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Stop apologising for your own growth

You need to stop gaslighting your growth just because it doesn’t feel graceful.

Sin in the stretch. Let the friction teach you where you’re still shrinking to be digestible.

STOP APOLOGISING 🛑 👀 for your own growth just because it doesn’t look pretty, neat and linear…

Real change rarely looks polished as it unfolds — it’s often uneven, surprising and uncomfortable.

Just because it doesn’t feel graceful doesn’t mean it’s not exactly what you need to become who you’re meant to be.

When you lean into the tension and sit with that unfamiliar stretch, you begin to see all the places where you’re still shrinking yourself to fit someone else’s version of you.

That friction is a powerful teacher, pointing out where you can breathe deeper, stand taller,and refuse to make yourself small for anyone’s comfort.

Your becoming is not always tidy, but it is real, and it deserves your full presence.

If you’re ready to honor your process and grow into the most authentic version of yourself, let’s explore it together — reach out for life coaching and take that next brave step by working together ❤️‍🔥

Unlocking Unlearning – Episode 4 💫

You won’t get a warning when life becomes worth remembering. Let your messy room, late night thoughts and half done to do lists be part of the story.

Light hits a half empty coffee cup just right and suddenly the moment feels cinematic. Life doesn’t need to be polished to be worth appreciating.

There’s beauty in the in between, in the moments that don’t make it to the highlight reel.

If you keep waiting for everything to make sense, you’ll miss what’s happening right now. The clarity you crave often comes later, long after the moment has passed.

However the confusion, the doubt and the ache of not knowing… that’s where growth starts. That’s where something real begins.

There’s something oddly comforting in knowing life unfolds best when it’s not fully understood.

So even just for a moment, let things be messy and let them be beautiful anyway. Not everything has to be sorted out to be sacred.

Sometimes the most meaningful moments are the ones that feel unfinished, a little raw.

Romanticise it.

All of it.

Ready to embrace your main character energy and make the most of your life as it is and take it to the next level?

I got you. Let’s work together through 1:1 coaching and or a human design reading. Message me for more details.

Life’s quiet hum

Sometimes life closes in, not with drama, but with a quiet, relentless hum. The weight of everything unspoken, thickens the air. You move through your days with a knot in your stomach, carrying things you can’t name, aching for space to just be… to just exist without the pressure. Even in all of that, in your breath, is you. There is something sacred in the moments where you feel most undone. The way you keep showing up, even when no one sees how hard it is. You’re not weak for feeling weary. You’re not behind for needing rest. The medicine is in the gentle choosing. Choosing to still show up when everything feels slow or stuck or uncertain. Choosing to believe that even here, even now, there is worth. There is light. There is something in you that still hopes. Maybe that’s enough. Maybe that’s everything.

This is how self love really begins… 👀 not as a bold declaration, not in the mirror on your best day, but in the quiet. In the dark. In the choosing. The choosing to be present when it would be easier to check out. The choosing to speak gently with yourself when your mind grows sharp and restless. The choosing to hold space for the ache without rushing to fix it.

Over and over, you meet yourself there… in the slow moments, the uncertain ones, the ones that don’t make sense yet. You show up not with answers but with presence. That is the sacred work: to keep choosing to believe there is still worth in you. Still light, even if it’s faint. Still something soft and shimmering inside that wants to try again tomorrow.

That’s enough. Not the perfection. Not the productivity. Just the quiet, divine act of not abandoning yourself. Of showing up. Of loving. Still.

If you’re ready for support and guidance, I’d love to help you. I offer 1:1 coaching, message me to chat more!

The ache is not the end of you

Growth doesn’t always arrive with light pouring through the windows or the triumphant feeling of a new beginning. Sometimes, it enters quietly through the back door, disguised as endings we didn’t choose, questions without answers, the face of loss or pain you never saw coming… You’re not broken for feeling lost. You’re not failing because it hurts. In fact, the very ache in your chest is proof that you are alive, present and brave enough to feel. Growth moves like water – it softens before it shapes. It’s in the questions you’re asking, the boundaries you’re asking, the boundaries you’re growing to uphold and the tears that teach you what matters. It’s there in the confusion, the heartbreak, the quiet humiliation of not knowing what’s next… Beneath all of that, something is shifting – something sacred, unseen and necessary. The ache is not the end of you; it’s the opening.

Growth doesn’t always look like progress. Sometimes it looks like stillness, like everything falling apart, like losing who you thought you were.

It arrives not necessarily with supporters or triumphant announcement but in the moments you’re curled up on the bathroom floor, or staring at the ceiling wondering what the point of it all is.

