Allow yourself to FEEL what you feel this Christmas – there’s no right way to experience it.
Presence, not presents, makes the holidays unforgettable.
You’re allowed to rest – this time doesn’t have to be a marathon.
The best gifts are tied with heartstrings, not ribbons.
A quiet cup of tea can be just as festive as a big celebration.
Even if the holidays don’t feel bright, know that you are not alone.
Even if you can’t find the spirit of Christmas, know that you are still worthy of love and care.
The beauty of the season is that it’s a time for reflection and healing, not perfection.
This Christmas, focus on what you CAN do, not on what you think you should.
Christmas has a way of bringing emotions to the surface, often in ways we don’t expect. Some years, the weight of loss feels more present, and the holidays can feel bittersweet. I remember 11 years ago, when my dad passed away just before Christmas.
The joy of the season was overshadowed by the grief of his absence. That holiday, I wasn’t ready to celebrate. The familiar traditions felt hollow, and it was hard to find joy amidst the sadness. But that was my reality in that moment, and I allowed myself to feel it, without the pressure to be happy.
There’s no right way to experience Christmas, and sometimes grief takes its own space.
If you’re feeling alone or sad this season, know that it’s okay. I’m sending you love, strength, and warmth from my heart to yours.
Other years, however, have been filled with immense joy, especially now that I’m an aunty and godmother. Watching the younger generation embrace the magic of the season, seeing their faces light up with excitement, and sharing those moments of laughter and love, brings a warmth that is hard to describe.
The joy of being able to give love, create memories, and watch new traditions take shape fills my heart in a way that only family can. Christmas has a new energy now, one that embraces the beauty of growth, connection, and new beginnings.
The happiness of these moments is just as real as the sadness I’ve felt in the past.
If you find yourself filled with joy, take a moment to reflect on how far you’ve come, and embrace that happiness with open arms.
Remember, it’s okay to move through this season at your own pace. There’s no pressure to feel a certain way or meet any expectations—Christmas is what you make of it, and sometimes that means giving yourself the space to just be.
Merry Christmas beautiful soul. You’re never truly alone, even when it feels that way 🧡
