• It’s safe to surrender

    On trust...

    This is your sign to let go.

    Trust where you are right now.

    Trust that you are capable and on the right track to where you want to be.

    Trust that you are becoming who you are meant to be.

    This is how you are changing your reality.

    The sign you've been looking for...

    This is the sign you’ve been looking for. I know you’re stressed and anxious. I know at times it feels like it isn’t happening for you but it seems to be for everyone else. I know you’re giving it your all and trying your best.

    It’s all going to pay off sooner rather than later.

    It’s safe to surrender, relax and melt into this moment.

    It’s safe to have trust and faith in the universe, you are not alone in this. You are loved and supported. You are a powerful conscious creator and the universe sees that.

    Watch as you change your inner world how your external reality is shifting 💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Open your heart

    Open your heart

    Beautiful soul, I know it feels like at times, life isn’t pretty or kind to you – even though you have the biggest heart.

    Don’t harden your heart, don’t close off your heart.

    Your heart is meant to be open.

    With time you will understand why you had to go through the clouds for the sun to shine.

    The tears you shed are clearing and making way for your desired path.

    You asked for change and for new beginnings.

    Let your tears dry and your light shine brighter than ever before.

    The very heart that beats in your chest can hold so much pain but it’s this very heart that can hold and expand with so much love.

    Better days are coming

    It’s easy to cut yourself off from loving and feeling more deeply in fact it’s evolutionarily instinctual to protect yourself.

    It’s harder to remain open and loving yet despite it all, do so.

    A big heart is a beautiful thing.

    Life can be cruel we know that but don’t let that discourage you.

    Better days are coming.

    One day you’ll look back and realize why everything has unfolded the way it has.

    Keep going 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Trust your journey

    You have not seen it all...

    Trust how your journey is unfolding.

    I know at times it’s so hard.

    Not everyone is going to support you or understand it.

    I know it’s hard to have faith.

    I know it can be at times so hard to believe.

    Beautiful soul, you have not seen it all.

    Every moment is a precious part of your path unfolding.

    Do what you can from where you are.

    Keep going, it’s all coming together perfectly.

    Simply being

    Just because you don’t know exactly how it unfold, when, how, where and all the details… just because you can’t see it right now – it doesn’t mean that it isn’t happening.

    Trust that every piece of the jigsaw is coming together, that everything is unfolding exactly as it should.

    You cannot rush it.

    You cannot slow it down.

    All you can do is simply be.

    Relax and surrender.

    Don’t reach the destination and forget the beauty of the journey.

    Don’t reach the destination, wondering how you even got there in the first place because time slipped by.

    Don’t reach the destination resentful of how it came to be instead of being so full of love, joy, gratitude and expansion.

    You have not seen it all yet.

    You have not felt it all yet.

    That’s the magic and beauty of the journey 💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • On healing…

    You heal when...

    You heal when you love yourself through it.

    You heal when you express what’s inside.

    You heal when you speak your truth, it’s medicine.

    You heal when you forgive not only others but yourself too.

    You heal when you let go of how you think it should be and let it just be.

    You heal when you realise you are not broken and there’s nothing to fix.

    You heal when you get out of your head and into your body.

    You heal when you move and be on your own timeline.

    You heal when you let the past, be the past.

    You heal when you no longer resist and surrender to the flow.

    You heal because you are doing the best that you can and that is more than enough.

    Accepting the process...

    Because your healing won’t be through hate or self loathing.

    Your medicine is in kindness, compassion and love for yourself.

    Your healing comes in being able to hold space for yourself and everything that comes with the journey, all the feelings — grief, joy, sadness, ecstasy, anger and relief.

    Your healing will be at your own pace and it’s okay if it starts slow and progresses inch by inch because that is progress.

    You’ll have moments of feeling weak followed by bursts of being brave nevertheless what lies at your heart is always strength and resilience because you’ve made it so far and will continue to.

    I see you healing and I think it’s so beautiful.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Be your own saviour

    Be your own saviour

    Maybe right now your journey isn’t about love.

    Maybe right now your journey is about… YOU.

    Maybe this is the season you’re being challenged to be your own saviour.

