life quote

  • Finding the truest you

    Be you, be free...

    Maybe it’s not that you’re changing… maybe it’s your remembering and reawakening to who you really are.

    The you before the world told you to be a certain way.

    The you that’s battled and weathered the storms.

    The you that’s embodied all aspects of yourself.

    The you that’s switched on to your spark and light.

    The you that’s peeled off layers of conditioning.

    The you that’s stripped to your true essence.

    The you that shines in your authenticity and truth.

    The you that chooses to love despite fear and hate.

    Reawakening all that you are

    It’s hard to be true to yourself in a world that values being a follower not a leader.

    It’s hard to be true to to yourself for fear of judgement, of being a light that shines too bright.

    It’s hard to be you under layers of programming, conditioning, pressure and expectations that weigh you down.

    It’s hard to be you when your ideal image of yourself is a mosaic of the external world and influences beyond you.

    It’s hard to be you with your past haunting you and everything that you’ve been through which makes you put up your walls.

    Your truest self is always within raw, beating, pulsing, loving – your highest self.

    How does it feel to come home to you.

    Your highest self.

    Loving.

    Kind.

    Compassionate.

    An unwavering mountain of strength.

    The golden warmth of sunshine.

    The wind beneath thing wings of a bird.

    The gentle breeze of the tree.

    The glory and sparkle of the stars.

    You are here in this beating moment.

    Existing.

    Reawakening to all that you are 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Falling in love with living

    Falling in love with living

    I hope there are days when you fall in love with being alive.

    When your skin is serenaded by the salt and sea. When you laugh so hard your stomach hurts and you are convinced you’ll have abs from it all.

    When sunlight dances upon your eyelids and kisses your wrists.

    When you’re rolling around thick green grass and making friends with bright bluebells.

    When you hear your name on the lips of your lover going down a treat like warming whisky.

    When you hear the ripples of the wind dancing between the trees.

    When your face scrunches from sour sweets and tangy tangerine on your tongue.

    When you are high on the realisation that some of the best days of your life are yet to happen and the infinite possibilities that exist for you and your life out there.

    I hope so, from my heart and soul to yours, because being alive is truly an experience and blessing.

    Busy being me: Phi

    For the last few months you may have noticed that I haven’t been posting or in my stories as much.

    That’s because I was busy living.

    Still coaching behind the scenes but also doing me: Phi.

    At first I did it from a place of fear… what if I don’t make money and guilt… I should be online everyday.

    In the last 2 weeks I’ve shifted into embracing it all, from a place of love and power.

    All of the things have now shifted. Almost booking out for 1:1 coaching. On track to hit my first 6 figures in my own business (!!!) Posts going organically viral without me having to lift a finger. I feel high on life with a full heart and joyful soul.

    I hope you come to realise it’s not when you get certain things or do something that gets you what you want… maybe it’s that when you’re so happy and alive you magnetically get everything you want and more 🧲✨✨✨

    You’re here for a reason beautiful soul, yes I know you have a soul mission and grand purpose but also… you’re here to be human. To not just live but truly be A L I V E 🧨

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Confronting yourself in order to grow

    The hard is worth it

    It’s easy to blame others and the world.

    It’s easy to stay the same and be comfortable.

    It’s easy to ignore patterns and turn a blind eye.

    It’s easy to project your problems onto others.

    It’s easy to have a closed mind.

    It’s easy to not try.

    You know what’s hard?

    Stepping up and taking responsibility.

    Feeling fear and doing what you need to anyway.

    Noticing patterns and doing something about it.

    Choosing to work on yourself.

    Breaking through limiting beliefs.

    Overcoming your negative self talk.

    Prioritising your happiness above others.

    Having an open mind and kind heart.

    Putting effort in, investing and committing.

    Remember, it’s always hard at the beginning before it gets easier.

    The hard is worth it.

    What we see in ourselves, we also see in others

    The #1 reason why people aren’t interested in personal growth and development is… 🪞

    They don’t like what they see in the mirror.

    Doing personal growth is having a huge mirror put in front of you.

    You cannot hide.

    It’s all laid out before you so clearly – it can be confronting and scary.

    It can bring up a spectrum of emotions from anger to disgust to shame.

