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Resurrection isn’t a one-time miracle

Resurrection isn’t a one-time miracle – it’s the rhythm of your soul’s journey back to itself.

Your soul’s journey is not a linear path but a series of ebbs and flows, of rising and falling.

Much like the changing seasons, you may experience periods of stagnancy, reflection or even apparent “death” — only to rise again, reborn with fresh insight, energy and understanding.

Every moment of struggle or being stuck holds the potential for renewal, just as a seed must break apart before it can grow into something new.

Just as the rhythm of the earth has its seasons, so does the soul.

Every experience — whether joyful or painful — contributes to a greater understanding of who you truly are.

It’s in the small moments of self-discovery and reflection, when you confront your fears and limitations, that the soul begins to reclaim its power and authenticity.

Resurrection, therefore, is not a one time event — it’s the ongoing process of shedding old layers, unlearning, reawakening to your truth and embracing a deeper connection to yourself.

You are constantly in a state of resurrection, rising again and again, each time a little more whole, a little more aligned with your deepest desires and purpose.

This cyclical nature of transformation invites you to embrace the flow of life, knowing that each chapter, each twist and turn is part of the grand dance that leads you back to your fullest self 🫶🏽

More on the latest episode of my podcast Grow Through it with Phi Dang.

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You are different to everyone you meet

The ironic thing about life is that you are different person to everyone you meet
To some you’re quiet
To others you never stop talking
Some remember you for your kindness
Others for the time you walked away
You are a villian in someone’s story
A hero in another’s.
And to most
You’re just a passing thought
A name they once knew
You don’t exist as one person
But as countless versions of yourself
Shaped by fleeting moments of personal perception

Isn’t it wild how many versions of you live out there in the world? Every person you’ve ever crossed paths with holds a completely unique snapshot of you—shaped not by your whole story, but by a single moment, perhaps a tone in your voice, a choice you made that day.

On the path of personal growth, this can feel both disorienting and freeing.

If you’re always going to be misunderstood by some and admired by others, why not just focus on being true to your most aligned and authentic self?

The people who see your light will find it.

Those who don’t?

Let them go.

Your role isn’t to fit into every version someone else imagines—it’s to honour the soul you are when no one’s looking.

The one who’s been learning, unlearning, stumbling and choosing again.

So here’s your permission slip: You’re allowed to shift, to be misunderstood, to be remembered differently than you feel you were.

What matters is who you are to you.

You are always worthy. You are always lovable.

No matter what.

love & positivity ✨ phi

Honour the now

Honour the now as more than just a waiting room for what’s next.

This moment however messy, unclear or in-between it feels — is not just a bridge to somewhere better because…

It is your life.

So often we’re taught to hold our breath, wait until the next thing arrives: the job, the relationship, the clarity, the glow up.

The magic… it isn’t just at the destination…

What if it’s here, in the unpolished present moment, asking you to pay attention?

There is power in choosing to live this chapter fully, even if it doesn’t look like the vision board yet.

Even if it’s quiet.

Even if nothing spectacular or extraordinary is happening.

The way you speak to yourself in the present moment now hopefully with tenderness, patience and curiosity — that’s what creates the soil for everything else to grow.

Not the hustling. Not the perfect plan.

Just your willingness to be with what is, with softness instead of resistance.

So today, can you stop holding your life like it’s on pause?

Can you honour your breath, your pace, your process — not as a placeholder but as sacred divine timing?

You don’t need to wait to arrive somewhere to feel alive.

You’re already here.

And here matters.

love & positivity ✨ phi

The waiting is where the miracles happen

Sometimes, the waiting is where the miracles happen. It may not look like progress from the outside – no milestones, no applause, no recognition; but beneath the surface, something sacred is softening, shaping, becoming. The in-between holds a wisdom of its own, asking you to surrender control and simply be with what is.

In this space, you are invited to witness the parts of yourself that only emerge in stillness: the patience you never knew you had, the courage it takes to stay, the grace of letting go of timelines you once clung to. Trust isn’t built in the leaps forward – it’s built in the quiet moments where nothing seems to move, yet everything is subtly shifting within.

You’ve been taught to look for the big moments — the leaps, the breakthroughs and the loud yeses… the real magic?

