Phi Dang

Clarity and Confidence Life Coach known as 'The Positivity Queen'. I help you go from stuck and self critical to courageous and empowered by overcoming your negative self talk so you can conquer anything.

  • Grow through what you go through

    A change of perspective...

    Perspective Shift:

    What if everything you’re going through right now is preparing you for everything that you want and have asked for?

    Pain always proceeds growth

    The universe, life is incredible. Everyday what unfolds before our eyes (and also what we can’t see…) is nothing short of a miracle… magic.

    The oceans roar everyday with wildlife gleaming beneath its mighty depths.

    The sun shines even when there’s cloud providing warmth and food to all.

    Technology for us humans has advanced at such a rapid rate… I mean the iPhone didn’t exist only like 30 years ago!? The fact we are all here, you reading (!) from different parts of the world.

    Given all this do you think it just unfolds as an accident? A coincidence?

    Apply this perspective to your life… 🤯

    Hindsight is often a beautiful thing when we fleetingly visit the past, reflect and dance in nostalgia lane…

    That time you had your heart broken… and found love again. In the world around you. In the small things. In yourself.

    When you didn’t get what you wanted and got something even greater.

    That disastrous time that showed you it just wasn’t meant to be… at that time.

    How your biggest pains and traumas have catapulted you to self discovery and growth.

    How that time you didn’t think you would survive or make it… yet here you are reading this 🧡

    You are a living breathing miracle and vessel of magic, I hope you never forget that 💫

    If you’re reading this in a world of pain or struggle, sending you so much love 🌸 I hope one day, it will all make sense, it will…

    Pain always proceeds growth 🌵

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Between me and the universe…

    Between me and the universe...

    Me to you:

    It’s easy to say you believe everything happens for a reason… It’s easy to say you believe and trust the universe… so what happens when things don’t go the way you want or expect?

    Universe:

    Flex your faith, prove it.

    Having an open mindset

    Warning: This may trigger and melt your mind and ego 🤭

    Time and time again whether it’s your life, perhaps it’s a relationship, your dream home or the work promotion you’re vying for, a business you’re building… it’s easy to talk to the talk but what about walk the walk?

    You say you have trust… prove it.

    You say you have faith… allow it.

    With a growth mindset we are open 🌱

    Sure from time to time we get knocked down, face really hard challenges and is racked, feel blocked and stuck – life can be tough. Acknowledged.

    I won’t kid you, it’s not an easy path that’s why it’s easy to say you believe but not actually believe… 🤭

    IF you truly believe everything happens for a reason know that it’s ALL WORKING OUT!

    In your highest favour: for your growth and expansion 🌳

    You aren’t facing and building everything on your own beautiful soul… you are CO CREATING with the universe.

    It takes two to tango 💃🏼

    Do your part and watch the universe help out with the rest🕺🏻

    Conscious creation is the game.

    Play and have fun along the way… 💫

    🔥 Oh and hot tip: when has faith ever been logical? 🤔

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • From overwhelm to overcome…

    Feeling overwhelmed

    Shift from overwhelm to overcome.

    Stop, step back

    What to when it feels like there is so much to do and you’re going to burst and break down 😫

    🛑✋🏽 JUST STOP.

    S

    T

    O

    P

    Realise that your mind and potentially anxiety is running the show.

    Do you really NEED to do it?

    Is it REALLY a must?

    Why the RUSH?

    Collectively so much is going on right now and I’ve noticed a lot of clients and loved ones in states of overwhelm.

    We can become unconscious to the illusion of urgency and allow ourselves to crumble under the weight of the world and drown in our to do lists.

    Stop, step back and take your POWER back.

    You don’t HAVE to do anything.

    Everything is a CHOICE!

    Be in your POWER through CONSCIOUS choice.

    Realise that in a state of overwhelm you are misaligned.

    You’re more vulnerable to negative self talk, the voices of doubt, criticism and fear.

    Your energy is spread thin and you’re walking on eggshells.

    Your body is whispering for help which turns into screaming and shut down because you won’t listen.

    It’s OKAY to take a moment to PAUSE and recalibrate.

    There’s power in pause.

    Tune into your heart and soul.

    How are you really feeling?

    You KNOW what to do… your mind and ego are scared to execute… start questioning things.

    When all else fails return to the breath. Be here now.

    Deep inhale and exhale.

    Ahhhh….

