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An ode on love

The way I loved you… was a love story, even if it was never meant to last forever.

The way I loved you… was written in the stars, but some constellations fade.

The way I loved you… taught me that sometimes, love is not enough, and sometimes, it is everything.

The way I loved you… was relentless, like the tide – always coming back, even when I shouldn’t have… until I finally did.

The way I love myself now… is a slow unfurling, like petals learning to open towards the sun.

The way I love myself now… is the way I always deserved to be loved.

The way I loved you… was proof that love can be real and still not be right.

The way I love myself now… is a promise: I will never abandon myself for someone who cannot meet me where I stand.

The way I love myself now… is refusing to shrink for someone else’s comfort.

The way I love myself now… is a devotion to my evolution – knowing that growth sometimes means outgrowing.

The way I love myself now… is the love story I thought I was searching for in you.

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The way I loved you… was with every ounce of my being but even that was not enough. I made myself smaller so you would have more room to breathe. I overlooked the moments I felt unseen, hoping that if I just gave more, you would finally meet me where I stood.

Love should not require self abandonment. It took me time —perhaps too much time—to understand that love given at the expense of oneself is not devotion; it is surrendering to an illusion. I will not lose myself for a love that refuses to hold me fully.

The way I love myself now… is different. It is no longer about proving my worth to another but about embodying it for myself. I no longer wait for someone else’s permission to take up space, to shine, to be all that I am. I am growing, evolving and allowing myself to expand without fear of outgrowing what no longer serves me.

This is me, standing in my own light, unafraid of how brightly I might shine.

The way I love myself now… is a quiet revolution. It is in the boundaries I set without guilt, in the way I choose softness without weakness, in the way I honour my own voice before seeking external validation. I am not standing still. I am not waiting for love to arrive in another’s hands. I am walking forward, heart open, knowing that the deepest love—the kind that lasts, the kind that sustains—has been within me all along. And now, I finally choose it.

To love.

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She started loving herself more…

There was a version of you who believed love had to be earned.

Who bent and shrank, softened your edges, swallowed truths – just to be chosen.

There was a version of you who mistook longing for love, who stayed too long in places that only ever gave you half-formed promises and empty hands.

She thoughts almost was better than nothing. She thought waiting made her worthy. And then there was the version of you who left.

The one who finally saw herself through her own eyes instead of his. The one who realised that love shouldn’t feel like chasing, like convincing, like slowly disappearing. She didn’t leave because she stopped loving him – she left because she started loving herself more.

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That old version of you? Who held onto almosts and maybes, mistaking inconsistency for passion. She reread old messages like they were scripture, searching for hidden meaning in words that were never enough.

She learned to live on breadcrumbs, convincing herself they were a feast. And when it ended—when he left, or you finally walked away—she mourned not just him, but the girl who believed she had to be less to be loved more.

Then there was the version of you who rebuilt. Who sat in the quiet, sifting through the wreckage. She pieced herself back together, not into who she used to be, but into someone softer, wiser, stronger. She stopped mistaking longing for connection, stopped calling uncertainty excitement, stopped romanticizing love that made her question her own worth.

Venus retrograde isn’t here to drag you back into the past—it’s here to show you how far you’ve come.

To remind you of every version of yourself that loved, lost, and learned. It’s not just about old lovers knocking on doors better left closed; it’s about facing the echoes of the woman you once were and deciding, with every fiber of your being, that you will never abandon yourself again. This is a return—not to them, but to you ❤️‍🔥

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Past lovers, past self…

TRUTH BOMB: You don’t miss them—you miss who you were.

Venus retrograde isn’t just about past lovers; it’s about past versions of you.

The woman who settled for less.

The one who ignored red flags and called it a carnival.

The version of you who spent too much on skincare because she thought glow came in a bottle.

This is a cosmic checkpoint, asking you to pause, reflect, and get real about what you truly desire in love, money and self-worth.

It’s less about rekindling old flames (though that can happen) and more about reclaiming the parts of yourself that you abandoned along the way.

So yes, you might feel the urge to text your ex. Don’t.

Mercury isn’t even retrograde (it will be but not quite yet 😉) so you can’t blame typos or “accidental” messages 🤦🏼‍♀️ and I get it girly you’re longing for attention, touch, whatever that may be…

Instead, ask yourself: is it them you miss, or the version of you that existed in that chapter?