It lives in the quiet in-betweens.

The mornings where you get out of bed without clarity but choose to show up anyway.

The nights where your heart aches for something more where you stay soft instead of shutting down.

Trust isn’t forged in fireworks; it’s built in the stillness, when you’re unsure and still say to yourself — I’m here, I’m listening, I’m staying.

There’s something sacred about that space — the not-yet, the waiting, the gentle breath before something blooms.

It’s where your intuition grows louder.

In the silence.

Where you remember your own rhythm. Where you stop chasing timelines and start honouring your timing.

This is where your courage is quiet and your faith is tender and still — it’s enough.

You’re just in the part of your story where the foundation is being taking place for beautiful, big, great things 💫

love & positivity ✨ phi

This is the great unlearning

You think you’re behind but really – you’re breaking cycles that were never meant to be yours to carry. You’re setting boundaries instead of being a suffering martyr. You’re speaking up where others have stayed silent. You’re letting yourself feel, love and rest. You’re right where you need to be, healing timelines and making sure the ones who come after you will know what it feels like to be free.

You’re not behind—you’re just on a different timeline than the one you thought you had to follow. The version of you that feels late is measuring life by someone else’s milestones, but deep down… you know your path was never going to look like theirs.

This is the great unlearning.

You’re doing work that doesn’t show up on a highlight reel.

You’re breaking patterns that kept women before you stuck.

That kind of work is invisible—it doesn’t come with quick wins or applause. It’s can be slow, quiet and messy.

It takes time.

You don’t see it visible on social media like an engagement ring or bought sale sign on a home.

So if it feels like you’re moving slower than everyone else, it’s because you’re walking a path that wasn’t paved yet.

You’re not behind—you’re building something entirely new.

That doesn’t happen on anyone’s schedule but your own 👊🏽

Cheering you on 🥰

love & positivity ✨ phi

Life is in constant motion

There’s a quiet ache in wishing for the next chapter before the present one has had a chance to root itself. The longing for what’s next begins to bloom before you’ve even exhaled into the fullness of here and now. It’s like standing on the edge of a story that hasn’t had the time to unfold, yet your heart already reaching for the pages that haven’t been written. The present feels unfinished, yet the mind is already hungry for change, for growth, for something different, something more. It’s as if you’re torn between honouring what you have, and the undeniable pull toward what could be. The beauty in the ache is that you’re alive, a tender reminder that life is in constant motion.

There are seasons where you find yourself suspended between the life you’ve known and the one that’s quietly calling you forward.

It’s a tender, often disorienting place—where your heart is filled with dreams that haven’t yet arrived and your feet are still planted in the soil of now.

The world tells you to move faster, to achieve more, to figure it all out. Something deeper in you knows: the soul doesn’t rush. The most meaningful transformations don’t happen in the doing—they unfold in the soft, slow space of unlearning and becoming.

This ache you feel—the tug for more, the longing for clarity: it isn’t a sign that something is wrong.

It’s proof that you’re alive.

That you’re reaching.

That you care deeply about living a life that matters.

Like roots growing underground, unseen but powerful.

This in-between season is not a pause—it’s a sacred preparation. An initiation. ❤️‍🔥

love & positivity ✨ phi

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You are enough to hold yourself

There comes a moment… quiet, often unnoticed — when the heart begins to stretch beyond its old walls. Not with force, but with a trembling yes. A yes to opening again. A yes to being witnessed. A yes to the gentle ache of living wide open. You don’t need to be fearless to expand. You just need to be willing. Willing to let love press against your edges. Willing to soften where you once braced. Willing to believe, even when it’s tender, that you are safe to grow. Heart expansion isn’t loud. It’s not a firework — it’s a flicker. A warmth. An exhale where once there was holding. A tear that falls without apology. Just maybe for the first time, you stop reaching out for permission and begin reaching in — You are finally enough to hold yourself.

When your heart has been hurt, it learns to build walls—not out of malice but out of self protection. These walls become silent boundaries, keeping everything that might wound us at a safe distance.

Disappointment can feel like a final blow, like a silent agreement that it’s no longer safe to hope.

So we close off.

We become careful.

We watch love from the edges and let possibility pass by, convincing ourselves that safety is enough.

