Relationships

  • Surround yourself with those who see your light

    Surround yourself with those who see your light and celebrate it, who encourage your growth and support your dreams. Let go of those who seek to diminish your brilliance, for they cannot comprehend the magnitude of how you shine.

    Nurture relationships that uplift and inspire, creating a community where you can shine even brighter. Those who will celebrate your successes as their own and offer a support and a steady hand when you stumble. These are your people.

    As Nipsey said “If you look at the people in your circle and don’t get inspired, then you don’t have a circle. You have a cage.” ❤️‍🔥

    Your people resonate with your vision, who understand the depths of your aspirations and are willing to stand by you through the challenges. Embrace connections that are rooted in mutual respect and admiration, where every interaction fuels your passion and drives you to be your best self.

    In this circle of support, you’ll find not just allies, but champions of your journey. By nurturing such relationships, you create a sanctuary of positivity and empowerment. Be intentional with who you surround yourself with and by, you are light and you’re here to shine and make a difference in this world 💫🗺️

    I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. Send me an email or DM me on Instagram to set up a free 30 minute call to see what’s right for you If you like my writing, you’ll love my book! The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang

    For more on all things self love, mindset, energy and purpose listen to my podcast: Grow Through it Podcast with Phi Dang

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  • Love will fill your heart

    One day...

    One day love will course through your veins and fill your heart.

    Your name will go down a treat like warm whisky on the lips of your lover.

    These days are coming and how beautiful they will be.

    From my heart & soul to yours...

    When it comes to dating, I know you’re sick and tired of being alone.

    I know you’re sick and tired of feeling like you will be single for the rest of your life. I know you’re sick and tired of searching for the one. I know you’re sick of going on dates and having your heart broken or being disappointed. I know you’re sick and tired of waiting for the one to show up. I know you’re sick and tired of trusting the universe. I know you’re sick and tired because you’re on the verge of giving up.

    If there is one thing I can share with you, it’s this, from my heart and soul to yours: a relationship doesn’t bring love into your life, love brings a relationship into your life.

    📖 The Great Unlearning by Phi Dang

    🎥 @rupoem

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  • Open your heart

    On opening your heart...

    Opening your heart is messy.

    Opening your heart means expansion.

    Opening your heart means letting it all in – the good, the hard, the bad, the ugly, the beautiful.

    Opening your heart means being vulnerable, to not only be fully seen but fully felt too.

    Opening your heart can be complicated, confusing and conflicting to the mind, it is not logical.

    Opening your heart means softening in love, thawing and melting your protective walls.

    Opening your heart is to be brave.

    Opening your heart means to take on the world with your strength and courage.

    Expansion...

    It might feel like your heart is closed and breaking, when really it is expanding 🌹

    Opening something as divine as your heart isn’t easy or simple, it’s messy, raw yet beautiful.

    Sometimes following your heart leads to the path less taken, yes to it breaking but in shattering your heart opens — it expands.

    Tell me, what is your heart saying to you right now?

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Love will heal you

    Your time will come...

    I’m sorry someone hurt your heart and made you question yourself.

    I’m sorry you didn’t feel safe to fully communicate and express yourself.

    I’m sorry they could not be the safe place for you to call home.

    I’m sorry that you felt so much pressure on yourself to make it work and at times maybe too much was placed on your shoulders.

    I’m sorry that you weren’t fully seen for who you really are, that they put their projections and expectations onto you.

    I’m sorry that your heart had to hurt.

    Love didn’t hurt you, but love will heal you.

    There will come a time that it is safe for you to let down your walls.

    There will come a time that your heart feels at home with another.

    The time is coming that your heart will open again, to depths you never imagined…

    You are love

    When your heart is broken, I know it hurts, I know you wish the pain would go away…

    This was channeled during a healing I recently had done and I thought it was so beautiful.

    Love can hurt but don’t close your heart.

    Closing your heart is also closing it on love.

    Even when it hurts, there is always so much love at the core of your heart.

    You are a channel for love.

    You are love.

    One day the love of your life will thank you for opening your heart again, when you’re ready… 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Not always happily ever after…

    You gave me hope...

    I know it didn’t work out between us but I truly am so grateful that I met you.

    That somehow in a world of billions and billions, our worlds collided.

    You taught me that I could love again.

    You gave me hope.

    We had our ups and downs sure – but I had some of the most magical moments of my life with you.

    I know that we part ways stronger and more ourselves than ever – thank you.

    The beautiful journey of life

    Because it all doesn’t end in happily ever after — and that’s okay.

    Because falling for someone, being with someone is one of the most beautiful things we will experience in this lifetime.

    Because every soul you encounter helps you to grow and evolve whether you stay together or not.

    This is the beautiful journey of life that I am so grateful for.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Love is always worth it

    Love is always worth it...

    On love.

    Continue to open your heart again even after it’s been crushed.

    Continue to try even though you’ve been disappointed.

    Continue to let down your walls even when your heart wants to remain guarded.

    Continue to be your most authentic self even though it’s scary because you deserve to be loved as you are.

    Continue to feel it all, the highs and lows because feeling is so beautiful.

    Continue to believe in the magic and joy of love.

    Because love, is always worth it.

    It might not always be with the right person, but one day it will be.

    Always, always, always.

    Love.

    Being in love

    I know you’ve been hurt and disappointed not by love itself but your experiences in searching and experiencing love.

    How can a heart hurt and yearn so much?

