You’re not afraid of failure. You’re afraid of being seen trying.
Being unbothered is cute. Being in integrity is divine.
Some people aren’t avoiding you. Your boundaries just finally worked.
Every time you say yes out of guilt, your body keeps the receipt.
You’re not blocked – you’re avoiding the part of you that knows exactly what to do.
Your next level will feel unfamiliar. That’s how you know it’s not a performance.
You keep asking for signs but ignoring your own body.
Your higher self isn’t waiting in the future. She’s watching what you tolerate today.
You are not hard to love. You’re just no longer available for half heartedness.
👀 what 1:1 coaching is like with me (these quotes are snippets from conversations with clients this week). often my clients record our calls because I’ll be dropping insights and truth bombs which my clients love and were like I need to write this down and remember it… so here it is: a deeper look at the work and the real breakthroughs that happen;
🔎 Case Study 1: The Self Aware Client Who Stalls
One client is incredibly self aware — she knows what’s holding her back, she can articulate her patterns and she sees her limiting beliefs clearly. Yet when it comes time to take action, she stalls. The reality is, while awareness is powerful, it’s discipline that makes the difference. You can’t just think your way out of limiting beliefs… you have to take consistent, conscious action to create change. Real growth requires both awareness and the courage to do the work.
❤️🔥Case Study 2: 🌶️ 🤝🏽 💸
Coaching a client struggling to get her business off the ground I was able to uncover that her approach to intimacy was mirroring her relationship with money — she believed she had to “earn” success through struggle, blocking her ability to fully receive abundance. Through coaching, we shifted her perspective = redefining her approach to worth, pleasure and receptivity. 💥 her business began to thrive in ways she hadn’t expected and the other department too 🥵
💼 Case Study 3: The Fear of Being Seen… And the Fear of Success
A business client recently came to me struggling with a deep fear of visibility. She knew that being seen was a crucial step in growing her business but the fear was paralysing her. What we uncovered? Her fear wasn’t just about being seen — it was rooted in the fear of actually being successful. Success brings visibility and with visibility comes responsibility, change and sometimes the fear of outgrowing the people and situations around us. Fear of failure is easy to spot, but fear of success? That one’s sneaky, and we don’t always recognise it.
If you’re looking for support and guidance — message me to set up a free chat to discuss 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi
