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Sacred rage isn’t your enemy

Last week coaching clients, one thing stood out: sacred anger and rage is real — it’s often the hardest emotion for women to claim.

We’ve been taught to soften, to stay small, to avoid the fire that boils beneath.

What if the anger you feel is not something to fear, but a sacred force calling you to set boundaries, demand respect and reclaim your power?

Embracing your sacred rage means honoring the truth of what you feel, even when it’s uncomfortable.

It’s the fuel that transforms frustration into fierce clarity and quiet resentment into bold action.

If you’ve been holding back your anger, it might be time to see it as a guide, not a threat.

If you’re ready to safely explore this powerful energy and turn it into your superpower, let’s talk.

Sacred rage isn’t your enemy — it’s your awakening. DM me to start your journey with life coaching that helps you step into your full, authentic power ❤️‍🔥

One day soon

Fate has a funny way of rearranging our lives in ways we never saw coming. It strips away what feels familiar, what you thought was certain, only to make space and surprise you for something more aligned than you ever dared to ask for. In those moments when your world feels cracked open, when grief settles heavy in your chest, there is a quiet grace beneath the pain and a tenderness that refuses to harden, even when everything inside you threatens to break. It’s as if fate gently whispers that loss and longing are not the end but the beginning of a deeper unfolding, a deeper unlearning. She invites you to lean into the ache, to trust that the parts of you that feel broken are the very parts being rebuilt with more strength and clarity than before. This isn’t about erasing your scars but honouring them, holding them as proof that you survived what you once thought would destroy you. Fate didn’t forget you in the chaos; she was just writing a better story —one with twists and turns you couldn’t have scripted yourself.

And maybe that’s the point: you weren’t meant to write this story alone. Fate is not a cruel punisher or puppeteer but a quiet co creator, guiding you toward a version of yourself that is fuller, fiercer and softer all at once.

She weaves the unexpected into your journey, not to punish, but to prepare you for the life that is waiting— one richer and more real than anything you could have imagined.

So when the path feels uncertain, remember this: every detour, every heartbreak, every unplanned chapter is fate’s way of reminding you that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.

It may not make sense right now, but it will one day.

One day soon 💫

A heart that beats louder than doubt

My favourite people are the ones who dare to dream and aren’t actually afraid to try,,, and be seen trying. The ones who takes brave, messy steps toward them in the open. They’re not fearless but they move anyway. They let themselves be seen in the uncertainty, in the wild pursuit of something deeply meaningful that lights up their heart and soul. These are the people who remind me that courage isn’t about having a flawless plan – it’s about having a heart that beats louder than doubt.

They know failure is a risk but hiding would cost them even more so they show up with shaky hands and hopeful eyes. They don’t always feel read and often their voices tremble when they speak their truth. But they do it anyway. They try anyway.

Something inside them whispers that staying hidden hurts more than being seen — even if that means being seen stumbling or starting over. There’s a kind of beauty in that boldness, sometimes loud yes but also the quiet, soul deep kind that stirs something in everyone who watches.

Watching them is like poetry in motion — raw, alive, unfiltered. You can feel the pulse of their courage in every step they take. Not polished. Not perfect. Just real. In their realness, they remind us that we don’t have to wait to be fully healed or fully certain to begin.

I treasure these people. The ones who chase the things they care about, not because it’s easy but because it’s honest. When we stop hiding and start trusting that who we are… that is enough to begin. Showing up, even imperfectly is already a kind of magic.

Your dreams are too important to stay tucked away. Let’s bring them to life — one step at a time through 1:1 coaching, message me let’s start.

Growth leaves you more whole

Somewhere along the way, you stopped needing to be the strongest one in the room. You started allowing yourself to feel, to unlearn, to unravel, to not know… That’s not weakness – that’s wisdom. It takes incredible strength to soften when life has hardened you. To keep your heart open after disappointment. To stay curious when it would be easier to shut down. This is the quiet power that builds slowly, without visible validation. The kind that truly changes everything. You’re not late. You’re not behind. You’re in the thick of it. It’s okay if no one else sees the ways you’re changing. What matters is that you feel it. That you notice the tenderness returning. That you speak your truth a little louder. That you hold yourself a little more kindly. Growth rarely looks glamorous – but it always leaves you more whole.

You don’t have to hold it all together with a smile while your heart quietly aches behind the scenes. The world may have taught you that your worth lies in your resilience, in how much you can carry without breaking — but that’s not the full truth.

There is power in softness, in saying “I need help,” in letting someone else hold space when you’re too tired to keep holding it all on your own.

Strength doesn’t disappear when you lean into help— it’s redefined. It becomes the quiet bravery of allowing someone to see the parts of you that are tired, messy, confused or afraid.

It’s the courage to drop the armour and say, I’m not okay.

