Life Path

  • And suddenly you’re older

    And suddenly you’re older. Fear hits you like a truck as does the anxiety and panic.

    Here’s the the thing, what a privilege it is to age. You are also wiser. You are also stronger. You are also more resilient. 

    Age has made you more agile and adaptable. 

    You’ll never be as young as you are right now. Your spirit is eternal. Your spirit is endless. The sum of who you are in this moment is every age that you’ve been. 

    Think of who you’ve been before, who you are now and who you are becoming. That is oh so very beautiful.

    Society often portrays aging, especially for women, as something to be feared or avoided. But aging is a natural, inevitable part of life that brings wisdom, experience, and new opportunities.

    Marilyn Ferguson rightly says “Of all the self-fulfilling prophecies in our culture the assumption that aging means decline and poor health is probably the deadliest.”

    People immediately think of everything to lose with age and forget that with loss comes so much gain…

    Experience

    Self Acceptance

    New Opportunities and Possibilities

    Growth

    What is forgotten is that your soul is ageless.

    “How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are?”

    More on this in a new episode of my podcast (#77) 🎧 Grow Through It Podcast with Phi Dang

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  • You have a higher calling in life

    You have a higher calling and your life is meant for more. You know it. Trust in what your heart is telling you. You aren’t here for approval, you are here for purpose. Cycles are closing and your timing is here. It’s time to embrace the magic in the unpredictability of it all.

    It’s a love hate relationship with unpredictability in life.

    It keeps it interesting and we thrive in being challenged to flexible and adaptable.

    Yet our mind and physiology craves stability inherently. Our mind wants to control not surrender.

    There really is a magic in not knowing every single detail and every thing 🪄

    How can you lean in? 🎢

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • When life doesn’t go the way you planned

    Maybe life has a better plan...

    So maybe your life hasn’t gone in the direction you wanted or expected so far. It doesn’t mean the destination won’t be worthwhile. Just maybe where you end up, will be more than you ever dreamt of or desired for yourself. Perhaps life has been waiting for you to let go of the life you envisioned for yourself because life has bigger plans awaiting for you. The only way to find out is to keep going, your journey is not over yet, in fact maybe it’s just begun…

     

    When life isn't what you thought it would be

    What happens when you realise that your life looks nothing like what you wanted or hoped for?

    When you feel disappointed, frustrated, lost, sad amongst many other emotions.

    I can definitely relate with moments in my life having hopes and expectations.

    Nowadays I live a life that looks nothing like what I expected but it truly is better than what I had ever dreamed of for myself. It didn’t always look or feel that way, sprinkled amongst the ways have been moments… the dark nights of the soul, rock bottom… but from the darkness came the light. The light was always there, I just couldn’t connect at that point in time. I was too in the weeds that I lost the bigger picture.

    Life isn't in your full control

    There are things beyond our control — a total mystery and it’s so understandable to feel an array of often quite intense emotions.

    Life is made up of moments and some of them will have you questioning if you’ve got it right, been doing it right and on the right path…

    Ultimately what I’ve personally experienced and seen in my clients lives is when it doesn’t look a thing like what you envisioned… your journey isn’t over yet. We are seeing one part of it.

    The bigger picture

    It could be the moment amongst a few more before the breakthrough.

    What can keep you going is knowing that it’s not done or over, your journey is still unfolding.

    There’s reasons why it’s unfolding as it is that you don’t understand right now or can’t comprehend. When it all does eventually come together, just maybe you will.

    Keep going 🦋

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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