    From fiery passion to empty silence.

    To taste a glimpse of paradise and eternity for it to crumble into ashes.

    When you let down your walls and the vulnerability of it all.

    When you go first and they don’t follow.

    For all the aches, for all the tears, for all the disappointment continue to love deeply.

    Because love is always worth it.

    Love will never let you down, sometimes people will and that’s okay.

    Not everyone is ready for the depth and magnitude of your precious beating heart and that’s okay.

    One day you’ll be with someone who is and you will understand the journey it took to be wholly and fully with love… in love.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Letting go, moving on..

    I'm still learning...

    I’ve learnt to let people go.

    I won’t knock on doors closed shut.

    I won’t chase.

    Those meant to be in my life will be.

    What is meant for me, will be.

    I now embrace endings with open arms.

    For every chapter closed is a new one open.

    I’m making space for the new by clearing the old.

    I’m learning to trust my internal navigation system, my gut feelings and instincts by intuition.

    I’m learning not to heroically hold on but powerfully let go.

    I’m learning it does not have to go out with a bang but a quiet surrender.

    I’m learning to let my heart bleed and stitch it back together with love and compassion.

    I’m learning to step back from what no longer serves me and lean into my highest aligned self.

    By letting go, I am choosing to move forward with my life, carrying the pieces with me that will go onto become a beautiful masterpiece that I will one day understand.

    One day before me I will see the grand picture of my life.

    On letting go...

    how we grow is by letting go and surrendering to the flow.

    you need not force or push.

    if it’s meant to be, whatever it is with whomever, it will be.

    we admire those who hold on but it is harder to stop fighting and let go.

    let go in order to receive what you fully deserve and what is in alignment with you.

    let go of the person, let go of the place, let go of the home, let go of the job, let go of the client, let go of the money, let go of the circumstances… create space in order to receive

    as painful as it is right now even though it’s not what you wanted, one day you’ll look back and understand why everything is unfolding the way it is 👁️

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • We fly in love

    We fly in love

    You give me butterflies in my stomach.

    I’m scared to fall.

    And then I realise, we don’t fall in love.

    We rise in love.

    We fly in love.

    Trust the process...

    The synchronicity of these words, this song, the visuals 🤌🏽

    That feeling of butterflies 🦋

    Of falling… flying 💫

    Of feeling vulnerable

    Of feeling excited

    Of feeling nervous

    Of your heart fluttering…

    All the potential… who knows where the butterflies will take you 🔮

    All I know is that being able to feel butterflies again is beauty in itself… 🥰

    The aphrodisiac is in potential ⚡️

    Anything could happen 🤩

    The only want to find out

    Trust the process 🌀

    And see what unfolds 🦋

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • You will find love

    On love...

    I know how heavy your heart aches right now.

    I know how it hurts to breathe.

    I know it feels like your heart has shattered into a million pieces.

    I know it feels like the tears will never end.

    I know your heart is hurting and as if nothing else matters.

    I know you are in so much pain.

    I know you are skeptical of love.

    I promise beautiful soul, one day when you are ready, your heart will open again.

    You will find love again.

    You will find love in an oversized t-shirt.

    You will find love in flossing your teeth.

    You will find love in the way the ocean kisses the shore.

    You will find love in the glimmer of the stars.

    You will find love again because it never left, it’s always been inside of you.

    Acknowledge your broken heart

    A broken heart is never easy, you question if it was worth even feeling love in the first place 💔

    It absolutely is.

    To feel every ounce of your broken heart – the sharp edges, the heavy beating, the drip of aching… is an exquisite reminder of your living, breathing human nature.

    Your broken heart meant that love truly touched your heart… it didn’t just touch it… it consumed it, it merged with it, it became it ❤️‍🔥

    The love you had, the love you gave, the love you received… it’s all you because you are love.

    Sure you will find love again in another soul 💘 but never forget that the love already exists, always had and always will within you.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Ready to uplevel in love? ❤️‍🔥 whether it’s self love, in a relationship or dating, I got chu 😍 let’s work together through 1:1 coaching or human design 🥰

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  • Love is life

    What happens to love...

    What happens to love when we break up?

    What happens to love when it’s unrequited and the other person doesn’t feel the same way?

    What happens to love when they don’t even know you exist?

    What happens to love when there are no labels?

    What happens to love when they aren’t here anymore?

    What happens to love when they forget about you and move on?

    What happens to love when it gets complicated?

    What happens to love when you keep trying but it never works out?

    What happens to love when they ghost you and disappear?

    What happens to love when they find it with someone else?

    So, what happens to love?

    It circulated. It continues. It is never wasted.

    Love will always come back to you in one form or another.

    Love is abundant.

    Love is love.

    More on love

    I see you beautiful soul — you’ve got such a big heart and so much love to give.

    It can feel so deflating when you’re capable of so much love and yet it feels like no one can hold it and embrace it like you do.

    It feels like your heart is continuously broken and you feel hopeless.

    As if there’s something wrong with you. Maybe you’re too much of a lover…

    Don’t let moments of heartbreak, pain and suffering define love for you.

    Love never ends.

    Love transforms.

    Here’s to love in all its forms, in all its magic, in its wholeness — the “good”, “bad”, “ugly”, “messy” and most of all beauty 🧡🌹

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Let’s breakthrough your barriers to love 🚀 reclaim your whole heart and power ❤️‍🔥 let’s work together through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading. Contact me ✨

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