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Unlocking Unlearning 💫 Episode 6

No one tells you that grief has a sequel and it’s called living after. It’s the quiet ache that lingers in starting to laugh again, the shadow behind joy and the fear of forgetting when moving forward.

It’s not the end of the story but the continuation: where you wake up and keep going, even when the world feels like it ended for you.

Unlearning grief means unlearning the idea that healing looks like forgetting.

It’s realising that closure is a myth and that some wounds deserve to stay open in gentle ways.

It’s choosing to live with the loss, not in spite of it.

It’s allowing the memory to evolve, not erase.

It’s understanding that “moving on” doesn’t mean leaving someone behind… it means carrying them differently 🦋

There’s no tidy chapter where it all makes sense. But

Yet there is life after loss.

If you’re in the middle of your sequel, keep writing. Keep watching.

Grief didn’t end you. You’re still here.

That matters more than words can say.

Are you ready to turn the page and start living with intention? I am here to walk beside you. Let’s begin your next chapter together: let’s work together through 1:1 coaching. Message me to chat.

Life is a journey

The truth is, it’s your life. No one else wakes up in your skin, carries your memories or lies awake with your thoughts. You are allowed to grow at your own pace. You are allowed to choose joy, even when it makes no sense to anyone else. No one else gets to feel your regrets, your joy, your growth. So live it fully, love fiercely and own every chapter you write. In the end, your life will not be measured by how closely you followed the rules but by the courage you mustered in the darkest hours, how deeply you loved and how you returned to yourself through the fire – again and again. Make it count.

This life… your one, wild, irreplaceable life is aching and begging for you to claim it fully, unapologetically, right now.

Not someone else’s expectations, not the story you’ve been told you should live…but yours.

This life is your opportunity to show up for yourself in a way that feels honest, true, authentic and aligned to you.

It’s easy to get caught up in the noise of what others want, what feels “right” on paper but the real magic happens when you lean into what sets your soul on fire, even if it scares you or feels uncertain.

Gratitude doesn’t mean settling

Gratitude doesn’t mean settling.

Being grateful doesn’t mean you have to stay stuck.

Gratitude isn’t a full stop – it’s a comma.

Don’t let gratitude become your glass ceiling.

It’s okay to appreciate the now and still desire the next.

Gratitude isn’t your permission slip to play small. Gratitude doesn’t mean giving up on your goals.

Just because you’re thankful for what you have doesn’t mean you have to settle.

This post was inspired by a recent conversation with a client who thought wanting more meant being ungrateful.

Truth is… you can love your life and still crave expansion, growth and deeper fulfilment.

Gratitude is a powerful foundation, but it doesn’t have to be the finish line.

You’re allowed to dream bigger, ask for more and take bold steps forward without guilt. Wanting more doesn’t make you selfish. It makes you human, evolving and connected to your potential.

If you’re ready to explore what’s next while honouring what’s now, let’s work together. DM me to start your life coaching journey.

Unlocking Unlearning 💫 Episode 5

This is your wake up call 👀 Your soul is starving for a world that breathes back… earth isn’t just a stage set it’s a breathing living heart…

Nature is alive, breathing, and dynamic. Not just scenery to be admired or a backdrop for our days. Its trees lean into the wind, its rivers whisper stories and every bird’s call carries a tiny heartbeat 🌳

To truly see this is to recognise that we’re part of a larger symphony, participating in something so dynamic, that is forever evolving. When we slow enough to listen to the forest breathe, we feel the breath rise and fall within our own bodies too.

Grounding isn’t just stillness; it can be in movement as well. To dance barefoot on the grass or hike up a trail or the rain kissing your face is a way to sink into the present just as much as sitting in meditation. Movement can be an expression of deep roots reaching into the world. Even when we are swirling like a gust of wind we can be entirely present, fully alive and supported by Mother Earth.

Unlearning the myths that say rest must look like one thing, or that the natural world is separate from us or that healing requires quiet passivity. Unlearning allows space for a more organic, intuitive understanding of what it means to heal and grow — moving or still, dynamic or serene, intertwined with a living world that holds us as we grow.

