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Your soft heart doesn’t mean you’re without strength

Beneath the surface of every silent moment, there is an ocean of feeling and in your depth lives stories and truths that few dare to touch – currents of empathy, unspoken hopes and gentle longings that move with the rhythm of your heart. To feel so deeply is its own profound kind of power. You are an intuitive light that shines even in shadow, guiding you to nourish where healing is needed, to listen when the world is too loud and to pour your boundless care into every soul you embrace. In that sacred softness, you discover that sensitivity is never a weakness, it is a rare and beautiful strength, the very root of resilience, compassion and the quiet courage it takes to stay open in a world that often forgets how to feel.

Your soft heart doesn’t mean you’re without strength. It’s just that you know how to protect it. On the outside, you might seem careful, self contained… even a bit guarded but that’s because you truly value the depth of what you feel.

That balance between softness and strength is what makes you who you are. You show up for people in a way that’s real and grounded, never shying away from honesty but always leading with empathy.

That’s your quiet superpower: you know that vulnerability can live alongside resilience and that the most lasting connections grow where you let yourself truly feel.

Today is the new moon in Cancer and as she settles in, it’s a gentle reminder to embrace how deeply you feel, your intuition, your care, your empathy, your courage, your protection (and might I add an excellent day to manifest especially if you have cancer placements in your chart).

The world feels chaotic and dense right now — an escalation, underlying uneasiness with building tension and hurried energy. However, you don’t have to match that pace. Instead, you can be the light, the nurturer and the steady heart that reminds people it’s okay to slow down, to breathe, to be.

Your care, patience, and quiet strength matter more than ever. In times like these, being the one who listens, loves and holds space is its own kind of magic. Trust that your softness is a powerful force and that by showing up with compassion and honesty, you help everyone around you remember that even in the hardest seasons, gentleness is where healing begins.

If you are ready to embrace your softness as a strength and navigate these tense times with more clarity and care, I’d love to support you. Reach out and let’s work together for guidance that meets you right where you are.

love & positivity ✨ phi

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Stop apologising for your own growth

You need to stop gaslighting your growth just because it doesn’t feel graceful.

Sin in the stretch. Let the friction teach you where you’re still shrinking to be digestible.

STOP APOLOGISING 🛑 👀 for your own growth just because it doesn’t look pretty, neat and linear…

Real change rarely looks polished as it unfolds — it’s often uneven, surprising and uncomfortable.

Just because it doesn’t feel graceful doesn’t mean it’s not exactly what you need to become who you’re meant to be.

When you lean into the tension and sit with that unfamiliar stretch, you begin to see all the places where you’re still shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s version of you.

That friction is a powerful teacher, pointing out where you can breathe deeper, stand taller,and refuse to make yourself small for anyone’s comfort.

Your becoming is not always tidy, but it is real, and it deserves your full presence.

If you’re ready to honor your process and grow into the most authentic version of yourself, let’s explore it together — reach out for life coaching and take that next brave step by working together ❤️‍🔥

Not everything that breaks you is meant to destroy you

Not everything that breaks you is meant to destroy you. Some things come to crack the shell you’ve outgrown. To shake loose the parts of you that were built from survival, not truth. It’s okay to grieve those pieces… the personas, the patterns, the dreams that no longer fit. You’re not losing yourself. You’re meeting the version of you that doesn’t need to perform for love anymore. The one who knows they’re worthy even in the mess. You may not recognise the person you’re becoming – and that’s a good thing… it means you’re no longer repeating the past. It means you’re choosing differently, showing up more honestly, standing more firmly in your knowing. Trust the confusion. Trust the shedding. You’re not meant to go back to who you were. You’re meant to rise as someone braver, someone truer, someone more you.

Sometimes, the cracks that appear in your life are the very places where light begins to seep in. The pain, the confusion, the setbacks… they may feel like endings, but more often than not, they are the beginning of something deeper and more resilient.

What shattered wasn’t your spirit—it was the illusion that you had to stay the same to be whole.

You weren’t meant to return to your old self.

That version of you was built for a season that has already passed.

Growth demands evolution, and healing is not about going back — it’s about becoming someone new with the strength born from experience.

There’s power in surviving what you thought would break you, and even more power in using it as the foundation to rise stronger, clearer and more purposeful than ever.

If you’re standing at the edge of your own transformation, don’t retreat — step forward. Message me for life coaching and let’s build the next version of you together 🦋

For the spiritual woman wanting to conceive

For the spiritual woman wanting to conceive…

Your baby picks you – but only if you make space for it to show up.

Opening your energy is the first step in welcoming a spirit home.

Conception begins long before the body says yes.