    Let…

    Go…

    Shift from overwhelm where you feel powerless and a victim to circumstances into your power.

    Your power and resilience to overcome.

    Shift into solutions – step by step.

    You got this ✊🏽

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Checking in with your soul

    Start with your soul

    Stop with the shoulds.

    Start with your soul.

    Letting go of the "should"

    Stop should-ing on and all over yourself 😳

    I should work out more.

    I should eat more healthily.

    I should be able to do it.

    Ask where the should is coming from? (Most likely your mind, your ego stemming from guilt, over extending yourself, shaming yourself…)

    Realise the place that it’s coming from isn’t serving you or the world.

    Negative emotions don’t work in creating positive behaviours 💡

    Even if they do temporarily it’s not sustainable or healthy.

    Instead check in with your soul.

    What do you DESIRE to do?

    What FEELS GOOD to you?

    Tap into your soul and feeling, bringing your conscious intention with you.

    Maybe you CAN do something?

    You GET to do something?

    You CHOOSE to do something?

    You WANT something?

    Ahhhh that feels better 😌

    Give yourself a choice instead of starting off with shame and failure.

    Power to you ✊🏽

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Making moves

    Taking action

    You know what’s better than thinking about doing something for 15 minutes or even 5 years?

    Actually doing it.

    Out of your mind and into the present

    🥴 yes I am calling you out… I’m calling you out to get out of your mind and into the present moment here.

    It’s the biggest thing I see with clients.

    They spend sooooo much time in their mind.

    Going over scenarios.

    Preparing for different outcomes.

    Reading a tonne of information.

    Listening to a tonne of information.

    Watching all of the videos and content.

    Yet no one is actually doing anything with the data and information they’ve accumulated 🥴

    Embodiment > Knowledge.

    Here’s the thing too, so many people are in fear.

    They don’t want to do something because it won’t be perfect.

    They don’t want to do something because they’re unsure.

    They don’t want to something because they don’t want to fail.

    So they don’t move. They just stay still and stuck. Even though their mind is looping around for miles and miles.

    If you actually DO something and take INSPIRED ACTION whatever the outcome at least you moved ⚡️

    And so then new data and information to make your next move.

    Not rocket science but pure simplicity (but the mind likes to complicate 😅)

    When in doubt, DO SOMETHING! ANYTHING!

    Nothing changes…. If nothing changes.

    Here’s to making moves (because even if you “go backwards or fail” at least you’re moving and it’ll likely propel you into the right direction 🚀)

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Do you need a money mindset shift?

    Money mindset...

    Wealth is the consciousness of abundance.

    Poverty is the consciousness of lack.

    5 tips for money mindset shifts

    📞 bling bling 💎 5 instant money mindset shifts coming thru…

    💸 having money doesn’t actually change your underlying beliefs around money. If you feel scarce now, you’ll still feel scarce when you make more money 🤕 and a big tip for you: money doesn’t equal security and safety…

    💸 it is your divine birthright to receive and be abundant 👼🏼 plants never worry if there’s enough sun to go around 🌞 more money can always be printed… seriously. It is all the time everyday. Infinite source.

    💸 Maybe why money hasn’t been around you is because money is waiting for you to evolve and grow so it can flow freely to you 🌱

    💸 Rich mind = rich energy = rich thoughts. I focus on what I want vs what I don’t have. I focus on what I already have vs what I don’t have. Tap into wealth and abundance NOW not when you have $x or own y or make z💡

    💸 Have more fun around and thinking about money. Money is sick of being made the bad guy. Money is sick of all the desperation around it. One of my favourite money thoughts is money is so attracted to me and hot for me 🥵


    Here’s to your abundance, prosperity and wealth money magnet 🧲

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • This is your soul speaking

    On desire...

    You know that niggling feeling that pulls at you and makes you feel uncomfortable deep down inside that you can’t explain?

    Yeah that’s your soul being unsettled because maybe you’re not listening.

    Maybe you desire more…

    You aren't your thoughts

    Caught between your head and your heart beautiful soul? 🤕

    Your head… your mind… your brain – it isn’t you.

    You aren’t your thoughts 💭

    In fact your mind lies all the time – it’s a drama queen 🎭 the negative self talk…

    “You should do it… don’t be stupid”

    “Who do you think you are?”

    “I mean the answer is so obvious are you dumb?”