Venus retrograde is here to help you close old loops, not re-enter them.

It’s time to raise your standards, not resurrect situationships ☠️

🌟 Ready to use this retrograde for a real glow-up? Let’s work together to unearth what’s been holding you back — because your next level of love, abundance, and self-worth starts with you.

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Leaving unaligned relationships

How my brain and inner child sound after leaving an unaligned relationship, doing the inner work, travelling the world, becoming more successful and wiser, living happily in peace, drama free…

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Have you ever felt the pull to leave an unaligned relationship? It could be a romantic partner, a friend or even a family member.

You feel that inner knowing deep down that staying is only holding you back from your true potential.

You feel the urge to step away and trust that you deserve so much more.

But with that shift comes the need for deep inner work 🔨

The kind of healing that doesn’t happen overnight but builds a foundation for your next chapter. It’s in this space that you begin to reclaim the power of choice, of clarity, of knowing that the decisions you make from here on out will honour aaaalll parts of you.

Sometimes, the inner work feels heavy, unlearning… peeling back layers that you never even knew existed.

You face fears, confront your past, and allow yourself to be vulnerable. But as exhausting as it may be, it’s also incredibly rewarding.

When you start doing this work, you realise that growth isn’t about avoiding pain or seeking constant excitement—it’s about leaning into the discomfort, the transformation, and realising that peace comes not from external circumstances but from within.

Yet, let’s be real: this journey might feel boring at times. When the noise dies down, and the chaos of drama subsides, life can seem too quiet. But that’s the beauty of it—peace.

When you get to a place where you can just breathe, without all the external drama and distraction, you tap into something more profound.

Life is no longer about the highs and lows but about finding contentment in simplicity.

Peace is not a destination, but the feeling you cultivate when you finally embrace yourself and trust the path unfolding ahead.

Here’s to your inner peace my love 🧡

If you’re looking for help and support with this, I’ve got you. I offer 1:1 coaching, human design readings and retreats (Vietnam May, Bali in Aug). Get in touch for more information.

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99: There Really Are Good Men: Releasing Cynicism & Expanding to Love

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In this empowering episode, we dive deep into the truth about good men and why many women struggle to believe in them. From societal conditioning to past heartbreak, we explore the barriers that keep us from trusting and attracting healthy, loving relationships. Tune in for practical mindset shifts and inspiring insights that will help you embrace vulnerability, heal past wounds, and open your heart to the good men already in your life. If you’re ready to shift your perspective and invite real love and connection into your world, this episode is for you!

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The cynicism of men

Hey, beautiful souls, and welcome back to the Grow Through It Podcast with Phi Dang (that’s me). With Valentine’s Day around the corner, I know this time of year can bring up all kinds of emotions—love, longing, frustration, and maybe even cynicism. You might be thinking, ‘Where are all the good men?’ or ‘Why does everyone else seem to find love but me?’ Or maybe you’re in a relationship and you’re unhappy or even if you are, aside from your partner or a few friends perhaps you’ve lost your faith in men. If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

My own personal example of good men

This episode came to me like a lightning bolt and the urge to do it perhaps because I am on my own journey. I came out of a relationship last year and it was challenging to be honest with you and it tested my good faith in men through my own projections. Recently I had an incident with my car at the beginning of the year going 100km an hour towards the beach down south here luckily on a country road because I must have run over something and it shredded my tire. I mean shredded. Only the central metal bit left. I panicked because I have no idea how to fix a tire, I was in the middle of no where, what was I to do?

I kid you 5 minutes later, a man pulled over to help me. He was in his SUV with like 4 children and without any hesitation helped me. I was so grateful and he said to me, I wanted to show my children this is what good men do, good humans really. I want to especially show my boys what it is to be a good man and I did the very thing I would do for my daughters and want other men should they be in your situation. Honestly it moved me to tears.

With my spare tyre in fact I got to the petrol station to sort it out because the rear end of my car came off and unexpectedly two men which I would stereotypically class as “bikies” helped me they were again so sweet and gave me a specific tape for cars in case something else happened when they left.

From that moment I’ve had really lovely interactions with men, I mean to the point of a nice man randomly buying me a coffee and pastry the day I had to take me car in for a service all stressed.