    You are love

    love is so very beautiful, it’s something we all desire and dream of… we find ourselves searching for it, in the arms and heart of another.

    what I’ve come to realise time and time again, love is not outside of you.

    love is within you.

    you are love.

    we are conditioned to search for it, to chase it, to find it when all along it’s inside of ourselves.

    you don’t need to be rescued, you need to rescue yourself.

    when your heart is so full and at peace within yourself inevitably it will draw another, someone who won’t complete you but complement you.

    someone who won’t change you but make you strive to be a better person.

    someone you could live without but don’t want to 🧡

    that love cannot be rushed, that love is worth the wait.

    trust the journey beautiful soul 🦋

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • You are a human, being

    Make friends with your shadow

    Be human to the fullest.

    Make mistakes, learn and make them again.

    Move four steps forwards, five steps backwards and then to the side.

    Fall down and get back up.

    Be driven crazy by your thoughts.

    Wallow in your misery.

    Cry one minute then laugh and feel immense joy.

    Give into temptation.

    Enjoy earthy delights.

    Laugh so much until your stomach hurts.

    Dance in the rain.

    Make friends with your shadow.

    Create, destroy, create and destroy.

    Shine your light.

    Feel the rush of falling for someone.

    Love deeply even when your heart is broken.

    Be in your own world.

    Rise higher and higher.

    Fail, succeed, fail and succeed. 

    Try again.

    Enjoy the human experience, beautiful soul.

    Be the human that you are

    Because you aren’t meant to be perfect or robotic. You are a human being!

    You aren’t here to follow the traditions, you are here to forge your own path and be a game changer.

    You aren’t here to repeat the same mistakes and continue the pain of your ancestors. You are here to break the chain and heal your lineage.

    You aren’t here to shrink yourself and play it small. You are here to make the most of your unique and rare existence.

    You aren’t here to be boxed and trapped by a purpose. You are here to live and truly by alive.

    Be the human that you are.

    Exactly as you are now is who you are meant to be.

    Exactly where you are now is where you are meant to be.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Do you need a money mindset shift?

    Money mindset...

    Wealth is the consciousness of abundance.

    Poverty is the consciousness of lack.

    5 tips for money mindset shifts

    📞 bling bling 💎 5 instant money mindset shifts coming thru…

    💸 having money doesn’t actually change your underlying beliefs around money. If you feel scarce now, you’ll still feel scarce when you make more money 🤕 and a big tip for you: money doesn’t equal security and safety…

    💸 it is your divine birthright to receive and be abundant 👼🏼 plants never worry if there’s enough sun to go around 🌞 more money can always be printed… seriously. It is all the time everyday. Infinite source.

    💸 Maybe why money hasn’t been around you is because money is waiting for you to evolve and grow so it can flow freely to you 🌱

    💸 Rich mind = rich energy = rich thoughts. I focus on what I want vs what I don’t have. I focus on what I already have vs what I don’t have. Tap into wealth and abundance NOW not when you have $x or own y or make z💡

    💸 Have more fun around and thinking about money. Money is sick of being made the bad guy. Money is sick of all the desperation around it. One of my favourite money thoughts is money is so attracted to me and hot for me 🥵

    Here’s to your abundance, prosperity and wealth money magnet 🧲

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Finding your ease and flow

    Life isn't easy...

    Life isn’t easy but ease is a way of life.

    You can only live life with ease when you are internally at ease.

    More on ease

    Ego says: ‘Once everything falls into place, I’ll feel peace.’

    Spirit says: ‘Find peace, and then everything will fall into place’

    — Marianne Williamson

    This doesn’t mean you don’t work, you spend all day at the beach drinking cocktails and going on shopping sprees 🛍 (although that would be really nice 😇)

    You can live with ease doing your job, doing life admin, dating, living your everyday life, making dinner… anything!

    Ease is:

    😌 taking responsibility for your stuff: thoughts, feelings, actions, results therefore having power

    😌 having things thrown at you that are challenging and frustrating but having full confidence you can handle it

    😌 knowing your triggers and how to work through them essentially responding not reacting

    😌 leading with love, being kind and compassionate with yourself always

    😌 having rock solid boundaries with no anxiety and being able to say no when you don’t want to say yes

    So whilst life is far from easy when we approach with ease from a place of stability, strength and serenity within… that’s where ease comes from ✨

    You are the unwavering mountain 🏔

    You are the depth of the ocean

    You are the songs of the birds

    Here’s to ease in your life beautiful soul 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • On being the main character

    No one can...

    No one can save you from your own work.

    No one can save you from your own healing.

