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There’s time to shift your story

Can you believe a third of the year is already over? 😳 If you’re feeling like you blinked and suddenly April happened and it’s now come May, you’re not alone — but this moment can either be a wake up call or another scroll past.

What have the first 4 months shown you about what’s really working… and what’s just been noise?

This isn’t about judging yourself for where you are — it’s an invitation to actually pause. To zoom out, to breathe, to get honest.

You’re not behind. You’re not late.

This isn’t about panic — it’s about power. You’ve still got 8 full months to shift your story, set a new tone and show up with intention.

If you’re craving clarity, accountability and soulful momentum, life coaching might be your next right step. Let’s chat, message me 🧡

Trusting the universe means trusting yourself

Trusting the universe means trusting yourself too – trusting that you’re being guided toward something meaningful. Even in the moments where things feel up in the air, when you’re uncertain or unsure… you’re still being led toward the right experiences, the right people, the right opportunities and the right love. Sometimes the most magical moments come when we let go of the need to control or figure it all out in advance and simply let go, to be.

Trusting the universe doesn’t mean sitting back and waiting for things to happen — it’s about trusting that you’re being guided, even when the path ahead seems unclear.

It’s trusting that you have what it takes to navigate the unknown and that even in moments of doubt, you are being led toward something meaningful.

The most incredible, life changing moments often come from the places we least expect — the quiet pauses, the moments of letting go… when you finally detach.

It’s when you stop grasping, stop overthinking and release the need to figure it all immediately, that life has room to surprise us with its beauty.

When you trust yourself, you trust that everything that comes your way (even the challenges) are stepping stones to something greater.

When you lean into that trust, you create space for the magic to unfold naturally… just like magic 💫

Ready to deepen your self trust and faith? Let’s work together through 1:1 coaching, human design or come on a retreat with me this year. Message me for more details and let’s chat.

love & positivity ✨ phi

You’re not afraid of failure…

You’re not afraid of failure. You’re afraid of being seen trying.

Being unbothered is cute. Being in integrity is divine.

Some people aren’t avoiding you. Your boundaries just finally worked.

Every time you say yes out of guilt, your body keeps the receipt.

You’re not blocked – you’re avoiding the part of you that knows exactly what to do.

Your next level will feel unfamiliar. That’s how you know it’s not a performance.

You keep asking for signs but ignoring your own body.

Your higher self isn’t waiting in the future. She’s watching what you tolerate today.

You are not hard to love. You’re just no longer available for half heartedness.

👀 what 1:1 coaching is like with me (these quotes are snippets from conversations with clients this week). often my clients record our calls because I’ll be dropping insights and truth bombs which my clients love and were like I need to write this down and remember it… so here it is: a deeper look at the work and the real breakthroughs that happen;

🔎 Case Study 1: The Self Aware Client Who Stalls

One client is incredibly self aware — she knows what’s holding her back, she can articulate her patterns and she sees her limiting beliefs clearly. Yet when it comes time to take action, she stalls. The reality is, while awareness is powerful, it’s discipline that makes the difference. You can’t just think your way out of limiting beliefs… you have to take consistent, conscious action to create change. Real growth requires both awareness and the courage to do the work.

❤️‍🔥Case Study 2: 🌶️ 🤝🏽 💸

Coaching a client struggling to get her business off the ground I was able to uncover that her approach to intimacy was mirroring her relationship with money — she believed she had to “earn” success through struggle, blocking her ability to fully receive abundance. Through coaching, we shifted her perspective = redefining her approach to worth, pleasure and receptivity. 💥 her business began to thrive in ways she hadn’t expected and the other department too 🥵

💼 Case Study 3: The Fear of Being Seen… And the Fear of Success

A business client recently came to me struggling with a deep fear of visibility. She knew that being seen was a crucial step in growing her business but the fear was paralysing her. What we uncovered? Her fear wasn’t just about being seen — it was rooted in the fear of actually being successful. Success brings visibility and with visibility comes responsibility, change and sometimes the fear of outgrowing the people and situations around us. Fear of failure is easy to spot, but fear of success? That one’s sneaky, and we don’t always recognise it.

If you’re looking for support and guidance — message me to set up a free chat to discuss 🧡

love & positivity ✨ phi

What’s meant for you will find it’s way

What’s meant for you will land, but you’ve got to be open to it. The universe doesn’t work on a timeline you can always predict nor understand and sometimes what’s meant for you arrives in ways you don’t expect. It might look different than what you imagined or come at a time that feels inconvenient… But when you release the need to control every detail, you allow the right opportunities to find their way to you. The key is to stay open – to let go of needing to control the outcome. What’s truly meant for you doesn’t need to be forced. It finds it’s way – when you are ready to receive.