You were never meant to do it all without support. You’re not weak for feeling lost or overwhelmed. You’re human and you’re allowed to ask for help.

Let me be the strong one for a while. Let me hold the space and find the solutions instead of it always being you. You don’t have to have it all figured out to begin… you just have to be willing to be honest about where you are.

Unlocking Unlearning – Episode 2 💫

🔑 They say healing your inner child means digging up your deepest wounds, facing your shadows and doing the heavy emotional lifting. Yes, there’s a time, place and need for this but that’s not the whole story and honestly that version of healing can scare people off before they even begin.

Here’s the truth no one tells you: inner child healing can be light. Playful. Creative. 🤸🏼‍♀️

Some of the biggest breakthroughs I’ve seen with coaching clients didn’t come from emotional excavations — they came from laughter, imagination and doing things their inner child actually enjoyed.

Healing doesn’t always look like shadow work. Sometimes, it looks like dancing in your lounge room, finger painting or making up a silly game for no reason at all.

So here’s a question to sit with today: What’s one fun thing your inner child would love to do with you this week? Start there. Let that be your medicine.

I do things differently in my world 🥳 if you’re ready for different let’s work together — I offer 1:1 coaching 💃🏼 (life, business, career, dating etc not dancing 😂) human design readings + retreats. Message me for more info — let’s chat 💬

Not every step forward is visible

Not every step forward will be visible – trust the unseen growth. There are times when it feels like you’re standing still, like nothing is changing and it’s easy to doubt whether any progress is being made… Growth isn’t always loud or obvious. Sometimes it’s happening in the quiet moments, the small invisible shifts within your heart and mind. The most profound growth often happens beneath the surface – out of sight, in the spaces where you are becoming compassionate and patient with yourself, changing your ways of thinking. The visible changes will come. Keep going, even when it feels like nothing is happening. The changes are already underway.

Just because you can’t see it doesn’t mean you’re not growing… 👀 There will be seasons when it feels like you’re standing still, when the shifts are so subtle they seem nonexistent.

It’s in those moments that doubt creeps in, whispering that nothing’s moving.

Growth doesn’t always shout.

Sometimes it hums quietly beneath the surface, unfolding in your thoughts, softening your heart and reshaping the way you see the world.

You’re doing important work in the stillness… the quiet.

You’re unlearning, reimagining, creating space for new patterns to emerge.

It may not look like much on the outside, but inside, roots are forming. Just like a tree that anchors itself before it reaches toward the sky, you’re preparing for your next expansion.

So if you’re not seeing clear signs yet, be gentle with yourself and your heart.

The transformation is already in motion. The quiet days, the reflective pauses, the inner shifts — they all matter.

Trust the process.

Even when it feels like nothing is happening, everything is happening.

Ready to have growth internally and externally? I got you — I offer 1:1 coaching, human design readings and retreats. Message me for more details 🧡

Sometimes messy is the medicine

Sometimes messy is the medicine.

It’s in the chaos that we find the courage to let go of what no longer serves us. The spills, the tangles, the moments when everything feels like it’s falling apart — these are the places where growth takes root. When life is unpolished and raw, it’s a reminder that healing doesn’t always come in neat packages or perfect plans. Sometimes, it’s the mess that breaks us open, allowing us to feel, to process, to shed old skin and emerge stronger. In the mess, there is freedom. It’s the space where you stop pretending to have it all together, where you allow yourself to be human. It’s the cluttered room of your heart that needs sorting out, the unraveling that leads to understanding, the mistakes that become wisdom. Don’t be afraid of the messy moments. Let them teach you. Let them remind you that even when things aren’t perfect, they are exactly what you need to grow. Sometimes, messy is exactly what the soul needs to heal, to shift, to evolve.

Allow it to be. Seriously don’t fix it. Don’t tie it in a bow. Don’t rush it. For now. Why? Sometimes the most radical act of healing isn’t found in trying to clean everything up — but in giving yourself permission to sit in the middle of it, exactly as it is.

The discomfort, the questions, the not sure not yet knowing… these are fertile places. The fertile void. This is where the old starts to crumble, and the real transformation begins.

Life rarely moves in neat lines. Though we’ve been conditioned to think it works that way. Real growth often looks like chaos at first. If you can breathe inside the uncertainty instead of running from it, if you can stop trying to rescue yourself from feeling “too much”… you might just meet a deeper part of you.

The part that doesn’t need to be polished to be powerful.

The wholeness that is being human and sometimes the mess is the way.

If you’re ready to stop fighting the mess and start finding yourself inside it — this is the work I guide you through. DM me or hit the link in bio to explore 1:1 coaching with me 🧡

You’re not afraid of failure…

You’re not afraid of failure. You’re afraid of being seen trying.

Being unbothered is cute. Being in integrity is divine.