Why women don't believe in good men: disappointment and hurt

Many women feel disillusioned about love, especially if they’ve been hurt or let down before. Maybe you’ve given your heart to someone who didn’t handle it with care. Maybe you’ve been strung along, ghosted, or left wondering why you weren’t “enough” for someone to stay. Or maybe you’ve witnessed relationships around you that only rein forced the idea that love is hard, unreliable, or even painful. Over time, these experiences can build up, creating an invisible wall between you and the kind of love you truly desire.

Social media, men suck and no good men are out there

And then there’s social media—a place where heartache is turned into entertainment. Everywhere you look, there are jokes about how “men ain’t sh*t,” how modern dating is a dumpster fire, and how settling is the only option if you don’t want to end up alone. It’s easy to laugh along, repost the memes, and bond with friends over shared frustration. But what if that belief is keeping you stuck? What if, every time you reinforce the idea that “good men don’t exist,” you’re unintentionally closing yourself off to the very thing you want most?

Duality and reality of good men

This episode isn’t about pretending that bad experiences don’t exist. You’ve been hurt, and that hurt is real. It’s valid to feel frustrated, disappointed, or even wary when it comes to love. But what if you could honour your experiences without letting them define your future? What if, instead of carrying those wounds as proof that love is doomed, you allowed them to be stepping stones toward a deeper understanding of what you truly need?

Today, we’re shifting the focus. Instead of asking, “Why does this always happen to me?” we’re exploring, “How can I open to love in a way that feels safe, nourishing, and real?” Because love is real. Good men do exist. And the more you allow yourself to believe that, the more likely you are to recognise love when it arrives.

In a relationship but doubt good men

Maybe you’re already in a relationship, but you still find yourself questioning whether good men really exist. Perhaps your partner is loving and supportive, yet deep down, you struggle to fully trust it. Maybe past wounds make it hard for you to receive love without skepticism, or you catch yourself waiting for the other shoe to drop. It’s not that your partner has done anything wrong—it’s just that part of you is still carrying the weight of old heartbreaks, making it hard to relax into the love that’s already here.

In a relationship but unhappy

Or maybe you’re with someone who isn’t showing up the way you need, and you’re wondering if settling is just part of the deal. You see other women sharing stories about their incredible, emotionally available partners, and instead of feeling inspired, you feel disheartened. Does love like that really exist, or is it just luck? Am I asking for too much? These questions can be painful, but they also hold power—because they invite you to examine what you believe about love and what you are willing to accept.

Being in a relationship doesn’t automatically erase doubts, fears, or past conditioning about love. Sometimes, it brings them even more to the surface. If you’re with a partner who treats you well, this episode is an opportunity to soften and truly receive the love you have—without fear, without suspicion, without waiting for it to disappear. And if you’re in a relationship where you don’t feel cherished, this is a chance to reflect on whether you are settling out of fear that something better doesn’t exist. Because here’s the truth: good men exist, and you deserve to be with one.

Unlearning societal conditioning around men

Society feeds us cautionary tales about men being untrustworthy, emotionally unavailable, or selfish. From a young age, we’re conditioned to be on guard—to protect our hearts, to expect disappointment, and to believe that love is always a little bit dangerous. These messages are everywhere, subtly shaping the way we view relationships.

Pop culture often glorifies toxic dynamics—the “bad boy” who eventually changes for the right woman, the emotionally distant man who needs to be chased, the love that only becomes real after struggle and heartbreak. We’re told that passion is in the push-and-pull, that chaos is exciting, and that if a man is too kind, too available, or too stable, he must be boring. The stories we absorb through movies, music, and even social media normalise dysfunction to the point where healthy love can feel unfamiliar—or even suspicious.

Unlearning family cultural conditioning around men

Many of us also grew up hearing limiting beliefs about men from the women around us. Maybe it was an aunt who told you, “All men cheat, it’s just a matter of time.” Or a friend who insisted, “You have to lower your standards if you actually want a relationship.” Or even the quiet but persistent idea that “Men are scared of commitment,” so you have to be careful not to be too much or too needy if you want one to stay. These narratives become ingrained, making it easy to approach relationships with doubt, guardedness, or the assumption that disappointment is inevitable.