    It’s never anyone else’s job but yours.

    The work and healing is yours

    From a young age we are conditioned to believe in the hero, the saviour only to realise that person is ourselves.

    It’s not Prince Charming. Even if your partner is incredibly loving, patient and compassionate (which is a must!).

    It’s not your family. Your parents won’t be around forever and everyone has their own life to live.

    It’s not your friends. They’ll always catch you when you fall but they can’t carry it all with you.

    It’s not your coach. It’s a privilege to walk by my clients as they do the work on their healing and personal development journey. I cheer them on. I hype them up. I help them get back up. Yet they do the work themselves because they are powerful beyond their comprehension.

    The work and healing is yours.

    Your support network and team are by your side and walk with you but you’re the main character, you’re the leader ⚡️

    It’s an internal job.

    Working on your thoughts, actions, feelings.

    Letting go of what no longer serves you outdated beliefs and negative self talk.

    You got this.

    Cheering your growth and expansion on always 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • 15: How To Be A Magnet For Love

    Episode Summary of The Grow Through It Podcast with Phi Dang, 15: How To Be A Magnet For Love

    Part 3 of 4 of the brand new L💘VE SERIES. Learn how to be a super charged magnet to attract love into your life in an easy and effortless way through energetic principles.


    What you'll learn from this episode

    • How to be a magnet for love to attract love into your life
    • How you co create with the universe
    • The energetics of love

    Key Quotes from this Episode

    You are a co creator with the universe. You work hand in hand with the universe to create your reality through your energy, your being, your presence, how you show up in the world.

    You are always magnetic, so what are you pulling into your world?

    Love is so abundant. It’s infinite. There isn’t just enough for everyone, there’s more than enough for everyone.

    Featured Resources on the episode

    The Grow Through It Podcast with Phi Dang, 15: How To Be A Magnet For Love

    You are listening to Episode 15 of the Grow Through It Podcast with Phi Dang: How To Be A Magnet For Love

    [Introduction to the Grow Through It Podcast With Phi Dang plays – Background Music: upbeat, confident, rising beat]:

    Don’t just go through life, grow through it. Don’t just go through life, grow through it.

    Hi and Welcome to the Grow Through It Podcast with Phi Dang.

    My name is Phi and I am a Clarity and Confidence Life Coach known as the “The Positivity Queen.”

    My passion is to help you go from stuck and self critical to courageous and empowered so you can conquer anything.

    Join me, every Tuesday, as I discuss all things mindset, self love, energy and purpose.

    This podcast won’t just inspire and motivate you, it will also provide practical tips and strategies you can implement in your daily life.

    Ready to grow? Let’s grow!

    [Grow Through It Podcast With Phi Dang End of Intro]

    [Episode 15 – How To Be A Magnet For Love Begins]

    How To Be A Magnet For Love Introduction

    Hello beautiful soul!

    I am so happy to have you here. Thank you, I appreciate you. I am feeling so good, in flow and ease. I recently made a 4 figure investment into an energetic alignment course that felt uncomfortable and scary but so right. I literally felt my heart tug at me to do it.

    Of course I had all the triggers. What if you are wasting your money. You wanted to save your money for this and blah blah blah. Honestly I could see and feel my scarcity mindset come through and I was not for it.

    It was keeping me stuck and small.

    Hand on heart, I know every investment I make will always have a return. Being a life coach myself it’s so important I am always learning, growing and evolving so that I can be the best life coach. To hold space for my clients. To ask better questions of my clients. To be able to share more with my clients.

    And so, I sat with the feeling. I felt deep into my heart.

    No payment plan, I paid in full. 

    I leaned into the trigger with love instead of running away from it with fear and it felt so delicious. So expansive. So turned on. Just so much yes for it. I am truly leaning into what it feels like in my body, the vibrations, the sensations, the energy.

    It feels so magnetically good. I can’t wait. 

    Celebrating L💘VE SERIES - Win a 1:1 coaching intensive with me

    Before I dive into today’s episode, I wanted to remind you about the celebration I launched for the love series! If you are loving the podcast, I invite you to leave a review, screenshot it and DM it to me on instagram or email it to me at [email protected] for your chance to win a 1:1 75 minute coaching intensive worth $350. Not only that if you say hi, I want to personally thank you!