Your baby is calling you to slow down, not speed up.

Sometimes conception means first conceiving peace within.

You can’t rush what’s born in divine timing.

The invisible thread of spirit connects you to your child before their first breath.

Align your heart and energy to invite a soul eager to call you parent.

Your womb isn’t just physical; it hold your stories, your pain, your hope and your desires.

You can’t control your life, but you can prepare your heart.

Your future child’s soul waits patiently, ready to leap into your life when the moment feels right.

Waiting isn’t passive – it’s the work of love in disguise.

You don’t have to understand the timing – just honour it.

So many women are doing everything ‘right’ to conceive but no one tells them what is being shared in this carousel or talk about…

I don’t often share this part of my work: the sacred, quiet conversations I have with women preparing to become mothers.

However today, something came through that landed so deeply for a client (see the first quote).

What I’ve come to understand through coaching, intuitively channeling, and holding space for women walking this path is that becoming a mother is often an energetic and spiritual shift before it’s a physical one.

Whether you are calling in a baby through conception, surrogacy, adoption or simply feeling the stirrings of maternal energy within you, the invitation is the same: to begin making space.

Space in your body, yes but also in your heart, your nervous system, your life.

To begin relating to yourself as a safe place for love to land.

Motherhood isn’t just a title given when a child arrives.

It’s an identity that starts to take shape in the unseen, subtle layers of who you’re becoming.

In the quiet moments where you begin to soften, trust, listen and open. In the grief, the longing, the hope.

This is sacred preparation.

However motherhood arrives for you, this inner work matters. It creates the container your soul and the soul of the life you may one day guide can feel.

If you’re looking for guidance and support on this journey, I’d love to help you through 1:1 coaching. Message me for more details.

love & positivity ✨ phi

You’re safe in your truth

It’s okay if your heart still flinches sometimes. It remembers. That doesn’t mean you’re broken – it means you cared deeply and hold so much love. The tenderness you carry, the truth you’ve fought to feel and the courage it takes to keep your heart open in a world that taught you to close… it’s beautiful. You just have to keep being you. I just wanted to remind you that you’re safe now because you have your own back and protect your heart. You’re not where you used to be. You’ve grow wiser, softer and stronger. You don’t abandon yourself anymore for love, approval or belonging – you’ve become the one who stays. Even when the old fears rise or the doubts whisper, you know how to hold yourself through it. You’ve built a home inside you that no one can take away.

So breathe. Let your shoulders drop. Let the part of you that’s always bracing for impact be reminded: you’re not in danger anymore.

You’re safe in your own presence.

You’re safe in your truth.

The world may not always reflect that safety back to you but your soul knows.

You’ve made it through every storm.

You are the calm now. You are the haven.

Ready to heal your heart and unlock more of your potential? Let’s work together through 1:1 coaching, human design or come on a retreat ☺️ message me for more details.

She never stopped believing in you

You may not feel like it today, but someone you used to be is looking at you with so much pride. You’re the proud that she made it. The you who cried, who hoped, who held on – she’d be in awe of who you’ve become. The girl you used to be never stopped believing in you. Even on your hardest days, you are still her dream come true.

Theres a version of you: younger, softer, optimistic who used to dream about the life you’re living now.

Maybe she didn’t have all the details right.

Maybe she imagined different clothes, different people, a different path.

But what she really longed for wasn’t the specifics — it was the feeling.

Freedom. Growth. Confidence. Peace… whether or not you see it right now, you’ve given her more of that than you realise.

It’s so easy to get caught up in what’s still missing.

The goals unmet, the ways you feel behind, the pressure to be more, do more, prove more.

Try to remember: you are already someone’s dream come true. The strength you’ve built. The love you’ve learned to give yourself. The decisions you’ve made that broke patterns and healed generations. She would look at you with nothing but awe.

So when the doubt creeps in, when the noise gets loud, come back to her. The younger you — who believed in magic, who trusted without proof, who hoped even when things hurt.

She’s still in there 🧡and she sees you.

You don’t need to do anything more to earn her love.

You already are the person she was waiting for.

For the women whose love knows no end

For the women whose love knows no end, whose hands hold the world and whose hearts beat with a devotion that defies time and space. We appreciate you. To the mothers, soon-to-be mothers, those longing to be mothers, mothers in spirit and the women who nurture: your love doesn’t ask for recognition, yet it is felt deeply in every gesture, every word, every sacrifice. You give without hesitation and in your enduring strength, you shape the world around you. In your embrace, the world feels safe; in your words, there is wisdom that heals. Your sacrifices are the foundation upon which many stand, yet, you ask for nothing in return. Today, we celebrate you – not just for what you give but for who you are. Your love is a quiet revolution, shaping lives in ways that will never be fully known, but always felt. So if no one’s told you today: thank you. You deserve to be honoured, not just with flowers or cards, but with real recognition of how your love is a gift that transforms the world and the legacy you create will continue to ripple through generations. Happy Mother’s Day.

