Phi Dang
Clarity and Confidence Life Coach known as 'The Positivity Queen'. I help you go from stuck and self critical to courageous and empowered by overcoming your negative self talk so you can conquer anything.
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A little perspective
It's okay to feel lost
There comes a point in time where you feel lost and that’s okay.
That path isn’t always clear.
At times it may be hidden.
There’s twists and turns.
It’s okay to change your mind.
It’s okay to be scared.
What matters is you know that whichever way you go, all will be okay.
You’ll end up exactly where you need to be as exactly who you are meant to be.
Think about how proud your future self will be of you.
For continuing the journey despite the pain, fear and confusion along the way.
Sometimes all you need is perspective.
To zoom out a little and see all the progress you’ve made and will continue to make.
Keep moving, keep going
being lost is part of the journey, for if you have never been lost how do you know you’ve ever really found yourself?
be the one in control of your destiny, step into your power.
do not be afraid to live life.
go at it with all your all, you are here on this earth to be alive 🧨
the only way to know is to keep moving and to keep going.
you got this 👊🏽
I believe in you 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi
looking for direction and purpose? I got you! Let’s work together through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading 💫
p.s. My book comes out June 2023 🤩 more info on my website now! -
It will always truly be…
On having faith...
Have faith it will all work out.
What’s meant to be will be.
Even if it looks or feels like it won’t.
Even when you think everything is going wrong.
Even when you feel discouraged and want to give up.
At times it will be overwhelming.
At times it may be heavy.
At times you’ll need a moment to take it all in.
You can’t mess it up. It’s yours.
All you have to do is trust the process and continue on your journey.
It might take a day or maybe it’ll take years but what is meant for you will always find it’s way to you, even if it’s a roundabout way.
The waiting, the gap, the in between, the changes, the transitions, the meantime… they all serve a necessary purpose.
Even delays and detours are part of it.
You will arrive at the perfect time, as the exact person you need to be, ready.
Eventually everything will work out.
It always does.
Take a deep breath in and let go.
Hold your power and vision.
Everything will fall into place.
You don’t have to worry about anything.
Have trust and have faith.
What is meant to be...
For anyone who needs to hear this right now 🧡
What is meant for you won’t pass by you.
Let your heart be at ease.
Let your mind be at peace.
Little by little, moment by moment, day by day everything is working out for you.
You are divinely loved and supported.
Force is not required.
Worrying won’t help.
If it doesn’t work out the way you wanted for whatever reason know that you are being divinely protected and guided.
Melt into this moment and be here now 💫
What is meant to be, will always truly be.
love & positivity ✨ phi -
The electricity of life
The things I hope...
I hope this month treats you well.
I hope whatever is going on in your life causing you anxiety and stress is alleviated.
I hope whatever makes you question yourself leads to a breakthrough in your confidence.
I hope whatever keeps you up at night is resolved so that you have a peaceful sleep.
I hope you are surprised by something that makes you smile.
I hope you get everything that you wish for.
I hope that your heart beats fast and you feel so lit up by the spark of your soul within.
I hope you create new memories that will last a lifetime and beyond.
I hope you realise that you are loved, you are appreciated and deserve all the good things.
You deserve it all
Because no matter what day or time of the year, you deserve to feel love and inner peace.
You deserve to be recognized for all that you’ve been through and all that you do for everyone else.
You deserve to have the breakthrough you’ve been craving and the clarity you’ve been seeking.
You deserve to feel fully alive and so consumed by the electricity of life, it’s beating heart and pulse.
You deserve to be reminded that even though life can be tough at times, most of the time, there is so much love and joy yet to fully emerge and bloom.
Here’s to your best month yet 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi
Book coming June 2023 📖
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Let go and trust the process
Trust the process
Trust the process.
You don’t need to fully understand the process to.
Everything you have wished for, asked for, intended, manifested and visualised is on its way.
The learning curve may be steep but it’s all part of the journey.
This journey is not linear.
It is a dance with life.
Backwards and forwards.
To the side and back.
Up and down.
Stopping and starting.
All over the damn place.
That’s the process.
In this process know that you are healing and you are loved.
You don’t have to have it all figured out and perfect to be loved.
Let go. It’s okay to.
Surrender your fears and control to the process.
Let go of your expectations and timing.
And so, when you arrive it will all make sense.
You just had to trust the process.
Letting go...
It’s not easy to trust the process. Your mind will put up a fight. It wants to know everything. Every single detail. Why? How does it come together? When?
The process doesn’t involve the mind.
Letting go of the mind.
The process involves the heart.
Trusting.
Having faith.
You can antagonize and ache over the why, how and details yet you will feel no closer to the destination.
Can you give yourself more ease, grace, love and compassion by trusting the process.
Knowing that everything is unfolding perfectly as it should?
Knowing that it is being orchestrated with divine perfection and insight?
It will make sense one day.
But for now, trust the process 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi
Want to work with me? I do 1:1 coaching and human design readings.
My book is coming soon – June 2023 📖 -
Finding light in the darkness
The darkest season
The darkest season of your life will precede your greatest breakthroughs and the emergence of light so beautiful, it will ripple and sparkle in your eyes.
The darkest season is full of painful kisses from thorns of roses.
The darkest season is the deep void, floating in the abyss or dwelling at rock bottom.
The darkest season inevitably comes with the pain of shedding who you were to become more of your authentic self.
It is all worth it for the light that will emerge once again.
The light of the bloom.
The light of love and self compassion.
The light of your wings ready to soar and fly high.
The light of your heart, full of deep gratitude and experience from the darkest season.
Trust the magic veiled by darkness
The darkest season will ask you to honour endings to begin again. To trust and have faith in what is happening beneath the surface.
