Phi Dang

Clarity and Confidence Life Coach known as 'The Positivity Queen'. I help you go from stuck and self critical to courageous and empowered by overcoming your negative self talk so you can conquer anything.

  • It’s happening…

    Amazing things are coming

    What you want is happening behind the scenes, beneath the surface, underneath the veil.

    You don’t have to worry.

    You don’t have to force.

    It. Is. Happening.

    Everything has been rearranged, lined up and is ready to go.

    Trust that everything unfolding before you is happening for a reason.

    Just because it is taking time does not mean it is not happening.

    Release your fear, grip and control.

    Let go and surrender into bliss and freedom.

    It’s already meant for you.

    Old energy is clearing and making way for new energy.

    Amazing things are coming.

    Allow your dreams to be a reality.

    Allow yourself to know that you are destined for all you desire.

    You don’t have to be in a rush because you are already exactly where you need to be.

    You have been planted to grow

    There are times like these we must trust in the unknown, the unexpected and the cover of darkness ✨

    So much of the beauty of life remains unseen and we only see the final result such as the depths of the ocean, flowers in full bloom or early sunrises… at times this is also you.

    In this journey is beauty too not only the end final result…

    Bloom beautiful soul, you have been planted to grow 🌸

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Presence is a present…

    Be here right now...

    they say you never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory… 💭

    life is so precious, this present moment right here and right now… you will never relive or get again.

    sure you may do similar things but it will never be the exact same…

    your mind and thoughts will change…

    how you feel will change…

    who you are will change…

    don’t take the present for granted…

    presence is a present for a reason…

    live and love fully beautiful soul.

    be here right now 🧡

    the audio is an excerpt by Caroline Myss her full Ted talk is “choices that can change your life” – I highly recommend listening.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • To be human

    Dear beautiful soul...

    Dear beautiful soul,

    You will do many incredible things in this lifetime.

    Your impact, influence and presence will be felt by many.

    You will break ancestral patterns and pain.

    You will find the light in the abyss of darkness.

    You will contribute to the community and greater society.

    You will make a difference in this world.

    You ask, what if I live an ordinary life?

    A boring life?

    A life where I didn’t find the solution or reach millions?

    Divine child, your purpose is to live!

    All that you do can turn to gold but don’t forget…

    You are radiant energy, a soul having a human experience.

    There will be moments you understand why you are here.

    When you taste the sunshine and dive in the depths of the ocean.

    When you love so deeply and fall so hard.

    When you let down your walls and your heart beats so quickly.

    When you twirl with insurmountable pleasure and pain.

    When you kiss the moonlight and dance with the stars.

    When you feet plant on the earth and you move as one with humanity.

    These are the moments.

    This is your purpose.

    To live with presence.

    To be human.

    There's a reason you are here

    For you — worried, anxious or feeling lost about your purpose.

    There’s a reason you are here now reading this.

    There’s a reason why your soul chose to come to earth and be here at this very time in your body, with your mind.

    Purposeful meaning? You create it.

    At the end of the day, when you are on your deathbed people will remember all the incredible things you do… but the ones you love and are closest to you? They will remember your presence. You. Not what you did. You.

    Live large.

    Love deeply.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • It’s safe to surrender

    On trust...

    This is your sign to let go.

    Trust where you are right now.

    Trust that you are capable and on the right track to where you want to be.

    Trust that you are becoming who you are meant to be.

    This is how you are changing your reality.

    The sign you've been looking for...

    This is the sign you’ve been looking for. I know you’re stressed and anxious. I know at times it feels like it isn’t happening for you but it seems to be for everyone else. I know you’re giving it your all and trying your best.

    It’s all going to pay off sooner rather than later.

    It’s safe to surrender, relax and melt into this moment.

    It’s safe to have trust and faith in the universe, you are not alone in this. You are loved and supported. You are a powerful conscious creator and the universe sees that.

    Watch as you change your inner world how your external reality is shifting 💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • It’s all yours

    If it is meant for you...

    I know sometimes it pains you beautiful soul, to think about what could have, should have or may have been… here’s the thing, we think we have the right person, opportunity, job, whatever it may be at the wrong time but if it was meant to be… the timing would be right too.

    You haven’t lost out or messed it up somehow.

    What is meant for you will always find its way to you even if it has to come back later.

    If it is meant for you, it will always be for you and only you.

    Trust me when I say it’s yours.

    No matter how long it takes.

    No matter how it comes.

    No matter the blocks, challenges, obstacles and set backs.

    It’s all yours.

    This or something better

    Save yourself from the what if or if only… if it’s meant to be it will be. No ifs, buts bla bla.

    You’ll torture yourself with these.

    No need to obsess.

    No need to ache over all the different timelines and possibilities.

    It’s not right, if there’s one thing off… 😪

    The universe only wants what is best for you at the best time.

    In fact the one thing off may be the very thing the universe is using to protect you from what is not yours or greater pain.

    All in divine timing and order.

    If it’s not what you desired, something better is coming.

    My favourite mantra right now?

    “This or something better!”

    Trust in the timing of your life, it’s led you to be where you are exactly right now as who you are meant to be right now.

    Move past the over thinking and ease into the inner peace you so rightly deserve.

    And so if you’re reading this, it’s your sign. It wasn’t meant to be right now or back then and it’s okay – bigger and better things are coming.

    Patience beautiful soul, it will be worth it!

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Open your heart

    Open your heart

    Beautiful soul, I know it feels like at times, life isn’t pretty or kind to you – even though you have the biggest heart.

    Don’t harden your heart, don’t close off your heart.

    Your heart is meant to be open.

