Phi Dang

Clarity and Confidence Life Coach known as 'The Positivity Queen'. I help you go from stuck and self critical to courageous and empowered by overcoming your negative self talk so you can conquer anything.

  • An ending is a portal to a new beginning

    I don’t know who needs to hear this but an ending is the portal to a new beginning. On the brink of a new beginning, life starts to feel stagnant and heavy. 

    Destiny and darkness may descend upon your mind and heart. You will be faced with challenges and obstacles. Your next level involves diving deeper into your emotions and shadows. Above all remember the sun will rise again and so will you. 

    The level of trust required is an initiation and new level in itself. Faith and belief in yourself is the medicine. Continue to walk the path beautiful soul.

    3 ways to deal with density and darkness 👇🏽

    1. Feel your feelings
    It’s okay to feel! It’s okay to not understand why you are feeling the way you are. The most important thing is to allow your current experience with compassion.

    2. Movement
    As they say emotions are energy in motion and the body keeps score. Transform stuck and stagnant energy within 🌀

    3. Connect and get support
    You don’t have to do it alone and you aren’t meant to. Lean into your support network or get in touch and create a support network 🫶🏽

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Looking for support and guidance? Your purpose? What’s next? How to get to your next level? I got you I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. Send me an email or DM me on Instagram to set up a free 30 minute call to see what’s right for you or DM me 🌻

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  • Sometimes good things end so better ones can begin.

    Sometimes good things end so better ones can begin. You’re about to enter a new era and phase in your life which requires letting go of what you know for what’s to come. The past no longer has a hold on you, for your future is here. Be kind and gentle to your heart for it has not been easy. Be kind and gentle to your heart because change is not easy. Be proud of yourself for how far you’ve come and how the journey has prepared you for where you are now going.

    As they say sometimes it’s time to trust in the magic of new beginnings ✨

    It can be hard to let to go when things have been so good.

    Yet it can also be hard to let go when things haven’t been for we fear what change can bring such as temporary discomfort and pain.

    Whether we like it or now, whether we want it or not: change will inevitably happen.

    How does it feel to lean in and embrace as it opposed to fear it and attempt to control and delay it?

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Looking for support and guidance in moving forward with your life? I got you, I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. Send me an email or DM me on Instagram to set up a free 30 minute call to see what’s right for you or DM me 🧡

    Keywords: [endings, new beginnings, change, life quotes]

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  • All will be well

    All will be well. Even when it doesn’t feel that way. I think it’s so beautiful that you allow yourself to feel so deeply. I think it’s so beautiful how you mourn the ending of a chapter. I think it’s so beautiful that your tears fuel your growth and rebirth. I think it’s so beautiful how you hold onto the light despite the darkness that may temporarily cloud you. I think it’s so beautiful because you’re about to bloom. It’s so beautiful that you’ve allowed heartbreak to crack open your heart even wider to more. More love. More light. More hope. More of everything you deserve.

    There is so much beauty in being the fullest expression of you, in being human — imperfectly perfect, feeling every layer and nuance that there is.

    May you see the growth that lies in each experience.

    May you hold on despite tough days and hard seasons.

    May you keep going to see your full potential 🌻

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Looking for support and guidance in moving forward with your life? I got you, I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. Send me an email or DM me on Instagram to set up a free 30 minute call to see what’s right for you or DM me 🌻

    Keywords: [life quotes, life journey, spirituality, soul growth]

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  • They say the universe will never give you peace in something you aren’t meant to settle in…

    I know they say the universe will never give you peace in something you aren’t meant to settle in and I know it to be true. Yet it still feels painful, yeti t  can still break your heart. May the storms of your emotions calm. May the ache of your heart dissolve. May the noise of your mind settle. May you trust that what falls apart is making way for what you deserve. May the tower moment of you life heal and free you. Trust that one day when you look back at this moment in time, it will all make sense and be for the better.

    he universe guides us along paths in ways we may not always understand yet each step has a purpose to leading us to where we are meant to be.

    In this journey there will be moments orchestrated of upheaval and things falling…crumbling to an end that shakes up your foundations forcing you to confront truths and let go of what no longer serves.

    These moments though tumultuous are catalysts for transformation paving the way for growth and evolution.

    In the midst of chaos, we feel it all — the heartache, the uncertainty, the raw vulnerability that comes with embracing the unknown.

    Yet, amidst the turmoil, there is a quiet reassurance, a flicker of hope that burns bright within us.

    It is the belief that these challenges are not meant to break us, but to help us into the beings we are destined to become.