    To see your fullness and wholeness in all its glory.

    The messy parts of you that you deem unworthy, shameful and embarrassing.

    The parts you want to hide from the world yet you see them beneath all the layers and masks.

    The shadow and darkness which can even frighten yourself.

    What we see in ourselves, we also see in others. We are all walking mirrors!

    In that mirror is so much beauty too but of course our brain is negatively wired from an evolutionary standpoint ⚠️

    We send love because everyone is exactly where they need to be in their path and journey.

    Not all of us will transcend this lifetime… but many of us, we will try.

    Not necessarily to be enlightened but to be in the light of consciousness.

    To live life with awareness, compassion and kindness.

    To better ourselves for ourself but for our family, shattering ancestral patterns and for the generations to come.

    To you beautiful soul, I celebrate you.

    I see you in all your light choosing the harder path and it IS worth it.

    Time and time again I see it as a life coach – the magnitude of what you’re doing cannot be captured in words but in heart, soul, essence and feeling.

    Watch this space, next month something incredible is coming from my heart and soul to yours to help you on your personal growth journey in a consistent and accessible way… I truly cannot wait 🤩

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Life is tough, but so are you

    On bettering yourself

    At the end of the day, don’t just pat your back on the shoulder. Give yourself so much love and appreciation for all that you.

    Hate isn’t going to change you, love will.

    You’re going through something that is hard and for the strongest of souls. Life is tough and so are you but that doesn’t take away from what your path holds for you right now.

    You’re breaking patterns. You’re evolving. You’re learning. You’re challenging yourself. You’re working through fears. You’re healing. You’re growing. You’re bettering yourself.

    All at once.

    You truly are remarkable.

    Working on yourself

    A shout out to all the beautiful souls working on yourself because unless you’ve got a coach or support team it can be lonely.

    It can feel like you’re alone on this path but so many beautiful souls are waking up and working on themselves everyday.

    It’s no small feat doing the work!

    When you’re in it, it’s easy to forget.

    It’s easy to be frustrated when you aren’t where you want to be or you feel stuck.

    Here’s the thing you’re doing so much by even showing up let alone everything that you do.

    You might not see or feel the difference… that doesn’t mean it’s not happening!

    You may feel alone that no ones cheering you on but there are.

    When you work on yourself, you’re breaking patterns for your lineage past, present and future.

    When you work on yourself, you’re healing humanity – one heart and soul, one moment at a time… that’s powerful as fxxk.

    When you work on yourself, your higher spiritual council team of angels, guides and loved ones are watching over you damn proud.

    And if you’re feeling alone on this journey, next month I’m launching a community that is welcoming you in with open arms for those on this incredible and beautiful personal growth, spiritual journey.

    If you’re vibing this and feeling the pull, I would love to help you through 1:1 coaching and human design – you’ll get a sneak peak and a chance to be a founding member with some juicyyy bonuses 🍑

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Are you ready for the quantum leap?

    You have to be willing...

    The greatest personal growth, the quantum leaps… they demand you to go all in.

    You can’t dance around the fringes. You can’t linger around the edges.

    You have to make the leap of faith. You have to delve into stories and beliefs you don’t want to.

    You have to confront your shadow and darkness to integrate within. You have to be willing to be wrong.

    You have to be willing to feel it all. You have to be willing for it to get ugly, raw and messy.

    You have to be willing to pay the price of your old self. You have to be willing and open to being triggered.

    You have to be willing to feel lonely as your vibration rises and what is no longer an energetic match falls away.

    You have to be willing to take responsibility.

    You have to be willing to be thrown out of your comfort zone in the abyss of the unknown and uncomfortable.

    It’s not for the faint hearted, it’s for those who are ready to fly.

    Big change requires big moves

    How do I know all of this? I know because I’ve experienced it myself and witnessed it with my clients.

    I’m so proud of the beautiful souls in my world, their bravery inspires me and this post is dedicated to them.

    Not everyone is ready for the work.

    Seriously it’s painful.

    It’s confronting.

    It’s easier to stay the same because actual change is TOUGH.