    Remember your head and mind is here to protect you, to keep you safe (which often can mean in the comfort zone which is great – stable and secure but it ain’t soul fulfilling)

    Your heart… your soul… your higher self – that can’t be made up.

    It bypasses your survival mode analytical mind.

    It’s FELT in your BODY.

    Drop into your body.

    The stillness.

    When your heart and soul speak through the body what do they say?

    Trust the pull and nudges… it’s there for a reason.

    That’s the biggest flex: faith, the knowing.

    Following my mind let me to great places… for a while.

    Everything on paper was perfect yet deep down I KNEW I wasn’t truly happy and satisfied.

    For a while I TRIED to ignore it… but it just got LOUDER AND LOUDER.

    It felt heavy, that I couldn’t carry it – the pounding, the knowing, that feeling… so I surrendered and trusted (yes it’s scary and uncomfortable… it’s called the leap of faith for a reason)…

    Following my heart has led me to everything… love, abundance, health, wealth… living a life beyond my wildest dreams.

    It’s not for the faint hearted… I mean imagine a world where we all truly did follow our heart 🤯

    If you did…

    If you do…

    Who will you be?

    What decisions will you make?

    What will your life be like?

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Finding your ease and flow

    Life isn't easy...

    Life isn’t easy but ease is a way of life.

    You can only live life with ease when you are internally at ease.

    More on ease

    Ego says: ‘Once everything falls into place, I’ll feel peace.’

    Spirit says: ‘Find peace, and then everything will fall into place’

    — Marianne Williamson

    This doesn’t mean you don’t work, you spend all day at the beach drinking cocktails and going on shopping sprees 🛍 (although that would be really nice 😇)

    You can live with ease doing your job, doing life admin, dating, living your everyday life, making dinner… anything!

    Ease is:

    😌 taking responsibility for your stuff: thoughts, feelings, actions, results therefore having power

    😌 having things thrown at you that are challenging and frustrating but having full confidence you can handle it

    😌 knowing your triggers and how to work through them essentially responding not reacting

    😌 leading with love, being kind and compassionate with yourself always

    😌 having rock solid boundaries with no anxiety and being able to say no when you don’t want to say yes

    So whilst life is far from easy when we approach with ease from a place of stability, strength and serenity within… that’s where ease comes from ✨

    You are the unwavering mountain 🏔

    You are the depth of the ocean
    🌊

    You are the songs of the birds
    🕊

    Here’s to ease in your life beautiful soul 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • On being the main character

    No one can...

    No one can save you from your own work.

    No one can save you from your own healing.

    It’s never anyone else’s job but yours.

    The work and healing is yours

    From a young age we are conditioned to believe in the hero, the saviour only to realise that person is ourselves.

    It’s not Prince Charming. Even if your partner is incredibly loving, patient and compassionate (which is a must!).

    It’s not your family. Your parents won’t be around forever and everyone has their own life to live.

    It’s not your friends. They’ll always catch you when you fall but they can’t carry it all with you.

    It’s not your coach. It’s a privilege to walk by my clients as they do the work on their healing and personal development journey. I cheer them on. I hype them up. I help them get back up. Yet they do the work themselves because they are powerful beyond their comprehension.

    The work and healing is yours.

    Your support network and team are by your side and walk with you but you’re the main character, you’re the leader ⚡️

    It’s an internal job.

    Working on your thoughts, actions, feelings.

    Letting go of what no longer serves you outdated beliefs and negative self talk.

    You got this.

    Cheering your growth and expansion on always 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Overcoming negativity…

    The truth...

    Truth bomb.

    You’ll never stop having negative thoughts.

    Just because you have them doesn’t mean you have to believe them.

    Negative thoughts are OKAY

    It’s OK to have negative thoughts – yes you read that correctly.

    Negative thoughts are natural and it’s unlikely to ever stop no matter how happy or successful you are or how much you meditate and do mindset work.

    The vibe isn’t never having negative thoughts.

    The vibe is having them and being confident within yourself to overcome them (literally what I teach in 1:1 coaching).

    It’s futile to try and stop them they’re like waves no matter what you’ll do they’ll keep coming back.

    Remember what you resist will persist…

    Just because you have a thought doesn’t make that automatically true (although that would be useful because that means I’m the new owner of 2 cute puppies, $10 million is being deposited into my bank account, I’m going on a never ending holiday… you get the point 😜)

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    If you love this vibe you’ll want to consider working with me 1:1 or joining my personal growth membership – contact me for more details 🧠

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