But what if those beliefs aren’t truth—just echoes of other people’s experiences and fears? What if they were passed down as protection, but they’re actually blocking you from seeing the full picture? Yes, some men are emotionally unavailable, and yes, heartbreak exists. But so does deep, healthy, reciprocal love. And there are men who are present, committed, emotionally intelligent, and genuinely invested in building something real. The key is learning to tell the difference between a belief shaped by fear and a truth shaped by experience.

I love men - seriously I do!

Some of the best men I know are my friends and clients. They are men who listen, who communicate, who care about their partner’s emotional world. They are men who prioritise growth, who work through their own wounds so they don’t project them onto others, and who want to build relationships based on trust, respect, and genuine connection.

I’ve seen men support their partners through life’s hardest moments—holding space for their emotions, cheering them on when they doubt themselves, and making love feel like a sanctuary instead of a battleground. I’ve worked with men who are deeply introspective, who want to unlearn harmful conditioning, and who are actively working to show up as better partners, fathers, and friends.

But these men don’t always fit the stereotype of what we’ve been told to expect. They aren’t always flashy. They don’t always dominate the conversation or make grand gestures. Sometimes, they’re the ones quietly showing up, day after day, doing the work of loving with presence and consistency. And the more you train yourself to see and believe in the existence of good men, the easier it becomes to recognise them in your own life.

So if you’ve been telling yourself that love is hopeless or that good men don’t exist, I invite you to question that belief. Not by forcing toxic positivity, but by expanding your perspective. Look around. Pay attention to the men who show up, not just in relationships but in friendships, in family dynamics, in everyday moments. You might be surprised at what you start to notice.

I really do love men because what would life be literally without them and in so many other aspects.

Healthy masculine in good men

When you take a step back and really look, you’ll see that healthy, present, emotionally intelligent men do exist—and they bring incredible value to relationships.

Men have a natural protective instinct—not in a controlling or possessive way, but in a way that makes you feel safe, both emotionally and physically. The right man wants to shield you from harm, to make sure you’re supported, and to stand beside you as a steady presence when life feels overwhelming. His protection isn’t about dominance—it’s about care.

Many men are solutions-driven. They want to fix things, to find a way forward, to make life easier for the people they love. While this can sometimes feel frustrating when all you want is to be heard, it comes from a deep desire to help. When you learn to see this trait as an expression of love, rather than a dismissal of your emotions, it becomes clear that his need to “solve” isn’t about avoiding feelings—it’s about wanting to ease your burden.

And then there’s the beautiful balance between masculine logic and feminine emotion. A good man doesn’t suppress your feelings or tell you to “calm down”—he grounds you. When you’re overwhelmed, he reminds you to breathe. When emotions run high, he brings perspective and steadiness. Not in a way that dismisses or diminishes your experience, but in a way that helps you feel everything while knowing you’re safe. His presence doesn’t dull your emotions—it gives them a foundation to rest upon.

The more you shift your focus to the good in men, the more you’ll start to see it. The more you believe in the existence of healthy, loving, protective, and emotionally available men, the more likely you are to welcome one into your life—or recognise and appreciate the one you already have.

Vulnerability with men

Allowing yourself to believe in good men requires vulnerability. It’s often easier to protect ourselves from further pain by closing off emotionally, especially after we’ve been hurt in the past. Vulnerability feels like an open wound—it’s raw, unguarded, and scary. When we’ve experienced heartbreak, betrayal, or emotional neglect, the instinct to build walls around our hearts becomes a defence mechanism. We tell ourselves it’s better to be guarded than to risk feeling that pain again.

But the truth is, those walls that protect us also keep out the love, connection, and intimacy we deserve. While our mind might think we’re safeguarding ourselves from further hurt, our hearts are also being kept from experiencing the beautiful potential of authentic, fulfilling relationships. These walls act like a filter, blocking out anything that feels too close, too deep, or too vulnerable.

The problem with staying guarded is that it limits our ability to connect on a meaningful level. When we don’t allow ourselves to be vulnerable, we miss out on the potential for real love to blossom. It’s not just about romantic relationships—being open and vulnerable allows us to form deeper connections in all aspects of life, whether it’s with friends, family, or even ourselves. The act of lowering our defences requires trust, but trust is what allows relationships to thrive.