So if you’re ready to unlearn what’s holding you back and reconnect to with your natural rhythm and flow inside you, let’s take that next step together. Reach out for 1:1 coaching and or a human design reading: let’s create a grounded, vibrant path that honours who you truly are.

Karma is your kink

Karma is your kink.

Oh behave, you’re so “naughty” 😈🤠 I know what you’ve been up to… 👀

You’ve been chasing the invisible threads that tie your life’s chaos into meaning, haven’t you?

There’s a strange thrill in watching karma unfold — that cosmic ledger where every action echoes back, teaching you through patterns you can’t ignore. It’s not just about getting even or poetic justice; it’s about recognising how your pain, your growth and your mistakes weave together in this endless dance of cause and effect over lifetimes.

When you lean into karma, you’re drawn to the raw lessons that come wrapped in discomfort, because beneath the sting lies transformation.

There’s a magnetic pull toward the repetitive loops that life throws at you, almost like you crave the unraveling of those knots.

Every time you hit the same wall or relive a familiar heartbreak, you’re not just suffering — you’re delving into the intricate language of your soul.

You want to understand why these moments repeat, what deeper truths they reveal about your desires and fears. This isn’t masochism; it’s a profound attraction to the pattern itself — the blueprint karma leaves behind, waiting for you to decode it and step into a higher version of yourself.

Karma is your kink because it demands vulnerability and sharpens your awareness.

It’s the universe’s way of handing you a mirror, sometimes cracked and painful, but always truthful.

You thrive on peeling back layers, recognising your role in the dance, and owning your lessons.

That blend of pain and insight is intoxicating — a dark, beautiful rhythm that you chase with equal parts dread and desire. In this cycle, you don’t just survive karma; you crave its pull, knowing every twist nudges you closer to freedom.

Ready to break free from old patterns and transform your pain into powerful growth? Work with me and let’s unlock the lessons karma is trying to teach you together. Message me for more information on 1:1 coaching and or a human design reading.

There’s strength in letting someone help

It’s Not “Just Stress” If It’s Breaking You Inside.

You’re not “just tired.”

You’re not “just busy.”

You’re unraveling — quietly. Slowly. Alone.

They keep telling you it’s normal.

That pressure is part of what it means to be a man.

That everyone feels this way.

But deep down, you know…

This isn’t pressure — it’s pain.

Pain isn’t weakness. It’s a signal.

A signal that something needs to change.

That you need to be heard.

That you deserve help.

— not just a pat on the back and a “hang in there.”

If it’s breaking you inside, it’s not “just stress.”

It’s a signal.

You’re never meant to carry this weight alone.

There’s strength in letting someone help.

The hidden mental health crisis among men that’s destroying lives in silence. Humans feel and that includes men; it’s okay to feel.

Society often tells men to be tough, to push emotions aside, and to never show vulnerability but that pressure can trap you in silence and pain.

You don’t have to carry everything alone. Allowing yourself to feel, to be honest with your emotions, is not a weakness. It’s a crucial part of healing and strength.

Many men face mental health struggles that go unseen because cultural expectations make it hard to ask for help.

You might find yourself bottling up anxiety, sadness, or stress, thinking you have to “tough it out.” But pretending you’re okay doesn’t make the pain disappear. Sometimes, it even leads to coping in ways that only make things harder. The truth is, you deserve spaces where you can be real and heard without judgment.

Incredible organisations in this field
@humenorg
@livinorg
@beyondblueofficial
@blackdoginst
@movember
@tomorrowman_au
@themancave_aus
@spoketoabloke

If you’re ready to take that step, know that reaching out is a sign of courage. If you’re noticing someone struggling, don’t hesitate — reach out and check in. Sometimes, a simple conversation can make all the difference. If things feel deeper, strongly encourage them to seek professional help. It could save a life.

I work with men in coaching to create a safe, confidential place where you can explore what you’re feeling and find your own path forward. Let’s chat and see if it’s the right fit for you because your mental health and feelings matter.

love & positivity ✨ phi

Love isn’t a highlight reel

Marry the Sunday Morning. Not just the Saturday Night.

The vows are pretty. The marriage is practice.

Compatibility is cute. Shared values are forever.

You don’t need to perfect. You don’t need willing.

Look hot Saturday Night. Marry the one who still loves you Sunday morning in a hoodie.