    You got this beautiful soul 🧡 love & positivity ✨ phi

    Looking for support and guidance in moving forward with your life? I got you, I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. Send me an email or DM me on Instagram to set up a free 30 minute call to see what’s right for you or DM me 🌻

    Keywords: [tarot tower, moving on, inner peace, heartbreak, letting go]

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  • Where you are heading won’t always be clear

    Where you’re heading won’t always be clear.

    In moments of uncertainty, life is asking you to surrender and trust where you are being led. To get comfortable with the uncomfortable. To trust your intuition with all your heart and soul despite how illogical it seems. Even if everyone around you questions your path. It doesn’t make sense right now because it isn’t supposed to but one day it will. Don’t be afraid, remember you are brave. Don’t be afraid, remember you are capable. Don’t be afraid, remember you are being protected. Keep going. One step at a time.

    Because maybe all isn’t as it appears. The more unclear and uncertain, the more trust is required in the universe and your faith but greatest of all: the trust within yourself.

    To be able to handle whatever will come your way.

    To be able to lean into the unknown and embrace the magic and what awaits on the other side 🪄
    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Looking for guidance and support in terms of direction, purpose and what is happening in your life? I got you 🫶🏽 I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. 

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  • The universe is yet to reveal its full hand

    The universe is yet to reveal its full hand, there is more to come, beautiful soul. 

    Have faith despite the challenges. 

    Hold onto the hope and deep trust within your heart for it is your inner compass, leading you through the darkest of times. 

    May struggle not dishearten you but strengthen your spirit. May your light shine through the trials and tribulations of life. Trust that the universe has grand plans for you, and all is unfolding in the perfect timing and the perfect way for your highest growth and expansion, not your mind and ego. 

    The best is yet to come, and your resilience and determination will light the way. Keep moving forward, for your destiny is revealing itself.

    As you navigate this path, remember that there are a few things to keep in mind and hold in your heart 🧡

    Yes there’s a mystery to it and it makes life more fun, more intriguing.

    You are never truly alone. The universe is a vast, interconnected web, and every soul you encounter plays a role in your story. Cherish the connections you make along the way, for all can make an impact in your journey. Beyond the physical we even have our spiritual teams always with us 👼🏻

    In times of solitude, look within there are many practices to continue the light 🕯️ to connect deeper to your soul and your highest self.

    Your perseverance and faith will be rewarded, and you will blossom into what is meant to be 🤩

    Looking and feeling into the nudge for support and guidance? I got you 🥰 

    I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. Send me an email or DM me on Instagram to set up a free 30 minute call to see what’s right for you or DM me 🌻

    If you like my writing, you’ll love my book! 📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang

    For more on all things self love, mindset, energy and purpose listen to my podcast: 🎧 Grow Through it Podcast with Phi Dang

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  • Embrace the journey that is June 2024

    Embrace the journey that is June. New month, new chapter, an opportunity to pause, check in and reflect. June is a portal for growth. June is an opportunity to start again. June is a reminder to keep going and growing. It’s okay if your path looks different to someone else’s. It’s okay if your timing is different to someone else’s. It’s okay if no one understands it, not even you… trust in your highest self and where your soul is taking you/ Supported by the universe, in alignment. In June you are unstoppable. When you finish the year, you’ll look back at June with so much love and pride.

    if you’re reading this and have been feeling disheartened and giving up, June is the turn of the tide 🌊

    keep going, maybe it’s been quiet all year and now everything has fallen into place… it all begins

    maybe the year started strong and you’ve encountered obstacles and challenges, june provides rest and a chance to reset

    it’s the middle of the year now

    yes time has flown but there’s still 6 months to go

    what are you going to do with that time?

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Should you feel the pull and desire for support and guidance in what you are going through right now, I got you. I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings. Send me an email or DM me on Instagram to set up a free 30 minute call to see what’s right for you 🌻

    If you like my writing, you’ll love my book! 📖 The Great Unlearning: Awakening to Living an Aligned and Authentic Life by Phi Dang

    For more on all things self love, mindset, energy and purpose listen to my podcast: 🎧 Grow Through it Podcast with Phi Dang

    Keywords: [quotes about June, June motivation, June energy 2024]

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  • The universe isn’t testing to see if you are weak

    The universe isn’t testing you to see your weakness, the universe is challenging you so that you can realise your strength. Sometimes in life we have to go through the pain, the sadness to get to the gold on the other side. That sometimes our greatest growth is preceded by delving into the depths of our heart, the ache of being a human in order to heal. In order to peel back more layers to our self and being, to reveal more of your light, your power, your potential.