One day, you’ll look back and realise the strength didn’t come from the victory — it came from being present with the storms you’re battling.

The choosing to stay soft in a world that hardened you. The way you kept showing up, even when no one clapped or noticed. You’ll see that the version of you who kept going through the silence, the mess, the mystery… that’s who did the growing. And that’s the version of you who deserves the deepest love.

So if you’re in the thick of it right now, if everything feels uncertain, heavy, or tender — know that you’re not alone, and you’re not lost. You’re in the sacred middle, where the real transformation happens.

Let this be your reminder: you don’t have to walk through it alone. If you’re ready to be held, guided and witnessed as you rise through the ashes into your next becoming, I’m here to help through 1:1 coaching and or a human design reading. Message me for more details.

For the spiritual woman wanting to conceive

For the spiritual woman wanting to conceive…

Your baby picks you – but only if you make space for it to show up.

Opening your energy is the first step in welcoming a spirit home.

Conception begins long before the body says yes.

Your baby is calling you to slow down, not speed up.

Sometimes conception means first conceiving peace within.

You can’t rush what’s born in divine timing.

The invisible thread of spirit connects you to your child before their first breath.

Align your heart and energy to invite a soul eager to call you parent.

Your womb isn’t just physical; it hold your stories, your pain, your hope and your desires.

You can’t control your life, but you can prepare your heart.

Your future child’s soul waits patiently, ready to leap into your life when the moment feels right.

Waiting isn’t passive – it’s the work of love in disguise.

You don’t have to understand the timing – just honour it.

So many women are doing everything ‘right’ to conceive but no one tells them what is being shared in this carousel or talk about…

I don’t often share this part of my work: the sacred, quiet conversations I have with women preparing to become mothers.

However today, something came through that landed so deeply for a client (see the first quote).

What I’ve come to understand through coaching, intuitively channeling, and holding space for women walking this path is that becoming a mother is often an energetic and spiritual shift before it’s a physical one.

Whether you are calling in a baby through conception, surrogacy, adoption or simply feeling the stirrings of maternal energy within you, the invitation is the same: to begin making space.

Space in your body, yes but also in your heart, your nervous system, your life.

To begin relating to yourself as a safe place for love to land.

Motherhood isn’t just a title given when a child arrives.

It’s an identity that starts to take shape in the unseen, subtle layers of who you’re becoming.

In the quiet moments where you begin to soften, trust, listen and open. In the grief, the longing, the hope.

This is sacred preparation.

However motherhood arrives for you, this inner work matters. It creates the container your soul and the soul of the life you may one day guide can feel.

If you’re looking for guidance and support on this journey, I’d love to help you through 1:1 coaching. Message me for more details.

love & positivity ✨ phi

Your heart was never meant to harden

There will be moments when your heart feels like too much. Too tender. Too broken. Too open. It’s in those very moments when you let yourself feel without rushing to fix – that something sacred happens. You return to yourself.

You remember who you are beneath the masks, beneath the pleasing, beneath the performance. The ache becomes an opening. The sorrow becomes softness. The vulnerability becomes strength. Your heart doesn’t need protection as much as it needs your presence. You don’t have to force it to be brave – it already is. Every time it keeps loving, even when it has shattered. Every time it opens again even when it’s afraid to. Your heart is not a liability – it’s the portal.

To your truth. To your power. To your peace… and the more you let it lead, the more you’ll feel life is not just happening to you, but moving through you, as you.

Your heart was never meant to harden. It was meant to feel deeply, to crack open, to expand with every experience — not in spite of the pain but because of it.

When you stop making your tenderness wrong, you start to realise it’s where your power lives.

Not in the walls or defences, but in the courage to stay open.

The truth is, life will always ask things of you.

It’s your inner alignment; your connection to yourself that determines how you respond.

You get to choose how you show up, not from survival, but from self trust… that changes everything.

You weren’t made to navigate this alone.

Sometimes we all need someone to help us see clearly, hold space for our becoming, and gently guide us back to ourselves. If you’re ready to soften, return, and rise — let’s chat.

Sacred rage isn’t your enemy

Last week coaching clients, one thing stood out: sacred anger and rage is real — it’s often the hardest emotion for women to claim.

We’ve been taught to soften, to stay small, to avoid the fire that boils beneath.

What if the anger you feel is not something to fear, but a sacred force calling you to set boundaries, demand respect and reclaim your power?

Embracing your sacred rage means honoring the truth of what you feel, even when it’s uncomfortable.

It’s the fuel that transforms frustration into fierce clarity and quiet resentment into bold action.