In order to believe in good men, we need to trust that not all experiences will repeat, and not every person is going to hurt us. This doesn’t mean ignoring past pain or pretending it didn’t happen—it means choosing to trust that healing is possible, and that love can be safe again. Allowing ourselves to be vulnerable opens the door to real connection, but it also invites us to receive love in a way that nurtures our hearts instead of protecting them.

Male role models

If you haven’t had strong male role models in your life, it can feel challenging to believe that good men exist, let alone trust them. For many women, early experiences with men—whether form the foundation for how they perceive men in adulthood. If those early relationships were fraught with disappointment, neglect, or lack of emotional availability, it can leave lasting scars on the heart. Without seeing healthy relationships modelled in real life, it’s hard to know what a good, loving, committed man even looks like.

When there are no positive examples to draw from, we can easily fall into the belief that men are inherently unreliable, emotionally distant, or self serving. We don’t have a reference point for what true love, respect, and care can look like from a man. Without seeing men who are kind, compassionate, loyal, and willing to commit, it’s easy to generalise all men based on our experiences, or worse, based on societal stereotypes.

The absence of strong male role models can also mean that we’re not taught how to engage with men in a healthy, balanced way. We might unknowingly carry fears or misconceptions into new relationships, expecting them to mimic past patterns of disappointment or dysfunction. And without the guidance of a positive male figure, we might not even know what qualities to look for in a healthy partner.

But the good news is that you can choose to start seeing positive examples in your life now, even if they weren’t modelled for you growing up. Start by looking at the men around you—whether it’s friends, colleagues, mentors, or even positive portrayals in the media. The more you expand your view of men, the more you’ll see that good, kind, and loving men are out there.

How to see the good in men practical exercises what you can do

As a life coach you know I’m not just going to talk but get into the practical. If you’re single: ”What if, instead of asking, ‘Where are all the good men?’—you started asking, ‘How can I align with healthy love?’

Expand Your Awareness

For the next week, make it a daily practice to notice examples of good men around you. This could be:

The father at the grocery store patiently helping his child.
The older man who holds the door open for a stranger.
A friend’s partner who supports her career and personal growth.
A male colleague who uplifts others and creates a positive work environment.

Write down at least three examples per day. The more you train your brain to notice, the more you’ll start to see.

If this conversation has resonated with you and you’re ready to dive deeper into transforming your relationship with love, trust, and your beliefs about men, let’s work together. Life coaching can help you unpack the layers of past experiences, shift limiting beliefs, and step into a space where you fully embrace the love you deserve.

Together, we’ll explore what’s been holding you back and create a path forward, one where you trust yourself and your ability to attract and nurture healthy relationships—whether with yourself, others, or the right partner.

Don’t let old narratives keep you stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. If you’re ready to start seeing and attracting the good, let’s connect. Reach out today, and let’s begin the journey to deeper self-love, trust, and fulfilling relationships.

If you’ve been feeling called to reconnect with your feminine energy, embrace self love, and deepen your trust in yourself and your relationships, the flow retreat in Vietnam this May 25th to 31st, 2025 is the perfect opportunity to step into your full power.

This retreat is all about creating space for you to explore your feminine essence—nurturing it, understanding it, and reclaiming it. Together, we’ll dive into practices that honor your intuition, your heart, and your body, while also allowing you to release limiting beliefs and old wounds that have kept you from fully stepping into your radiance.

If you’re ready to experience a transformative journey in a luxurious, supportive environment, this is your invitation to take the leap. It’s time to nourish yourself in ways that will shift the trajectory of your life.

Join me in Vietnam this May, where we’ll cultivate deep connection, healing, and empowerment. Let’s work together to awaken your feminine energy and create lasting change.

Spaces are limited—only a few spaces remain reach out today to reserve your spot and start this incredible journey with me and other like minded women.

Happy Valentine’s Day my love.

Until next time.

Love & positivity, Phi

Surround yourself with those who see your light

Surround yourself with those who see your light and celebrate it, who encourage your growth and support your dreams. Let go of those who seek to diminish your brilliance, for they cannot comprehend the magnitude of how you shine.

Nurture relationships that uplift and inspire, creating a community where you can shine even brighter. Those who will celebrate your successes as their own and offer a support and a steady hand when you stumble. These are your people.