    When obstacles arise, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and defeated, to see them as tests of your weaknesses.

    The truth is, they are invitations to tap into your inner power, to unleash the limitless potential that resides within you.

    The universe isn’t testing you to see how weak you are; it’s urging you to discover just how strong you can be.

    In the face of struggle, you have the ability to go within and embody strength and courage that knows no bounds.

    Each obstacle is a chance for growth, a stepping stone on the path to becoming the highest version of yourself.

    Embrace the challenges and know that with each obstacle overcome, you are forging a stronger, more resilient spirit.

    You are an incredibly strong soul.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    Looking for guidance and support in your life? I’d love to help! I offer 1:1 coaching and human design readings

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  • 79: Uranus Opposition Human Design

    All about experiencing your Uranus Opposition from a human design lens. Your Uranus Opposition is from your late 30’s into your 40’s. This episode explains what your Uranus Opposition means for you including a breakdown of Uranus Opposition themes, archetypes and explanations. It will provide a guide on what to expect from your Uranus Opposition and how to harness this astrological energetic transit for your personal growth and development.

    Uranus Opposition Context

    Hello beautiful soul,

    We all know about Saturn Return, one of if not the universal pivotal transit that everyone goes through between the ages of 27-31. I have previously done a dedicated podcast episode (34) and today this episode is all about your Uranus Opposition which isn’t as mainstream as knowing about your Saturn Return has become. To simplify Saturn Return late 20’s to 30s, your Uranus Opposition is late 30’s to 40. After that comes your Chiron Return your late 40’s to entering your 50’s. They are the big 3 transits that everyone will experience in their life at the same time.

    Comparing your Saturn Return to your Uranus Opposition

    As with all energetic transits and changes in your life, human design can help you uncover and understand your Uranus Opposition. Your Saturn return is your coming of age, the spiritual equivalent of turning 21, it has the energy of taking a leap of faith. It is a period of your life where you mature, taking on responsibilities, being disciplined in alignment with them and making significant life decisions that shape your future. It’s about committing to a path and building a solid foundation as more of a conscious being. 

    In contrast, your Uranus Opposition can be likened to your spiritual equivalent of a ‘mid life crisis.’ It often happens around your 40’s and from my experience I’ve seen people as early as from their mid 30’s beginning to feel the energies of their Uranus Opposition transit. It’s when you really start to feel into what is the meaning and purpose of your life. If you’ve had a deeper human design reading with me, this is where it really shifts from where you came from to where you are going, your destiny.

    What is your Uranus Opposition Human Design

    Your Uranus Opposition transit is about breaking free from established patterns and embracing change and innovation. It’s less about building and more about exploring and transforming. It can symbolise a period of significant upheaval and transformation, marked by a journey and quest for authenticity and freedom. It challenges you to break away from the familiar and embrace new and unconventional paths, often leading to profound personal growth and a redefined sense of self.

    Hence, your Uranus Opposition can be a shocking time in your life, Uranus itself is a planet known for change – extremes, breakdowns, breakthroughs. It’s known as the ‘awakener’ for bringing sudden shocks and changes. In fact Uranus’ energy is very electric in nature. It brings a jolt when you’re in this stage of life where you don’t feel very old but you’re not young either, you’re in between. It can feel awkward and clunky. You had all these hopes, dreams and desires in your 20’s, how has that eventuated?

    Astrologically speaking when Uranus is in opposition, it’s in the exact opposite placement of where it was when you were born. It marks a turning point in your life supposedly ‘the half way point.’ It can be confronting. It can be challenging. It can be chaotic.

    From my own experience of coaching clients during a Uranus Opposition and through Uranus Opposition Human Design Readings, it can be challenging yet highly liberating. What I often witness and guide clients through is this deep pull, nudge and niggle to change careers and navigate changing dynamics within relationships. 

    Uranus Opposition Key Theme: Sudden Change​

    Let’s dive deeper into the key themes of your Uranus Opposition:

    During your Uranus opposition, many people experience significant upheavals that shake the foundations of their lives. These foundations set from your Saturn Return in your 30’s. These changes can manifest in various areas, such as career, relationships, personal identity, or lifestyle. For instance, someone might find themselves unexpectedly losing a long-held job, not due to their performance, but because of organisational restructuring or downsizing. This forced change can be both a source of stress and an opportunity for reevaluation. 

