As a woman in your 30’s you should be…
As a woman in your 30’s you should be…
You should be married, settled down, happy in a traditional job with a steady income thanks to your uni degree, done with travel, own your home.
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By this age, I should be married, “settled,” working a traditional job tied to the degree I earned in my 20s, and maybe even owning a home with a picket fence. But those expectations? They were never mine to begin with.
As a woman in her 30’s who is single, traveling the world more than even in my 20’s as an entrepreneur, I’ve had to unlearn a lot of societal gender norms that once felt like rules and restrictive timelines.
They’re old school hand me downs from a society that measures women’s success by how well they fit into a script that hasn’t evolved fast enough with modern women.
I’ve realised that fulfillment doesn’t have a one size fits all formula. For me, it’s about exploring new cultures, building something of my own, and having the freedom to design a life that reflects me, not what others expect.
It’s been a process of unlearning — peeling back those ingrained beliefs, recognizing they were never about my happiness, and giving myself permission to live fully, on my terms.
Unlearning isn’t easy, but every step away from those old stories is a step toward a life that feels authentic, free, and unapologetically mine.
love & positivity ✨ phi
If this is your vibe and you’re ready to break free from the mold to live life on your terms, let’s work together. It’s time to create a life that’s authentically, unapologetically yours 🤤 I offer 1:1 coaching, human design readings and retreats. Message me and let’s chat 💬
Aaaand — if this is the life you have, I hope you chose it! This isn’t to take away from that at all. Your life is valid and beautiful if it brings you joy and fulfillment. The message here is simply that it doesn’t have to be this way. There’s no single path to happiness or success, and every woman should feel empowered to define these things for herself ❤️🔥