Some people aren’t avoiding you. Your boundaries just finally worked.

Every time you say yes out of guilt, your body keeps the receipt.

You’re not blocked – you’re avoiding the part of you that knows exactly what to do.

Your next level will feel unfamiliar. That’s how you know it’s not a performance.

You keep asking for signs but ignoring your own body.

Your higher self isn’t waiting in the future. She’s watching what you tolerate today.

You are not hard to love. You’re just no longer available for half heartedness.

👀 what 1:1 coaching is like with me (these quotes are snippets from conversations with clients this week). often my clients record our calls because I’ll be dropping insights and truth bombs which my clients love and were like I need to write this down and remember it… so here it is: a deeper look at the work and the real breakthroughs that happen;

🔎 Case Study 1: The Self Aware Client Who Stalls

One client is incredibly self aware — she knows what’s holding her back, she can articulate her patterns and she sees her limiting beliefs clearly. Yet when it comes time to take action, she stalls. The reality is, while awareness is powerful, it’s discipline that makes the difference. You can’t just think your way out of limiting beliefs… you have to take consistent, conscious action to create change. Real growth requires both awareness and the courage to do the work.

❤️‍🔥Case Study 2: 🌶️ 🤝🏽 💸

Coaching a client struggling to get her business off the ground I was able to uncover that her approach to intimacy was mirroring her relationship with money — she believed she had to “earn” success through struggle, blocking her ability to fully receive abundance. Through coaching, we shifted her perspective = redefining her approach to worth, pleasure and receptivity. 💥 her business began to thrive in ways she hadn’t expected and the other department too 🥵

💼 Case Study 3: The Fear of Being Seen… And the Fear of Success

A business client recently came to me struggling with a deep fear of visibility. She knew that being seen was a crucial step in growing her business but the fear was paralysing her. What we uncovered? Her fear wasn’t just about being seen — it was rooted in the fear of actually being successful. Success brings visibility and with visibility comes responsibility, change and sometimes the fear of outgrowing the people and situations around us. Fear of failure is easy to spot, but fear of success? That one’s sneaky, and we don’t always recognise it.

If you’re looking for support and guidance — message me to set up a free chat to discuss 🧡

love & positivity ✨ phi

What’s meant for you will find it’s way

What’s meant for you will land, but you’ve got to be open to it. The universe doesn’t work on a timeline you can always predict nor understand and sometimes what’s meant for you arrives in ways you don’t expect. It might look different than what you imagined or come at a time that feels inconvenient… But when you release the need to control every detail, you allow the right opportunities to find their way to you. The key is to stay open – to let go of needing to control the outcome. What’s truly meant for you doesn’t need to be forced. It finds it’s way – when you are ready to receive.

ATTN: divine timing isn’t about delay — it’s about alignment. It’s about your growth, your healing, your expansion catching up with the very things your soul has been calling in.

Sometimes the pause is sacred.

Sometimes slowing down is necessary.

Sometimes the detour is protection.

When you stop making delays mean you’re failing and start trusting that you’re being prepared, you begin to see how deeply supported you truly are 💫

So if you’re in a season of waiting, of wondering, of almosts and not gets — know this: you don’t have to navigate it alone.

I’m here to help you stay open, stay grounded and keep moving forward with trust. If you’re ready for support on your journey — ready to soften your grip, reconnect with your truth, your heart and walk with more clarity and courage… I’d love to guide you.

Send me a message or apply to work together. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to take the next step. ✨

love & positivity ✨ phi

🎧 Grow Through it Podcast with Phi Dang
📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang

You’re not running out of time

You’re not running out of time – you’re creating your own timeline.

How do you create and align with your own timeline? 👀 you do this with one breath, one choice and one moment of trust at a time.

Life isn’t a race to be won or a checklist to complete by a certain age. Unlearn those timelines — It’s an unfolding, a becoming.

You get to decide what pace feels true. It’s all your sacred timing.

You are constantly shaping your path through the choices you make — whether they’re rooted in fear or aligned with faith.

Every “yes” and every “not yet” writes a line in your story.

When you choose based on your inner truth instead of outside pressure, you begin to build a life that feels like home.

Even when the next step isn’t clear, your willingness to listen, to trust, to follow the subtle nudges of the universe — that’s what moves you forward.

Not a clock.

Not a rulebook.

Not someone else’s expectations.

So when you start to spiral into comparison or urgency, pause and remember: your timeline is yours.

No one else is meant to understand it fully, because it wasn’t made for them.

You are a co creator with life and things will align in divine timing — not always your timing, but always the right one.

There’s more ahead for you than you can imagine.

Let that be your comfort.

Let that be your power.

If you’re ready to align with your beautiful divine perfect timing — I’d love to help. Message me to chat and for more information 🧡

Healing