To surrender to the greatest mysteries.
To be held by the divine.
To be cradled by love.
You are not broken.
You are healing.
You are being reborn.
Trust the process.
Trust the journey.
Trust the magic veiled by darkness.
It is only then you will truly come to understand why everything happens 🌹
Under the blanket of darkness life is initiating you 🧨
love & positivity ✨ phi
I would love to bring light to your world and help you integrate the darkness and shadows into your life to fully bloom… 🌹
Work with me – link in bio. Book coming June 2023 🧡 -
Good things are coming
Move at your own pace
Good things are coming.
Good things are waiting for you.
Good things are about to happen.
Life has its high and lows.
Life has its setbacks.
The weight of sadness, grief and pain.
The ache of a broken heart and overwhelm mind.
The frustration of being stuck with no where to go.
The paralysis of anxiety and perfectionism.
The yearning for hope and relief… there is more to come.
The old energy is clearing and the new is ready to rush through.
In the meantime be kind to your mind, be kind to your body, be kind to your heart and be kind to your soul.
Move at your own pace.
The good is inevitable.
Better days are on their way.
Be here and you will see
If you were looking for a sign, here it is 💌 the best is yet to come and all you have to do is keep going.
Things fall apart for better things to come together.
It is just around the corner ✨ you’ve got to hold your power, belief and trust in that.
Your life can change in any moment.
You can’t predict the future with absolute certainty 🔮
How do you know that better days AREN’T coming? You don’t.
A string of bad moments and days doesn’t mean good isn’t coming.
All you can do is be here in the present. Forget the past it’s dead and gone. Forget the future it’s an illusion.
Be.
Here.
& you will see 👁
love & positivity ✨ phi
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How to be brave…
I think you're so brave
I think you’re so brave.
I think you’re so brave for getting up this morning.
I think you’re so brave for asking for help when it all gets too much.
I think you’re so brave for slowing down when you’re overwhelmed.
I think you’re so brave to admit that you’re not happy.
I think you’re so brave for letting go.
I think you’re so brave when all you can do is collapse on the floor and cry.
I think you’re so brave when you forgive yourself because we all make mistakes and mess up.
I think you’re so brave for starting again.
I think you’re so brave when you refuse to let life, labels and trauma define you.
I think you’re so brave because even when life knocks you down, you get back up and keep going.
How to be brave
“Be brave” were the last words my dad ever said to me almost 10 years ago. I thought I knew what that meant.
We often think of bravery as these life changing, huge acts that take place when bravery can be found even in what seems like the smallest of things.
Letting yourself collapse on the floor uncontrollably crying because you can barely hold it together. The bravery in allowing yourself to feel and move through the motions.
Admitting to yourself whilst you pretend to be happy and your life looks good on paper, acknowledging the truth that resides in your soul. That you aren’t fulfilled. The bravery is defying societal expectations and listening to your truth, your heart.
Reaching out to a friend even though you feel bad and guilty because you’re struggling. You’re allowed to desire love and support, you’re human. The bravery in asking for what you need instead of feeling ashamed for it.
Be brave in all moments, it counts.
Be brave because life isn’t easy, yet you’re giving it your best go and showing up, that counts.
love & positivity ✨ phi
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Reasons to keep going
Living for the moments
Live for the moments you cannot put into words.
Live for the kisses that will take your breath away.
Live for the people you are yet to meet who will change your life and deeply connect with.
Live for the conversations that will touch your heart and soul.
Live for the spark that will make you feel so passionate and alive.
Live for the day you look in the mirror and fall in love.
Live for the realisation when you discover and understand why you are here right now.
Live for your potential to be fully discovered and embraced.
Live for the day all your wildest dreams come true.
Live for all the endless possibilities in this lifetime.
Live for your chance to leave your mark and legacy in this world.
Live for today, here and now, even when times are tough, because there are so many reasons to keep going.
Life is tough, but so are you
I’ve been there… in the darkness questioning why I should live.
At times it can feel really tough.
I know and I see you beautiful soul.
I hope you see this as a sign to keep going no matter.
Life is tough but so are you.
You are tougher.
One day you’ll look back at moments like these or hard days and see the gift in it all.
The beauty.
The wisdom.
The gold.
To find it, keep going and you will soon see and find out for yourself 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi
Looking for new perspectives in life? Guidance & support all in one? I got you ☺️ I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings 💫
Please note if you are experiencing psychological distress please seek professional help from a trusted professional advisor.
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Be kind to yourself
Perhaps it's time for change...
Why is it that the person we are hardest on is ourselves?
We seem to be so understanding and compassionate towards others, yet we seem to forget ourselves.
Don’t be so hard on yourself beautiful soul, you are doing the best you can with whatever is going on right now.
You’ve been through so much already.
You are strong.
You are a survivor.
Life is already tough, you don’t need to be even tougher on yourself.
Perhaps you could bring more love to all parts of yourself?
Perhaps you could make peace with all the doubts and worries that snake around in your mind.
Perhaps you could meet yourself with more tenderness.
Perhaps it’s time to be less hard on yourself…
A gentle reminder
A gentle reminder and love letter from your heart and soul 🧡
You can do it all.
You are full of possibilities.
You have so much potential.
Yes, yes, yes!
You are also human (the best and most beautiful thing).
You will make mistakes.
You will get tired.
You may get sidetracked.
And that’s okay.
Remember that hate, shame and guilt will never fuel sustainable growth.
Let love lead the way always 🧡
love & positivity ✨ phi
@thephidang is my only Instagram account. limited spots for coaching and human design readings are available – DM me for more info.
If you love my writing, my book is coming out in June 2023!