    With time you will understand why you had to go through the clouds for the sun to shine.

    The tears you shed are clearing and making way for your desired path.

    You asked for change and for new beginnings.

    Let your tears dry and your light shine brighter than ever before.

    The very heart that beats in your chest can hold so much pain but it’s this very heart that can hold and expand with so much love.

    Better days are coming

    It’s easy to cut yourself off from loving and feeling more deeply in fact it’s evolutionarily instinctual to protect yourself.

    It’s harder to remain open and loving yet despite it all, do so.

    A big heart is a beautiful thing.

    Life can be cruel we know that but don’t let that discourage you.

    Better days are coming.

    One day you’ll look back and realize why everything has unfolded the way it has.

    Keep going 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Trust your journey

    You have not seen it all...

    Trust how your journey is unfolding.

    I know at times it’s so hard.

    Not everyone is going to support you or understand it.

    I know it’s hard to have faith.

    I know it can be at times so hard to believe.

    Beautiful soul, you have not seen it all.

    Every moment is a precious part of your path unfolding.

    Do what you can from where you are.

    Keep going, it’s all coming together perfectly.

    Simply being

    Just because you don’t know exactly how it unfold, when, how, where and all the details… just because you can’t see it right now – it doesn’t mean that it isn’t happening.

    Trust that every piece of the jigsaw is coming together, that everything is unfolding exactly as it should.

    You cannot rush it.

    You cannot slow it down.

    All you can do is simply be.

    Relax and surrender.

    Don’t reach the destination and forget the beauty of the journey.

    Don’t reach the destination, wondering how you even got there in the first place because time slipped by.

    Don’t reach the destination resentful of how it came to be instead of being so full of love, joy, gratitude and expansion.

    You have not seen it all yet.

    You have not felt it all yet.

    That’s the magic and beauty of the journey 💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • On healing…

    You heal when...

    You heal when you love yourself through it.

    You heal when you express what’s inside.

    You heal when you speak your truth, it’s medicine.

    You heal when you forgive not only others but yourself too.

    You heal when you let go of how you think it should be and let it just be.

    You heal when you realise you are not broken and there’s nothing to fix.

    You heal when you get out of your head and into your body.

    You heal when you move and be on your own timeline.

    You heal when you let the past, be the past.

    You heal when you no longer resist and surrender to the flow.

    You heal because you are doing the best that you can and that is more than enough.

    Accepting the process...

    Because your healing won’t be through hate or self loathing.

    Your medicine is in kindness, compassion and love for yourself.

    Your healing comes in being able to hold space for yourself and everything that comes with the journey, all the feelings — grief, joy, sadness, ecstasy, anger and relief.

    Your healing will be at your own pace and it’s okay if it starts slow and progresses inch by inch because that is progress.

    You’ll have moments of feeling weak followed by bursts of being brave nevertheless what lies at your heart is always strength and resilience because you’ve made it so far and will continue to.

    I see you healing and I think it’s so beautiful.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Love is always worth it

    Love is always worth it...

    On love.

    Continue to open your heart again even after it’s been crushed.

    Continue to try even though you’ve been disappointed.

    Continue to let down your walls even when your heart wants to remain guarded.

    Continue to be your most authentic self even though it’s scary because you deserve to be loved as you are.

    Continue to feel it all, the highs and lows because feeling is so beautiful.

    Continue to believe in the magic and joy of love.

    Because love, is always worth it.

    It might not always be with the right person, but one day it will be.

    Always, always, always.

    Love.

    Being in love

    I know you’ve been hurt and disappointed not by love itself but your experiences in searching and experiencing love.

    How can a heart hurt and yearn so much?

    From fiery passion to empty silence.

    To taste a glimpse of paradise and eternity for it to crumble into ashes.

    When you let down your walls and the vulnerability of it all.

    When you go first and they don’t follow.

    For all the aches, for all the tears, for all the disappointment continue to love deeply.

    Because love is always worth it.

    Love will never let you down, sometimes people will and that’s okay.

    Not everyone is ready for the depth and magnitude of your precious beating heart and that’s okay.

    One day you’ll be with someone who is and you will understand the journey it took to be wholly and fully with love… in love.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Who you are becoming

    Lessons from life...

    You can’t rush who you are becoming.

    Life will unnerve you and take away all that you thought you needed.

    The security.

    The comfort.

    Life will make you question the twists and turns leading to anger, angst and agony.

    Life will send a quaking storm to shake you up and present a new fork in the road.

    Life will strip you down to your heart and soul, laying bare your inner truth.

    Life will throw sharp curveballs you least expect.

    Life will have you reeling from feeling so raw and vulnerable.

    Life will have you digging deeper into your own self, the roots and foundation of who you really are.

    Trust in this all, beautiful soul, because life is unfolding more of who you really are, in all its beautiful, wild, messy and divine timing.

    You are exactly the person you need to be right now, here in this very moment.

    Growth isn't linear...

    What’s the rush? There is no race. Often what feels like blocks and delays is the universe protecting you, keeping you on track for divine timing or even redirecting you.

    It’s all happening for you not to you.

    Life isn’t meant to be easy and breezy all the time and going perfectly to plan because if it was… what’s the point?

    It would be boring.

    Life is about growing and expanding that often happens most profoundly and deeply when you are uncomfortable and feeling into your edges.

    Life is not static and neither are you.

    You are becoming someone you haven’t been before, be patient – slow growth is beautiful too.

    Growth isn’t linear either it curls, goes sideways, plunges, shoots back up, stalls you get the point…

    Know here right now as you’re reading this, in this moment you are exactly who you need to be and exactly where you are meant to be.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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