As Nipsey said “If you look at the people in your circle and don’t get inspired, then you don’t have a circle. You have a cage.” ❤️‍🔥

Your people resonate with your vision, who understand the depths of your aspirations and are willing to stand by you through the challenges. Embrace connections that are rooted in mutual respect and admiration, where every interaction fuels your passion and drives you to be your best self.

In this circle of support, you’ll find not just allies, but champions of your journey. By nurturing such relationships, you create a sanctuary of positivity and empowerment. Be intentional with who you surround yourself with and by, you are light and you’re here to shine and make a difference in this world 💫🗺️

I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. Send me an email or DM me on Instagram to set up a free 30 minute call to see what’s right for you If you like my writing, you’ll love my book! The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang

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Love will fill your heart

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One day...

One day love will course through your veins and fill your heart.

Your name will go down a treat like warm whisky on the lips of your lover.

These days are coming and how beautiful they will be.

From my heart & soul to yours...

When it comes to dating, I know you’re sick and tired of being alone.

I know you’re sick and tired of feeling like you will be single for the rest of your life. I know you’re sick and tired of searching for the one. I know you’re sick of going on dates and having your heart broken or being disappointed. I know you’re sick and tired of waiting for the one to show up. I know you’re sick and tired of trusting the universe. I know you’re sick and tired because you’re on the verge of giving up.

If there is one thing I can share with you, it’s this, from my heart and soul to yours: a relationship doesn’t bring love into your life, love brings a relationship into your life.

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Open your heart

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On opening your heart...

Opening your heart is messy.

Opening your heart means expansion.

Opening your heart means letting it all in – the good, the hard, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful.

Opening your heart means being vulnerable, to not only be fully seen but fully felt too.

Opening your heart can be complicated, confusing and conflicting to the mind, it is not logical.

Opening your heart means softening in love, thawing and melting your protective walls.

Opening your heart is to be brave.

Opening your heart means to take on the world with your strength and courage.

Expansion...

It might feel like your heart is closed and breaking, when really it is expanding 🌹

Opening something as divine as your heart isn’t easy or simple, it’s messy, raw yet beautiful.

Sometimes following your heart leads to the path less taken, yes to it breaking but in shattering your heart opens — it expands.

Tell me, what is your heart saying to you right now?

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Love will heal you

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Your time will come...

I’m sorry someone hurt your heart and made you question yourself.

I’m sorry you didn’t feel safe to fully communicate and express yourself.

I’m sorry they could not be the safe place for you to call home.

I’m sorry that you felt so much pressure on yourself to make it work and at times maybe too much was placed on your shoulders.

I’m sorry that you weren’t fully seen for who you really are, that they put their projections and expectations onto you.

I’m sorry that your heart had to hurt.

Love didn’t hurt you, but love will heal you.

There will come a time that it is safe for you to let down your walls.

There will come a time that your heart feels at home with another.

The time is coming that your heart will open again, to depths you never imagined…

You are love

When your heart is broken, I know it hurts, I know you wish the pain would go away…

This was channeled during a healing I recently had done and I thought it was so beautiful.

Love can hurt but don’t close your heart.

Closing your heart is also closing it on love.

Even when it hurts, there is always so much love at the core of your heart.

You are a channel for love.

You are love.

One day the love of your life will thank you for opening your heart again, when you’re ready… 🧡

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Not always happily ever after…

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You gave me hope...

I know it didn’t work out between us but I truly am so grateful that I met you.

That somehow in a world of billions and billions, our worlds collided.

You taught me that I could love again.

You gave me hope.

We had our ups and downs sure – but I had some of the most magical moments of my life with you.

I know that we part ways stronger and more ourselves than ever – thank you.

The beautiful journey of life

Because it all doesn’t end in happily ever after — and that’s okay.

Because falling for someone, being with someone is one of the most beautiful things we will experience in this lifetime.

Because every soul you encounter helps you to grow and evolve whether you stay together or not.

This is the beautiful journey of life that I am so grateful for.

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Relationships

An ode on love

She started loving herself more…

Past lovers, past self…

Leaving unaligned relationships

99: There Really Are Good Men: Releasing Cynicism & Expanding to Love

Resources from today's episode

The cynicism of men

My own personal example of good men

Why women don't believe in good men: disappointment and hurt

Social media, men suck and no good men are out there

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