    Not all quantum leaps are like jumping on a magical unicorn through a rainbow sky full of glitter 🦄🌈✨✨✨ (though that would be fun 😜)

    Often during or just before the leap it feels like everything is going wrong. It feels like you’re pushed and backed into a corner. It feels like you want to escape it all.

    Because the breakdown… leads to the breakthrough.

    BIG change requires BIG moves.

    To go all in with your energy, time, effort and commitment.

    If you’re ready to start 2022 BIG I’m holding a free 5 day masterclass series that covers self love, money, mindset, power and includes a full moon circle.

    DM me to join. They’ll turn into a paid offering later in the year.

    You can stay small and play small your whole life and personal growth but don’t expect quantum leaps… that’s an honest truth from my perspective.

    There’s a reason why when clients invest they feel the fear, the scarcity but they also feel so lit up, excited and ready!

    Cheering on your personal growth journey and expansion.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Finding magic in the unknown

    Waiting for the possibilities to unfold

    I’m homesick for a place I’ve never been.
    I’m craving the arms for the one I’m yet to love.
    I’m pining for their eyes to meet mine.
    I’m giddy for the butterflies that I will feel.
    I’m missing their presence in my energetic field.
    I’m longing for the home I’ve yet to live in.
    I’m floating in waters I’ve never waded before.
    I’m nostalgic for memories I’m yet to create.
    I’m lost in the lust to truly live and experience it all.
    I ache for all the possibilities knowing that it’s coming but it’s not quite here and all I know is that I’m excited for it all to unfold.

    Things are changing

    It’s that feeling… when you’re not quite sure what is going on but you KNOW that things are changing.

    As humans we have our comforts and we get comfortable… and even though we want to change and uplevel there’s a part of us that holds onto our old self because it’s safe and familiar.

    As I voyage into new depths and dimensions in my life, I have found myself in fear and control – wanting to know how everything unfolds but here’s the thing…

    There’s such magic and delight in the unknown, in all the possibilities that could happen, in all the different timelines, on how it all unfolds…

    Can you shift into a state of awe and wonder like a child at what’s to come and what’s already here?

    Can you tap into the energy of excitement and anticipation, that everything you desire is just around the corner, that every point and moment of change is leading you there…

    Can you? 💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Are you tuning into the present moment?

    You are the power

    You are making waves in oceans that cannot be seen yet.

    You are making tremors in earthquakes that cannot be felt yet.

    You are making sparks in lightning that haven’t struck yet.

    You are making heat in blazes that haven’t burned yet.

    You are the catalyst.

    You are the power.

    Just because it’s not here yet, doesn’t mean it’s not happening…

    It’s simply in the making.

    You are the power

    There’s nothing more exciting then the taste of potentiality on the tip of your tongue.

    The way it lights up your body, atom by atom, cell by cell.

    The way it pours and floods into every fiber of your being with.

    There is so much happening even if you can’t quite see it, or feel it or touch it…

    The universe conspiring behind the scenes, pulling the strings, waiting for the perfect moment.

    This beautiful flow… this beautiful magic… this beautiful synchronicity cannot be be controlled, at times it can’t even be comprehended..

    Your current reality is only a snapshot of the infinite potentiality that exists.

    Know that it is all coming together…

    If you know that you aren’t worried about timing.

    You aren’t worried about what ISN’T happening.

    You’re simply here tuning into the present moment with full faith and alignment 💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Following my heart

    I'm grateful for my heart...

    I’m grateful for all that my heart feels.

    I’m grateful for the way it beats with pride and joy. I’m grateful in the way it floats with excitement and swells with tenderness. I’m grateful when it feels heavy and anchored. I’m grateful when it feels like it’s being crushed alive. I’m grateful when it swoons with delight and wonder. I’m grateful when it beats slowly and gently. I’m grateful when it races to the rush and thrill of it all. I’m grateful when it aches and I feel every time it bleeds. I’m grateful when it rushes off the cliff and suspends itself for a moment in time.

    I’m grateful because my heart reminds me I’m alive.

    Following my heart through grief.

    Sometimes I really resent my heart.

    Following my heart has led to painful situations that my mind wanted to avoid.

    Following my heart has led to judgement from others who wouldn’t understand.

    Following my heart has led to more difficult decisions that could logically be answered.