    Similarly, relationships that have been stable for years might face sudden crises, prompting a reexamination of your compatibility and shared goals. These shifts can be incredibly disorienting, especially when they come out of nowhere and disrupt the sense of stability and security that has been built over years. Maybe you have been with someone your whole life and suddenly feel so different and you are growing apart. Maybe your kids have grown up and your relationship with your partner is changing, you realise that maybe what’s been keeping you together is your kids.

    Moreover, sudden changes during this period often push people to question their personal identities. When the role you have comfortably inhabited—such as being a partner to someone, parent, or professional—are disrupted, you can become compelled to confront the essence of who you are beyond these labels. This can lead to an identity crisis, as you feel the need to redefine who you are outside of these traditional roles and labels. Lifestyle changes, such as moving to a new city, starting a new career, or adopting a radically different way of living, are also common. These changes, while initially unsettling, often pave the way for personal growth and a deeper understanding of one’s true desires and aspirations.

    Uranus Opposition Key Theme: Rebellion

    A hallmark of your Uranus opposition is a powerful urge to rebel against constraints and societal expectations. This is a time when you feel a pressing need to assert your independence and authentic identity. You may realise that your life has been overly influenced by external factors such as work, familial obligations, or societal norms, leading to a sense of entrapment. 

    These norms from a career standpoint: having an established career, advancing, perhaps holding leadership positions and a sense of stability. 

    From a family standpoint: if not being married already, a deeper pressure to do so, perhaps being a parent of children whom may be school aged and home ownership. I’ve also had clients at this point realise they don’t want to have children and so they are finding confidence in their decision with family and societal pressures especially on women to be mothers. The clients I’ve had who decided children weren’t for them often made a lot of sense in the context of their life having spent it taking care of others such as family members and karmically this lifetime is for them because maybe in previous lives they have been self sacrificing, even withstandingly it’s not selfish to not want children. It’s a personal decision. 

    Familial obligation can come into play maybe you have sick or unwell parents that need taking care of and support which can feel heavy and burdensome. Culturally speaking because well it’s your parents and it’s a lot to take on the role of a caretaker.

    With regards to lifestyle, the expectation and pressure of being financial responsible: saving from retirement, managing investments and expenses like your child’s education. A greater focus on health as you head into your 40’s. In terms of personal development, it’s common to see greater self reflection, a desire to deepen your existing skillset and mastery as well as a call to service: helping people and the community around.

    External and internal rebellion during your Uranus Opposition

    As a result,  during your Uranus Opposition you might take dramatic steps to break free from these constraints. For instance, if you have long been identified with your high-powered career, you may decide to quit and pursue a more fulfilling but less conventional path, such as starting your own business or engaging in creative pursuits.

    This rebellion is not just about external changes but also about internal liberation. You often begin to question the values and beliefs that have governed your life thus far. You might reject long-held traditions and norms in favour of developing your own unique perspectives and ways of living. This period of rebellion can be turbulent, as it often involves challenging relationships and situations that no longer align with your evolving sense of self and values. However, it is also a crucial phase of personal development, as it allows you to unlearn and strip away inauthentic layers and embrace a life that truly resonates with your inner being, your heart, your soul.

    Uranus Opposition Key Theme: Self Discovery​

    Your Uranus opposition is a profound period of self-discovery, prompting deep introspection and a reevaluation of your life direction and values. As you navigate through the upheavals and rebellions characteristic of this transit, you are often driven to look inward and reflect on your past choices and future aspirations. This introspection can reveal hidden desires, talents, and passions that you had suppressed or ignored in favour of more conventional or socially acceptable paths. It is not uncommon for you to start exploring new hobbies, interests, or spiritual practices that you feel drawn to during this time.

    This process of self-discovery is both challenging and enlightening. As you unlearn and peel back the layers of societal conditioning and external expectations, you often encounter aspects of yourself that you had not previously recognised or acknowledged. It can be so interesting doing human design readings particularly where people may by shocked or confused by an aspect of their design. What I often see is going deeper, people realise it is them, the core of whom they are but they don’t resonate initially because it has been repressed or pushed down by whom they think they should be and ought to be. Moreover if you don’t find and work towards spiritual fulfilment and filling up the cup of your soul you may find your life feeling empty and devoid. Your life may look good on a surface level say for example top of your career with lots of money but inside, you feel for what, miserable, that something is missing… soul fulfilment. 

    Your Uranus Opposition can be a time of healing, as you come to terms with past traumas or unresolved issues that have influenced your behavior and decisions. The insights gained during this period of introspection can lead to a more authentic and fulfilling life path, as you align your actions and choices with your true self rather than with external pressures.

