Questions to your thoughts and beliefs around timelines in life
Why do you have to get married by a certain age? Why do you have to be at the top of your career ladder by a particular age?
Do you live based on timelines
Life is a string of moments, and each moment counts. Where you are right now is where you’re meant to be. Life is a divine miracle unfolding in real time. At any moment, at any chance, life can change.
Come back to presence, come back to living in there here and now…
All you have to do is believe in the process and continue your journey.
It might take a day, maybe a year but what is meant for you will always find it’s way to you.
Why the wait? Why the pain?
The waiting, the gap, the in between, the changes, the transitions, the meantime… they all serve a necessary purpose. Even delays and detours are part of it.
You will arrive at the perfect time, as the exact person you need to be, ready.
Eventually everything will work out.
It always does.
Take a deep breath in and let go. Hold your power and vision. Everything will fall into place. You don’t have to worry about anything. Have faith.
It’s easy to get caught up in the belief that life seems easy and effortless all the time for everyone except you, that there must be something wrong with you because you are struggling and haven’t achieved the same amount as that person or done a lot like the other.
The truth is life is hard inherently, life isn’t meant for your happiness, or at least just that… 💣
Life is orchestrated for your growth and expansion 💥
There will be tough times but if you’re honest, in those moments don’t you seem to change the most?
The uncomfortable, the hard and discomfort help you to grow (it doesn’t feel like it at the time and often does looking back).
Life is tough, but so are you 👊🏽
I wrote the following in my book 📖 The Great Unlearning;
“I know some days turn into nights and everything seems so unbearable you want to escape into darkness. When everything is dark, don’t forget about the light. Turn within and whisper to your soul. Place your hand over your heart and feel the devotion that beats for you. Some of the best days of your life are yet to happen. Some of the best moments of your life are yet to be had. Some of the unforgettable memories are yet to be made. The people you’ll meet are yet to be met. The souls you’ll fall in love with are yet to be loved. The excitement you’ll have that’s yet to unfold. The mystery and magic of life that’s waiting to reveal itself. Hold on because you’re only on a single page while novels are being written within you.” 🪄
This is your sign to keep going, tough times aren’t the end, maybe they are a beautiful new beginning…
You don’t have to have a happy start or beginning.
Maybe it’s been mediocre.
Maybe it’s been messy.
Maybe it’s been confusing.
Maybe it’s been just down right terrible and that’s okay.
It doesn’t mean the journey or the destination won’t work out.
Don’t overthink things.
Take it step by step, moment by moment.
Be kind to yourself.
Give yourself love, compassion and grace.
Everything will be okay.
YOU set the tone
Not so happy new year? 😕 Guess what?
It’s okay!
It doesn’t set the tone for the rest of what’s to come… it won’t define the year ahead, it won’t unless you let it…
I remember starting 2023 in a strange place, everything on paper was perfect yet I wasn’t fully “happy” and “lit up” off the back of a breakup and the anniversary of my dads death and birthday… yet I ended up having one of the best years of my life in 2023 🥰
I got to work with amazing clients, have the biggest month of my business, release my debut book 📖 The Great Unlearning, travel internationally, spend time with friends and family and met my now new partner 🫶🏽
New beginnings can be overwhelming even when you’re excited.
Allow yourself the grace and love to feel it all.
After all life is a duality of high highs, low lows and everything in between.
What matters is your mindset. Your perspective, what is IN your control.
The way human design sees the new year is a whole new cycle of experience.
Human Design New Year for many is very much about intentions over resolutions or goals because the majority of the population have an open heart, which is the centre for motivation and willpower.
When it’s open you have inconsistent access to your own motivation and willpower therefore if you do happen to have an open heart, please don’t beat yourself, get annoyed and frustrated when you seemingly seem so motivated one minute and the the next not, that’s how you are designed and built to be in human design.
From my experience doing hundreds of reasons, it is about unlearning the societal expectation to always be working towards something and instead getting you to shift into the being. We all have some seasons, move and flow with your energy instead of blocking it.
The human design energy itself is fantasy, imagination, possibilities, contraction, inspired action.
This is the week to dream big but also to come up with a plan to make it happen — big dreams, grounded in reality.
There are several ways to tap into this energy mainly imagination and what I have channeled sensuality 👀
More on this on the latest episode 🎧 Grow Through It with Phi Dang episode 61 Human Design New Year.
It can be easy to get caught up in the hard, the negative, the fear, the overwhelm, the doubts, what’s not going right, how you’ve messed it up, how it isn’t enough, what’s missing aaaaand it goes on and on
And truth be told?
Sometimes we need that.
To be in it.
To feel it.
A big overarching theme I’m feeling for 2024 ✨ is to remember the light especially in what has been such a year of growth and change in 2023.
To find the glimmers ✨ opposite to triggers — moments that spark joy, peace and safety often in the small things 😌
Here’s to seeing, feeling and being the light in 2024 💡
love & positivity ✨ phi
Looking for support and guidance to make 2024 your biggest and best year yet? 🚀 let’s work together through 1:1 coaching or a human design reading 🧡
The year you call it in, everything you dream and desire of.
The year you release, everything that holds you back.
The year you embrace, all opportunities and possibilities.
The year you do, whatever nourishes and lights up your soul.
The year you love, nurture and worship every aspect of you.
The year you are truly seen, heard and cherished for who you are.
The year everything you asked for is in the process of manifesting.
The year that makes up for all the other years… the year.
The year you make it happen
It’s going to be the year that makes up for all other years, the year where it all starts to click and fall into place ✨
The year you make it happen, following those intuitive nudges and taking inspired action focused on the vision, trusting in the process and allowing it to unfold in the perfect timing and way in accordance with the universe ☁️
love & positivity ✨ phi
Ready to have the best year yet? Let’s work together through 1:1 coaching and/or a human design reading 🧡
📖 if you enjoy my writing you’ll love my book; The Great Unlearning
You don’t have to have it all figured out – all you have to do, is try your best to move forward.
Just because the calendar year is ending doesn’t mean manifestations, miracles and momentum take a break.
The universe works 24/7, 365 days a year. In fact isn’t there a saying, always save the best for last?
Your happy ending is here – blessings on blessings, renewed purpose and love for yourself, new energy, the unexpected…
Make it a December to remember.
Keep your energy open
Many people make this mistake at the end of the year… and it’s easy to do so. Do you live in a reality of constraint or one where there is ✨ no limits ✨
I dwell in abundance, a boundless universe where anything can happen at any time.
Everything you want… just around the corner.
Everything you want… unfolding in the most unexpected ways.
Everything you want… happening at the last moment.
Keep your energy open for all you desire ❤️🔥
Don’t close yourself off energetically because of a calendar year.
Tune into your body what is for you — there is no right or wrong. Some will be gearing up, others will be winding down.
I wrote this a year ago and I was hustling, this year I’m slowing down — life it’s dynamic and changing, it ebbs and flows 🌊 trust yourself, trust your body.
Give yourself permission for what feels good for you, not what you “think” you ought to or “should” 🧡
📖 If you love my writing you’ll love my book The Great Unlearning out now and available via Amazon worldwide or your local bookstore too.