ATTN: divine timing isn’t about delay — it’s about alignment. It’s about your growth, your healing, your expansion catching up with the very things your soul has been calling in.

Sometimes the pause is sacred.

Sometimes slowing down is necessary.

Sometimes the detour is protection.

When you stop making delays mean you’re failing and start trusting that you’re being prepared, you begin to see how deeply supported you truly are 💫

So if you’re in a season of waiting, of wondering, of almosts and not gets — know this: you don’t have to navigate it alone.

I’m here to help you stay open, stay grounded and keep moving forward with trust. If you’re ready for support on your journey — ready to soften your grip, reconnect with your truth, your heart and walk with more clarity and courage… I’d love to guide you.

Send me a message or apply to work together. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just have to be willing to take the next step. ✨

love & positivity ✨ phi

🎧 Grow Through it Podcast with Phi Dang
📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang

You’re not running out of time

You’re not running out of time – you’re creating your own timeline.

How do you create and align with your own timeline? 👀 you do this with one breath, one choice and one moment of trust at a time.

Life isn’t a race to be won or a checklist to complete by a certain age. Unlearn those timelines — It’s an unfolding, a becoming.

You get to decide what pace feels true. It’s all your sacred timing.

You are constantly shaping your path through the choices you make — whether they’re rooted in fear or aligned with faith.

Every “yes” and every “not yet” writes a line in your story.

When you choose based on your inner truth instead of outside pressure, you begin to build a life that feels like home.

Even when the next step isn’t clear, your willingness to listen, to trust, to follow the subtle nudges of the universe — that’s what moves you forward.

Not a clock.

Not a rulebook.

Not someone else’s expectations.

So when you start to spiral into comparison or urgency, pause and remember: your timeline is yours.

No one else is meant to understand it fully, because it wasn’t made for them.

You are a co creator with life and things will align in divine timing — not always your timing, but always the right one.

There’s more ahead for you than you can imagine.

Let that be your comfort.

Let that be your power.

If you’re ready to align with your beautiful divine perfect timing — I’d love to help. Message me to chat and for more information 🧡

Here’s to your rebirth

There is a quiet power in the way the earth breathes new life. It’s the pulse of nature’s promise – that after every winter, no matter how long, how hard… there is always a return. Nature doesn’t question its worth. It simply begins again. You, too, are part of that cycle. You are not broken. You have been becoming. Perhaps you’ve felt the weight of not knowing. The grief of not being ready. The ache of watching others bloom while you stayed in the void, wondering if your time would ever come. The dark has made you strong and now, you are being called to step into the spectrum of your fullness. To find and be the light again. There is something sacred in the way we are reborn – the moments when we unlearn old stories and shed old fears… to be. We bloom not because we force it, but because we are ready.

Maybe no one told you that becoming takes time. That healing is not linear and growth is not always graceful.

Maybe you’ve carried shame for your softness. For needing space. For not knowing what to do next.

With love let me remind you: you are allowed to be a mystery to yourself.

You are allowed to take the long way home.

There is no timeline for the soul. No finish line for the heart.

Even in the moments you thought you’d lost yourself completely, your soul is always there. Quietly. Faithfully. Waiting for you to notice the warmth again.

We live in a world that glorifies constant motion, but you were not made to bloom nonstop.

You were made to ebb and flow.

To rise and retreat.

That is your magic.

The version of you that falls and rises time and time again.

Here’s to your rebirth 🌻

love & positivity ✨ phi

Honour the now

Honour the now as more than just a waiting room for what’s next.

This moment however messy, unclear or in-between it feels — is not just a bridge to somewhere better because…

It is your life.

So often we’re taught to hold our breath, wait until the next thing arrives: the job, the relationship, the clarity, the glow up.

The magic… it isn’t just at the destination…

What if it’s here, in the unpolished present moment, asking you to pay attention?

There is power in choosing to live this chapter fully, even if it doesn’t look like the vision board yet.

Even if it’s quiet.

Even if nothing spectacular or extraordinary is happening.

The way you speak to yourself in the present moment now hopefully with tenderness, patience and curiosity — that’s what creates the soil for everything else to grow.

Not the hustling. Not the perfect plan.

Just your willingness to be with what is, with softness instead of resistance.

So today, can you stop holding your life like it’s on pause?

Can you honour your breath, your pace, your process — not as a placeholder but as sacred divine timing?

You don’t need to wait to arrive somewhere to feel alive.

You’re already here.

And here matters.

love & positivity ✨ phi

The waiting is where the miracles happen

Sometimes, the waiting is where the miracles happen. It may not look like progress from the outside – no milestones, no applause, no recognition; but beneath the surface, something sacred is softening, shaping, becoming. The in-between holds a wisdom of its own, asking you to surrender control and simply be with what is.