    Uranus Opposition Key Theme: Innovation

    Uranus opposition brings with it a surge in creativity and the pursuit of new and unconventional paths. This is a time when you feel inspired to think outside the box and explore innovative solutions to the challenges you face. You may discover new talents or rekindle old passions that you had set aside in the pursuit of more practical or traditional goals. This creative energy can manifest in various forms, such as starting a new business, engaging in artistic endeavours, or an interest in new technologies. Your willingness to embrace change and think differently often leads to breakthroughs that were previously unimaginable.

    With innovation is often a desire to make a meaningful impact on the world. You are often driven by a sense of purpose and a desire to contribute something unique and valuable to society. This can lead to the development of new ideas and projects that challenge the status quo and offer fresh perspectives on longstanding issues. Whether it’s through social activism, entrepreneurial ventures, or artistic expression, you are motivated to push boundaries and create positive change. This period of heightened creativity and innovation can be incredibly rewarding, as it allows you to fully express your true self and leave a lasting legacy.

    Uranus Opposition Archetype: Rebel

    Breaking away from the old and embracing the new. Challenging the status quo and seeking freedom. Think of the character of an adventurer: setting off on a journey, both literal and metaphorical, to discover new aspects of themselves and the world.

    Uranus Opposition Archetype:​ Innovator

    Embracing creativity and originality. Pioneering new ideas and ways of living as a visionary. Being a risk taker and change agent: leaving what’s known to do something different, a groundbreaking business idea or pursue a passion project.

    Uranus Opposition Archetype:​ Creative

    A quest for deeper meaning and understanding of life beyond the superficial and surface level. Spiritual and personal growth becomes a priority. You might find yourself questioning the purpose of your existence, exploring various philosophies, religions, or spiritual practices and tools such as human design! The Seeker is driven by a desire to connect with something greater than yourself and to find a sense of inner peace and fulfillment.

    Uranus Opposition Life Path Storyline

    If you were to look at your Uranus Opposition has a storyline in life, you may find the following plot points:

    Discontentment: The main character starts feeling restless and dissatisfied with their current life.

    Catalyst for Change: An event or realisation triggers the desire for change (e.g., a major work project fails, or a relationship ends).

    Rebellion: The protagonist takes bold steps to break free from their current situation. This might involve leaving a job, ending a relationship, or making drastic lifestyle changes.

    Exploration: They embark on a journey of self-discovery, exploring new interests, meeting new people, and experimenting with new ways of living.

    Crisis and Reflection: Challenges and crises force the main character to confront their fears and insecurities. They reflect on their past choices and future direction.

    Transformation: Through this period of upheaval, the main character gains a deeper understanding of themselves. They embrace a new path that is more aligned with their true self.

    Getting help during your Uranus Opposition

    If you are going through your Uranus Opposition or thereabouts so you would be from your mid 30’s up until 44ish or know someone who is such as a loved one, family member or friend – I invite you to consider a Uranus Opposition Human Design reading with me or getting a Uranus Opposition Human Design Blueprint done. 

    Especially if you’ve made it all the way to the end of this episode, enjoyed it, feel curious, the pull, the nudge… A reading and human design blueprint will help you make sense of your confusion and give you clarity on the changes and transformation taking place during your Uranus Opposition. 

    It will also help you understand the life themes and changes that are being brought to the forefront of your reality and how to navigate them. Moreover it provides a practical guide as to how to get into alignment with your soul and embody your life purpose and path. 

    Finally, it gives you the specific timing of your Uranus Opposition so you can prepare and plan life accordingly. Supported by 1:1 coaching, I am here to help support and guide in real time as these changes aren’t easy!

    Until next time. Love and Positivity,

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  • The Magic of Alignment

    The life you’re looking for is looking for you too.

    The life you’re looking for is looking for you too.

    Everything changes the moment you decide to trust yourself and honour your authenticity. Everything changes the moment you embrace your journey of growth and believe in the power of your own potential. Everything changes the moment you let your inner light shine without fear or judgement. 

    Life starts to flow effortlessly with ease. This is the magic of alignment. This is the magic of you.

    How to tap into alignment?

    As you come home to your true self, you get in sync with the universe that is conspiring in your favour to help you achieve your aspirations and desires (because you have them for a reason!)

    A trusted compass to help you on your journey is human design which shines a light on your strengths and understanding your own personal energy flow.

    Book a human design reading with me here.

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