Happy Mothers Day 🤍🌸 There’s something sacred about the way women love. It’s not just care — it’s devotion. An energy that extends far beyond roles or titles, reaching into the heart of those in their presence. On Mother’s Day, we honour that essence.

The women who hold space, who listen between the lines, who sense what’s needed before it’s ever spoken.

You don’t have to be a mother to embody it. You just have to lead with your heart.

This day is for the ones who are healing ancestral lines while raising the next generation. The ones doing the deep inner work while still showing up for others. The ones who walk through their own storms, and somehow manage to be a safe place for others to land.

You don’t have to get it perfect. You don’t have to match someone else’s version of motherhood or womanhood. What you offer: your presence, your energy, your care counts in ways that ripple far beyond what you see.

Thank you — I see you; we see you 💐

Unlocking Unlearning – Episode 2 💫

🔑 They say healing your inner child means digging up your deepest wounds, facing your shadows and doing the heavy emotional lifting. Yes, there’s a time, place and need for this but that’s not the whole story and honestly that version of healing can scare people off before they even begin.

Here’s the truth no one tells you: inner child healing can be light. Playful. Creative. 🤸🏼‍♀️

Some of the biggest breakthroughs I’ve seen with coaching clients didn’t come from emotional excavations — they came from laughter, imagination and doing things their inner child actually enjoyed.

Healing doesn’t always look like shadow work. Sometimes, it looks like dancing in your lounge room, finger painting or making up a silly game for no reason at all.

So here’s a question to sit with today: What’s one fun thing your inner child would love to do with you this week? Start there. Let that be your medicine.

I do things differently in my world 🥳 if you’re ready for different let’s work together — I offer 1:1 coaching 💃🏼 (life, business, career, dating etc not dancing 😂) human design readings + retreats. Message me for more info — let’s chat 💬

What’s meant for you will find it’s way

What’s meant for you will land, but you’ve got to be open to it. The universe doesn’t work on a timeline you can always predict nor understand and sometimes what’s meant for you arrives in ways you don’t expect. It might look different than what you imagined or come at a time that feels inconvenient… But when you release the need to control every detail, you allow the right opportunities to find their way to you. The key is to stay open – to let go of needing to control the outcome. What’s truly meant for you doesn’t need to be forced. It finds it’s way – when you are ready to receive.

ATTN: divine timing isn’t about delay — it’s about alignment. It’s about your growth, your healing, your expansion catching up with the very things your soul has been calling in.

Sometimes the pause is sacred.

Sometimes slowing down is necessary.

Sometimes the detour is protection.

When you stop making delays mean you’re failing and start trusting that you’re being prepared, you begin to see how deeply supported you truly are 💫

So if you’re in a season of waiting, of wondering, of almosts and not gets — know this: you don’t have to navigate it alone.

I’m here to help you stay open, stay grounded and keep moving forward with trust. If you’re ready for support on your journey — ready to soften your grip, reconnect with your truth, your heart and walk with more clarity and courage… I’d love to guide you.

Send me a message or apply to work together. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to take the next step. ✨

love & positivity ✨ phi

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You became her

One day you wake up… and realise you became her. Not the girl who had it all figured out but the woman who kept going. Who held herself through heartbreak, silence, fear and doubt. Who stopped chasing and started choosing. She’s softer now but stronger too. She doesn’t beg. She doesn’t explain. She just is. And younger you? She wouldn’t believe how far you’ve come. She is so incredibly proud.

You’re no longer the girl you once were. You’re different. You’ve changed, transformed — not into the perfect, flawless woman you once thought you’d be, but into someone far more powerful.

You’re no longer that girl who was always trying to figure it out, compare herself, seek for the opinions and validation of those outside of her.

You became the woman who trusted her own instincts, who weathered the storms of life, not only survived it all but thrived.

You came to understand that real strength isn’t about having it all together — it’s about staying when everything else was telling you to quit.

You became the woman who chooses herself, even when it’s hard. This is the kind of strength that doesn’t need to shout or explain herself. She simply exists in her truth and that’s more than enough.

If you’re ready to step fully into your power, to stop questioning and start living with purpose and confidence, I’m here to help. Let’s work together to unlock the woman you are meant to be — because you’ve already started and the best is yet to come 🧡 message me to get started

love & positivity ✨ phi

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