If you’ve been holding back your anger, it might be time to see it as a guide, not a threat.

If you’re ready to safely explore this powerful energy and turn it into your superpower, let’s talk.

Sacred rage isn’t your enemy — it’s your awakening. DM me to start your journey with life coaching that helps you step into your full, authentic power ❤️‍🔥

One day soon

Fate has a funny way of rearranging our lives in ways we never saw coming. It strips away what feels familiar, what you thought was certain, only to make space and surprise you for something more aligned than you ever dared to ask for. In those moments when your world feels cracked open, when grief settles heavy in your chest, there is a quiet grace beneath the pain and a tenderness that refuses to harden, even when everything inside you threatens to break. It’s as if fate gently whispers that loss and longing are not the end but the beginning of a deeper unfolding, a deeper unlearning. She invites you to lean into the ache, to trust that the parts of you that feel broken are the very parts being rebuilt with more strength and clarity than before. This isn’t about erasing your scars but honouring them, holding them as proof that you survived what you once thought would destroy you. Fate didn’t forget you in the chaos; she was just writing a better story —one with twists and turns you couldn’t have scripted yourself.

And maybe that’s the point: you weren’t meant to write this story alone. Fate is not a cruel punisher or puppeteer but a quiet co creator, guiding you toward a version of yourself that is fuller, fiercer and softer all at once.

She weaves the unexpected into your journey, not to punish, but to prepare you for the life that is waiting— one richer and more real than anything you could have imagined.

So when the path feels uncertain, remember this: every detour, every heartbreak, every unplanned chapter is fate’s way of reminding you that you’re exactly where you’re meant to be.

It may not make sense right now, but it will one day.

One day soon 💫

A heart that beats louder than doubt

My favourite people are the ones who dare to dream and aren’t actually afraid to try,,, and be seen trying. The ones who takes brave, messy steps toward them in the open. They’re not fearless but they move anyway. They let themselves be seen in the uncertainty, in the wild pursuit of something deeply meaningful that lights up their heart and soul. These are the people who remind me that courage isn’t about having a flawless plan – it’s about having a heart that beats louder than doubt.

They know failure is a risk but hiding would cost them even more so they show up with shaky hands and hopeful eyes. They don’t always feel read and often their voices tremble when they speak their truth. But they do it anyway. They try anyway.

Something inside them whispers that staying hidden hurts more than being seen — even if that means being seen stumbling or starting over. There’s a kind of beauty in that boldness, sometimes loud yes but also the quiet, soul deep kind that stirs something in everyone who watches.

Watching them is like poetry in motion — raw, alive, unfiltered. You can feel the pulse of their courage in every step they take. Not polished. Not perfect. Just real. In their realness, they remind us that we don’t have to wait to be fully healed or fully certain to begin.

I treasure these people. The ones who chase the things they care about, not because it’s easy but because it’s honest. When we stop hiding and start trusting that who we are… that is enough to begin. Showing up, even imperfectly is already a kind of magic.

Your dreams are too important to stay tucked away. Let’s bring them to life — one step at a time through 1:1 coaching, message me let’s start.

Growth leaves you more whole

Somewhere along the way, you stopped needing to be the strongest one in the room. You started allowing yourself to feel, to unlearn, to unravel, to not know… That’s not weakness – that’s wisdom. It takes incredible strength to soften when life has hardened you. To keep your heart open after disappointment. To stay curious when it would be easier to shut down. This is the quiet power that builds slowly, without visible validation. The kind that truly changes everything. You’re not late. You’re not behind. You’re in the thick of it. It’s okay if no one else sees the ways you’re changing. What matters is that you feel it. That you notice the tenderness returning. That you speak your truth a little louder. That you hold yourself a little more kindly. Growth rarely looks glamorous – but it always leaves you more whole.

You don’t have to hold it all together with a smile while your heart quietly aches behind the scenes. The world may have taught you that your worth lies in your resilience, in how much you can carry without breaking — but that’s not the full truth.

There is power in softness, in saying “I need help,” in letting someone else hold space when you’re too tired to keep holding it all on your own.

Strength doesn’t disappear when you lean into help— it’s redefined. It becomes the quiet bravery of allowing someone to see the parts of you that are tired, messy, confused or afraid.

It’s the courage to drop the armour and say, I’m not okay.

You were never meant to do it all without support. You’re not weak for feeling lost or overwhelmed. You’re human and you’re allowed to ask for help.

Let me be the strong one for a while. Let me hold the space and find the solutions instead of it always being you. You don’t have to have it all figured out to begin… you just have to be willing to be honest about where you are.

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