Build a life together. Not just a highlights reel.

It’s about waking up next to someone and still choosing them when the coffee’s gone cold and the day feels heavy.

It’s quiet commitment everyday over loud celebrations here and there.

Love isn’t a highlight reel — it’s practice, commitment… devotion.

It’s holding hands through grief, forgiving after the fight, staying when it would be easier to go.

The sustainable kind of love isn’t always glamorous but it’s deeply rooted and wildly brave.

Here’s to love 💗

Welcome June

June arrives like a breath you didn’t know you were holding. The pace softens. The light lingers and with it comes a quiet invitation – to pause, to notice, to begin again. It’s not the loud kind of beginning, but a steady, blooming one. The kind that reminds you growth doesn’t always need to be dramatic to be real. We’re halfway through 2025 now. Can you feel it? The turning point. The space to look back at all the ways you’ve stretched, shifted, stayed and shown up, even when it was messy, even when it was hard. What do you want the second half of the year to hold? Who are you becoming? June doesn’t ask for a full plan – just your presence and your willingness to listen. Let this be the month you meet yourself with softness. Let it be the season you return to what matters. There is still time. There is still space. There is so much more waiting for you than you’ve even imagined.

Maybe this is the month you stop rushing your own unfolding. The month you sit with the version of you that’s still in process — not finished, not polished but trying.

Let June be a time when you honour the quiet work — the inner shifts, the unseen healing, the moments of courage no one else sees.

Underneath it all there’s a steadier truth waiting for you. That you are already on your way. That becoming doesn’t always feel like fireworks; sometimes it feels like sitting still long enough to hear your own heart again.

So soften into the slowness.

Welcome June 🍃

One day soon

Fate has a funny way of rearranging our lives in ways we never saw coming. It strips away what feels familiar, what you thought was certain, only to make space and surprise you for something more aligned than you ever dared to ask for. In those moments when your world feels cracked open, when grief settles heavy in your chest, there is a quiet grace beneath the pain and a tenderness that refuses to harden, even when everything inside you threatens to break. It’s as if fate gently whispers that loss and longing are not the end but the beginning of a deeper unfolding, a deeper unlearning. She invites you to lean into the ache, to trust that the parts of you that feel broken are the very parts being rebuilt with more strength and clarity than before. This isn’t about erasing your scars but honouring them, holding them as proof that you survived what you once thought would destroy you. Fate didn’t forget you in the chaos; she was just writing a better story —one with twists and turns you couldn’t have scripted yourself.

And maybe that’s the point: you weren’t meant to write this story alone. Fate is not a cruel punisher or puppeteer but a quiet co creator, guiding you toward a version of yourself that is fuller, fiercer and softer all at once.

She weaves the unexpected into your journey, not to punish, but to prepare you for the life that is waiting— one richer and more real than anything you could have imagined.

So when the path feels uncertain, remember this: every detour, every heartbreak, every unplanned chapter is fate’s way of reminding you that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.

It may not make sense right now, but it will one day.

One day soon 💫

The person you’re about to become…

Sometimes, it’s hard to let go of old ways of being, even when you know they no longer serve you. The versions of yourself that once felt like home were necessary, they got you through, they helped shape the path to where you are now. Now, you’re ready for more. That’s not something to mourn, it’s something to celebrate. Outgrowing these parts of yourself is simply a sign that you’re alive, dynamic moving, and becoming more of who you were always meant to be. There’s no need to hold onto the past out of obligation or fear. Embace the beauty of your own transformation, knowing that each new version of yourself is just another home, a place to rest and grow, until the next expansion calls you forward. Trust that every version of you was always leading you here, to the person you are now and the person you’re about to become.

What if your next chapter doesn’t require you to be more perfect but simply more honest?

More in tune with what actually feels good, what’s true for you now… not what made sense five years ago or even last month.

You don’t owe anyone your old identity.

You’re allowed to shift.

You’re allowed to let life run its course and ripple through you… and youre allowed to enjoy it.

This is the invitation: to stop resisting the growth that’s already happening.

To let the old fall away without guilt. To move forward not because you’re broken or lacking but because you’re ready.

If that readiness feels real but overwhelming — this is your sign that you don’t have to do it alone.

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