Letting go isn’t an act of force – it’s an act of trust.
Letting go is often seen as something active—something you do, as if you need to rip something away, cut ties abruptly or force yourself to move on. But this approach can make letting go feel painful, as if you’re prying something from your grasp.
The Unlearning: You don’t have to pry something from your grip; you just have to loosen your hold.
Letting go isn’t an act of force—it’s an act of trust.
It’s choosing to release, to surrender, to soften. It’s allowing what’s meant for you to stay and what’s not to drift away naturally.
We often think that holding on tightly is a sign of strength, but in reality, it’s the opposite. It takes far more strength to loosen your grip and trust the flow of life.
When we hold on—whether it’s to old habits, beliefs, or relationships—we create resistance. We think we’re protecting ourselves, but we’re actually keeping ourselves stuck in a cycle of tension.
Letting go is much harder, because it asks us to trust, to release control, and to believe that we are safe even in the unknown.
The true strength lies in allowing things to evolve naturally, not forcing them to stay the same.
It’s in softening that you find the peace and freedom you’ve been seeking 🌸
This week is all about letting go energetically, for more listen to episode 101 (the newest ep) and 100 on the 🎧 grow through it podcast with phi dang. If you like the concept of unlearning, check out my book 📖 the great unlearning.
love & positivity ✨ phi
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