    A special thank you to my boyfriend

    Just one more thing whilst I remember, today is actually my one year anniversary with my boyfriend. I am so appreciative of you, I appreciate your support, I couldn’t have done it without you… ohhhh

    I totally just caught myself in this moment in this very moment saying “ couldn’t have done it without you…” I feel like society expects us to say stuff like this but he knows this – I totally could have done it without him. It’s just having his support meant so much to me and helped me go through times when it can get tough having your own business so thank you. 

    How To Be A Magnet For Love Foundations

    Today’s episode is the third in the love series and it is all about love and energy, how to be a magnet for love.

    This episode will focus on the energetics of attracting and being a magnet for love. 

    If you haven’t listened to Episode 13 – The Mindset of Love and Episode 14 – How to Make Self Love A Priority, I strongly recommend doing so as they form the foundations required to be the energetic match for love. I’ll make sure to leave episode links in the show notes for you.

    Understanding the thoughts and mindset you need to be in to attract love and if you already deeply love yourself, being a magnet for love is so effortless and easy.

    The energetics of love, you are a co creator with the Universe

    Let’s dive into the energetics of love. 

    You are a co creator with the universe. You work hand in hand with the universe to create your reality through your energy, your being, your presence, how you show up in the world.

    You are always magnetic, so what are you pulling into your world?

    You are always an energetic magnet

    When it comes to love you will always attract like for like.

    It’s the law of attraction in action. 

    If you’re emotionally unavailable, you’ll attract emotionally unavailable. 

    If you’re serious about love, you’ll attract someone serious about love. 

    If you want someone who is really caring and understanding, you have to be caring and understanding.

    If you want someone passionate and fiery, you have to be passionate and fiery.

    If you want someone successful, you have to be successful. 

    Be conscious of the energy you are putting out there. Be conscious of the energy you are receiving. What is it telling you about yourself?

    Phi's personal example

    As an example, personally I used to attract a lot of men who were afraid of commitment for every reason under the sun. Still hurt by an ex. Wanting to play and have it all.

    It was very uncomfortable and confronting to realise the common denominator was me.

    What did it say about the fact I was attracting emotionally unavailable men that I was in fact emotionally unavailable. I thought I wanted love but my actions said otherwise. I was looking for love in all the wrong places, places I knew I would not find love deep down.

    I also used to date a lot very powerful men. Bankers, doctors, lawyers.

    What was this telling me about myself?

    I felt drawn to their power and status because I didn’t feel like I had power and status (even though I did). I was high on their halo effect because dating them made me feel good about myself.

    The secret is to get curious. Awareness if the first step but take it further, okay why am I doing this? Why am I attracting this. What role do I play in this because I always play a role.

    Doing this work showed myself and the universe I was serious about love.

    Are you actually serious about love?

    So I’ve been repeating this concept I’m about to share a lot on Instagram because when you get this concept, you get it! You understand how you are shaping your reality.

    If you’re serious about love and you’re putting it out there in the universe, the universe will hear you. The universe will see you. The universe is so high vibe, loving and abundant. 

    The universe wants to give you what you want.

    The question is are you an energetic match for what you want.

    If you say you’re serious about finding love, do your actions match that?

    Are you open to love?

    Are you meeting new people?

    Are you doing on dates?

    Are you only dating people you know who are also open and ready for love?

    Are you showing up as your best self?

    Or are you hung up in the past. Stuck on an ex. Living in memory lane. Reminiscing. Missing. Stalking on social media.

    Are you dating people who you know deep down aren’t looking for a relationship? Just for fun.

    Are you closed off to love, not giving anyone the opportunity to meet you?

    Mmmm it’s something to think about when it comes to being a magnet for love.

    Disconnect and untether from your past if you want to be a magnet for love

    If you are still stuck in your past when it comes to love, it’s time to disconnect from the past.

    The past is gone.

    It’s already happened, you can’t change it.

    So if you’re feeling stuck and holding on, that’s you.

    Are you aware of that? That it is you keeping you stuck in your past. Not your ex. Not the person you had a thing with, you.

    This stagnant pent up energy is blocking you from magnetising new love.

    The universe demands you learn your lessons before moving forward. 

    How can you disconnect from the past?

    You could visualise scissors cutting you off energetically from the past.

    You could forgive what has happened in the past, not for them but for you. 

    I have a full in depth episode dedicated to forgiveness, episode 6, I’ll put the link in the show notes.