In this space, you are invited to witness the parts of yourself that only emerge in stillness: the patience you never knew you had, the courage it takes to stay, the grace of letting go of timelines you once clung to. Trust isn’t built in the leaps forward – it’s built in the quiet moments where nothing seems to move, yet everything is subtly shifting within.

You’ve been taught to look for the big moments — the leaps, the breakthroughs and the loud yeses… the real magic?

It lives in the quiet in-betweens.

The mornings where you get out of bed without clarity but choose to show up anyway.

The nights where your heart aches for something more where you stay soft instead of shutting down.

Trust isn’t forged in fireworks; it’s built in the stillness, when you’re unsure and still say to yourself — I’m here, I’m listening, I’m staying.

There’s something sacred about that space — the not-yet, the waiting, the gentle breath before something blooms.

It’s where your intuition grows louder.

In the silence.

Where you remember your own rhythm. Where you stop chasing timelines and start honouring your timing.

This is where your courage is quiet and your faith is tender and still — it’s enough.

You’re just in the part of your story where the foundation is being taking place for beautiful, big, great things 💫

love & positivity ✨ phi

Life is in constant motion

There’s a quiet ache in wishing for the next chapter before the present one has had a chance to root itself. The longing for what’s next begins to bloom before you’ve even exhaled into the fullness of here and now. It’s like standing on the edge of a story that hasn’t had the time to unfold, yet your heart already reaching for the pages that haven’t been written. The present feels unfinished, yet the mind is already hungry for change, for growth, for something different, something more. It’s as if you’re torn between honouring what you have, and the undeniable pull toward what could be. The beauty in the ache is that you’re alive, a tender reminder that life is in constant motion.

There are seasons where you find yourself suspended between the life you’ve known and the one that’s quietly calling you forward.

It’s a tender, often disorienting place—where your heart is filled with dreams that haven’t yet arrived and your feet are still planted in the soil of now.

The world tells you to move faster, to achieve more, to figure it all out. Something deeper in you knows: the soul doesn’t rush. The most meaningful transformations don’t happen in the doing—they unfold in the soft, slow space of unlearning and becoming.

This ache you feel—the tug for more, the longing for clarity: it isn’t a sign that something is wrong.

It’s proof that you’re alive.

That you’re reaching.

That you care deeply about living a life that matters.

Like roots growing underground, unseen but powerful.

This in-between season is not a pause—it’s a sacred preparation. An initiation. ❤️‍🔥

love & positivity ✨ phi

Ready for your next layer and level of growth? 🌹 I got you. I offer 1:1 coaching, human design readings and retreats. Message me for more information 🤍

You are enough to hold yourself

There comes a moment… quiet, often unnoticed — when the heart begins to stretch beyond its old walls. Not with force, but with a trembling yes. A yes to opening again. A yes to being witnessed. A yes to the gentle ache of living wide open. You don’t need to be fearless to expand. You just need to be willing. Willing to let love press against your edges. Willing to soften where you once braced. Willing to believe, even when it’s tender, that you are safe to grow. Heart expansion isn’t loud. It’s not a firework — it’s a flicker. A warmth. An exhale where once there was holding. A tear that falls without apology. Just maybe for the first time, you stop reaching out for permission and begin reaching in — You are finally enough to hold yourself.

When your heart has been hurt, it learns to build walls—not out of malice but out of self protection. These walls become silent boundaries, keeping everything that might wound us at a safe distance.

Disappointment can feel like a final blow, like a silent agreement that it’s no longer safe to hope.

So we close off.

We become careful.

We watch love from the edges and let possibility pass by, convincing ourselves that safety is enough.

But beneath the surface, something still pulses—some quiet knowing that we were made for more than just survival.

A desire. A feeling. A knowing.

And then, slowly, without warning, something soft happens.

A moment. A conversation. A serendipitous meeting. A smile that lingers a beat longer than expected. Laughing unexpectedly so much your belly hurts.

A reminder that not everything wants to hurt us. That maybe, just maybe, not everything is a repeat of the past.

The heart, once weary and withdrawn, begins to stretch again—not in dramatic ways but subtly.

Like light through a crack in the curtains.

It starts to feel.

It starts to want.

Vulnerability becomes less of a risk and more of a bridge—an opening into the unknown, yes… but also into something tender, sacred, alive.

This is how the heart begins to bloom again.

Not all at once, not without fear, but with a quiet courage.

What begins to guide instead is trust—not in outcomes, but in the strength of being open. In the beauty of showing up, letting in the unexpected and saying yes to life anyway.

The heart, once closed, dares to love the unknown again. And in that, it finds its freedom 🦋

love & positivity ✨ phi

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