But beneath the surface, something still pulses—some quiet knowing that we were made for more than just survival.

A desire. A feeling. A knowing.

And then, slowly, without warning, something soft happens.

A moment. A conversation. A serendipitous meeting. A smile that lingers a beat longer than expected. Laughing unexpectedly so much your belly hurts.

A reminder that not everything wants to hurt us. That maybe, just maybe, not everything is a repeat of the past.

The heart, once weary and withdrawn, begins to stretch again—not in dramatic ways but subtly.

Like light through a crack in the curtains.

It starts to feel.

It starts to want.

Vulnerability becomes less of a risk and more of a bridge—an opening into the unknown, yes… but also into something tender, sacred, alive.

This is how the heart begins to bloom again.

Not all at once, not without fear, but with a quiet courage.

What begins to guide instead is trust—not in outcomes, but in the strength of being open. In the beauty of showing up, letting in the unexpected and saying yes to life anyway.

The heart, once closed, dares to love the unknown again. And in that, it finds its freedom 🦋

love & positivity ✨ phi

The divine feminine does not perform for love

The divine feminine does not perform for love.

She understands that love is not something to be earned through actions, achieving, or approval from others.

She does not need to prove her worth or contort herself into someone else’s idea of perfection to be worthy of affection.

She moves through life with grace, knowing that her value is intrinsic—not defined by how much she can give, how much she can do, or how much she can please.

She loves herself first, and from that deep well of fulfiling self love, all other relationships are born.

Divine love is not a transaction.

In a world that often values doing over being, the divine feminine reminds us that true connection comes not from performing, but from simply being present and unapologetically oneself.

She knows that the most genuine love is the one that meets her exactly where she is, without the need for masks or pretenses.

It’s not about what she can do for others, but about how she shows up as herself—whole, powerful and radiating self-respect. It makes her magnetic. She lights up a room. You can feel her energy. You can feel her presence. You can feel her love.

Love, in her world, is a natural consequence of her alignment with her own soul.

love & positivity ✨ phi

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You’re not ‘just’ a dream girl…

You’re not just someone’s dream girl – you’re a woman who turns her dreams into a reality.

🫣 my love why are you settling for just being someone’s “dream girl”?

You weren’t made to be someone’s wish—you’re here to build a life that honours your wildest dreams.

You’re not just a muse, a fantasy or a fleeting desire.

You’re the creator of your own story and that story deserves to be written with authenticity, alignment and power.

Being a dream girl may feel flattering but it’s limiting if it means sacrificing your own aspirations or thinking for the male gaze and being for the male mind only.

Your life isn’t meant to be lived on the sidelines, waiting to be chosen.

It’s meant to be lived boldly, where you are the one choosing—choosing growth, choosing adventure, choosing yourself.

The truth is, the moment you stop living for someone else’s dream is the moment you start creating a life that feels fully aligned with who you are.

When you honour your own desires, when you go after what sets your soul on fire, that’s when real magic happens.

You’re not only someone’s dream girl. You’re a woman who turns her own dreams into reality—and that’s the kind of energy that changes everything ❤️‍🔥

love & positivity ✨ phi

Your new chapter

You’ve already weathered the storms—those moments that tested your strength, resilience and willpower. Every struggle, every tear, every sleepless night was shaping you into someone who knows exactly what they are capable of. It might not have felt like it in the moment, but each challenge you faced was an opportunity for growth, even when it felt like the world was against you. Now you are standing on the other side of it all, wiser and more prepared than ever before. you are ready for the sunshine. It’s a reminder that even after the hardest of storms, there is always a season of light that follows. This new chapter is one where your efforts are finally going to bear fruit.

This is your time to shine, to step fully into the life you’ve been building—one that is rooted in your strength, your passion and your solid belief in yourself.

You’ve put in the work and now it’s time for the universe to align with your efforts.

The storm has passed and the sunshine you’ve been waiting for is just around the corner. Embrace it. Bask in the warmth of all that is now unfolding for you.

Your journey has brought you here, to this moment of blossoming and everything ahead is a reflection of how far you’ve come.

This is your season of light—let it shine through you 🌞💫

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love & positivity ✨ phi

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