    When you are free from your past, your hurt, your anger, your disappointment, your pain, your heart ache, your sadness, you are open to love.

    You have less baggage, less ties, less heaviness. 

    An open heart is a magnet for love

    Your open heart is a magnet for love.

    Are you tuning into the high vibe, high frequency of love?

    Are you embodying love?

    Are you being love?

    Are you giving love freely without expectation of anything in return.

    Are you loving yourself?

    Are you feeling love in your whole being, in every thing you do?

    Are you giving love to those in your circle?

    Are you grateful for the love you already have in your life?

    Are you radiating love?

    Understand that love is always available and abundant

    Love isn’t just romance. Love is everywhere.

    Love is one of the most powerful and high frequency energies in this universe.

    If you want to be a magnet for it, you’ve got to be equally and energetically there.

    Love is so abundant. It’s infinite.

    There isn’t just enough for everyone, there’s more than enough for everyone.

    It’s over flowing so bathe and bask in the feeling of love. It’s always available. It’s up to you if you are open for it. 

    Love starts with you.

    In loving yourself.

    In forgiving yourself.

    In having deep compassion for yourself.

    In your ability to hold space for yourself.

    Are you open to love?

    Are you open to receiving love?

    Do you think you are worthy of love?

    Be a magnet for love through visualisation

    Visualisation is so powerful for love. It allows you to tap into the feelings of love, to embody love in your body and to magnetise love.

    What does it feel like to be with your person?

    What do you do together?

    What is life like together?

    The more you can flow into this vision, the better.

    The details. The coffee they like to drink. The way they laugh.

    Lean into love and imagine. Allow yourself to feel love and see the love you can have.

    Be a magnet for love by believing, loving letting go and trusting the Universe

    One of the hardest but most important principles in being a magnet for love is to lovingly let go, trust and believe love is coming.

    Seriously, I used to think it was a load of woo but genuinely when I met my now boyfriend I told the universe, I’m serious about love and I’m letting go and trusting you.

    When I wasn’t looking for him, he came to me. Just like that, after 8 years being singled.

    I had finally shown and proven to the universe that I was ready because I was!

    I did the hard work, confronting myself – the thoughts I had that kept me small and blocked from love.

    Finding love is so difficult.

    I’ll be single forever.

    I’ll never find love.

    I overcame these limiting beliefs and backed it up with my actions.

    Going on dates, feeling all the abundance of love in my life already, investing in a dating coach.

    It took me 8 years to get there because I thought I had done the work but I hadn’t. It was superficial. I didn’t go deep enough.

    Be a magnet for love by being who you really are, being authentic

    The final principle I will share on how to be come a magnet for love is being truly authentic.

    Being who you are.

    If you act as someone else, whoever falls in love with you won’t really be falling in love with you but a mask.

    When you are living in authenticity, you will radiate love with ease and be a magnet for love.

    This is because when you are yourself, there is such a palpable energy about it.

    People can’t help but be drawn into it.

    When you can fully love and be yourself, you give out signals to others hey it’s okay to fully love and be yourself too.

    When you speak your truth and from your heart, that is magnetising.

    Pretending and acting gets tiring and wears you down.

    Don’t worry about who you repel, you don’t want them anyway and they don’t want you.

    A recap and summary of how to be a magnet for love

    Recapping it all, the keys to becoming a magnet for love are:

    • Co creating with the universe  
    • Being an energetic match for the love you want, like attracts like
    • Releasing what keeps you stuck in the past
    • Having an open heart
    • Embodying love and expanding into abundance
    • Visualising with great detail the love you desire
    • Trusting the universe and letting go with love 

    The Grow Through It Podcast with Phi Dang, 15: How To Be A Magnet For Love Close

    Beautiful soul, I hope you enjoyed today’s beautiful episode. 

    If this episode really resonated with you, I invite you to hop on a free 45 minute call with me to chat about working together through 1:1 coaching. Give yourself so much love by investing in yourself. Working together means rapid expansion and growth. Abundant love. Feeling so good, whole and free. Feeling in divine alignment and unshakable confidence in yourself to handle anything life throws your way. DM me on instagram or find out more on my website

    Next week’s episode will be the last instalment of the love series on the purpose of love. I’ll speak to you then beautiful soul. Love and positivity. 

    [Episode 15 – How To Be A Magnet For Love Outro]

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