesn’t feel like it at the time and often does looking back).
Life is tough, but so are you 👊🏽
I wrote the following in my book 📖 The Great Unlearning;
“I know some days turn into nights and everything seems so unbearable you want to escape into darkness. When everything is dark, don’t forget about the light. Turn within and whisper to your soul. Place your hand over your heart and feel the devotion that beats for you. Some of the best days of your life are yet to happen. Some of the best moments of your life are yet to be had. Some of the unforgettable memories are yet to be made. The people you’ll meet are yet to be met. The souls you’ll fall in love with are yet to be loved. The excitement you’ll have that’s yet to unfold. The mystery and magic of life that’s waiting to reveal itself. Hold on because you’re only on a single page while novels are being written within you.” 🪄
This is your sign to keep going, tough times aren’t the end, maybe they are a beautiful new beginning…
The way human design sees the new year is a whole new cycle of experience.
Human Design New Year for many is very much about intentions over resolutions or goals because the majority of the population have an open heart, which is the centre for motivation and willpower.
When it’s open you have inconsistent access to your own motivation and willpower therefore if you do happen to have an open heart, please don’t beat yourself, get annoyed and frustrated when you seemingly seem so motivated one minute and the the next not, that’s how you are designed and built to be in human design.
From my experience doing hundreds of reasons, it is about unlearning the societal expectation to always be working towards something and instead getting you to shift into the being. We all have some seasons, move and flow with your energy instead of blocking it.
The human design energy itself is fantasy, imagination, possibilities, contraction, inspired action.
This is the week to dream big but also to come up with a plan to make it happen — big dreams, grounded in reality.
There are several ways to tap into this energy mainly imagination and what I have channeled sensuality 👀
More on this on the latest episode 🎧 Grow Through It with Phi Dang episode 61 Human Design New Year.
You don’t have to have it all figured out – all you have to do, is try your best to move forward.
Just because the calendar year is ending doesn’t mean manifestations, miracles and momentum take a break.
The universe works 24/7, 365 days a year. In fact isn’t there a saying, always save the best for last?
Your happy ending is here – blessings on blessings, renewed purpose and love for yourself, new energy, the unexpected…
Make it a December to remember.
Keep your energy open
Many people make this mistake at the end of the year… and it’s easy to do so. Do you live in a reality of constraint or one where there is ✨ no limits ✨
I dwell in abundance, a boundless universe where anything can happen at any time.
Everything you want… just around the corner.
Everything you want… unfolding in the most unexpected ways.
Everything you want… happening at the last moment.
Keep your energy open for all you desire ❤️🔥
Don’t close yourself off energetically because of a calendar year.
Tune into your body what is for you — there is no right or wrong. Some will be gearing up, others will be winding down.
I wrote this a year ago and I was hustling, this year I’m slowing down — life it’s dynamic and changing, it ebbs and flows 🌊 trust yourself, trust your body.
Give yourself permission for what feels good for you, not what you “think” you ought to or “should” 🧡
📖 If you love my writing you’ll love my book The Great Unlearning out now and available via Amazon worldwide or your local bookstore too.
Old energy is clearing and the new is ready to rush in.
In the meantime, be kind to your mind, be kind to your body, be kind to your heart and be kind to your soul.
Move at your own pace.
The good is inevitable.
Better days are on their way.
Good things are coming
Good things are coming.
Good things are waiting for you.
Good things are about to happen.
Life has its high and lows. Life has its setbacks. The weight of sadness, grief and pain. The ache of a broken heart and stress of an overwhelmed mind. The frustration you feel being stuck with nowhere to go. The paralysis of anxiety and perfectionism. The yearning for hope and relief… there is more to come.