    Following my heart has led me to a life beyond logic and my wildest dreams.

    Following my heart has led to deepened love that ha changed my life in ways I never knew it could.

    Following my heart has never been wrong even when I’ve felt that I couldn’t handle the heartache that wouldn’t stop coming in waves.

    We live in a society that values logic and the brain.

    After my dad died I made a conscious decision to live with my heart because I realised my mind caused me so much pain.

    Use the weekends to work and make money instead of spending time with family and friends (if I could go back in time to spend one more minute with my dad I would).

    Do the logical thing that makes you unhappy but theoretically will give you what you want (I stayed in a job where I felt unhappy but made up for it in my bank account – being miserable and wealthy is no fun).

    You’re going to have so much time to do other things (spoiler alert; we only have the present moment) – it’s short term sacrifice for long term gain.

    When my dad died, initially I could not feel my heart.

    I was so overwhelmed with grief, pain and shock that I went into shut down.

    I numbed everything out… and I did not feel anymore.

    I would later be diagnosed with onset delayed grief that led me to a dark dark place because to live without feeling made me feel like a zombie not truly alive.

    I literally remember being so much wishing I could feel something even pain! Even to cry would be something.

    The day my heart came back I was elated.

    Even as I navigate tough times with my heart I am so grateful.

    I am grateful for this mighty muscle that physically keeps me alive but also reminds me that I am truly alive.

    How is your heart today?

    love & positivity – phi

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  • It’s all going to work out, beautiful soul…

    Ending up where you need to be

    Even when it feels like life is a tangled chaotic mess, it’s all going to work out beautiful soul.

    Loose ends will be tied. Stuck stagnant energy will unravel into a beautiful symphony.

    The tears you shed will give life to new love and light in your life.

    You will end up exactly where you need to be, as exactly who you are meant to be, doing what you are supposed to do.

    Everything is aligning in your favour, trust the process, trust the journey, trust the timing.

    You are deserving of the light that you yearn for.

    Hold on beautiful soul, the darkness is only temporary.

    All is conspiring in your favour.

    Can you have faith?

    Because life won’t deliver your spiritual lessons in the form of rainbows and butterflies.

    Often life will deliver the greatest gifts and growths disguised as darkness, as discomfort, as pain, as challenges, as obstacles…

    The darkness is a disguise that will be inevitably unveiled by the light of insight and expansion that will breakthrough.

    Can you have faith knowing life is by design not accident?

    Can you have faith knowing that it’s all happening for you, not to you?

    Can you have faith that whilst it may not feel great at the time, it doesn’t mean it won’t be great in time?

    love & positivity – phi

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  • Change can be lovely… and cruel

    On Change

    Beautiful soul, change can be lovely.

    It can be oh so beautiful…

    However sometimes change is cruel.

    Change can be trying to keep your head above water.

    Change can be stirring beneath the surface.

    Change can be getting caught between two worlds.

    Change can be the crushing weight of the world.

    Change can be lingering, waiting in the shadows.

    Change can be torture and agony, bleeding out.

    Change can be silence, with not a word said.

    Change can be turbulent, aching to break free.

    Change can be a baptism of fire, burning alive.

    Change can be a graveyard, haunted by your mistakes.

    Change can be painful, but change is how we grow.

    More on change

    Many of us believe change is a good thing, in fact we desire it and we think it will be enjoyable and pleasant.

    Sometimes it is.

    Sometimes it isn’t.

    It can be uncomfortable and unpleasant.

    It can be slow, tedious and drawn out.

    It can cause anxiety, stress, disruption and even depression in some cases.

    Despite the growing pains it doesn’t mean change is bad.

    Whether we initiate it or not, whether we are are prepared or not… change
    happens inevitably.

    To help us grow and expand, to be come our highest selves living our life in alignment with our soul and values.

    Just as the caterpillar becomes a butterfly be willing and open to change.

    Be open to letting go and shedding who you’ve been.

    Be open to letting go of the past and old patterns.

    Be open to who you are now and who you are becoming 🦋

    Sometimes the change won’t make sense, you won’t quite understand it — go with it, see where it takes you.

    Have faith knowing that any change happening is change that you can handle 💫

    Here’s to your highest growth 🚀

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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