🔑 STOP auditioning for a role you already own 🛑 you are not the extra, a stand in or an option.
You’re the one the story was written for.
The one the audience is screaming for.
The one who walks into the room and knows they belongs — even if your knees are shaking.
Waiting for permission, holding back, trying to be agreeable, digestible, non…disruptive. Hoping someone would choose you. Approve of you. Pick you for the lead…
But here’s the truth: you don’t need to be chosen. You are the main character. The role is already yours — you just have to stop playing small and step into it.
Main character energy is about owning who you are naturally (hello human design!) It’s about being unforgettable because you know who you are.
It’s about taking up space without apology, and making choices that are true to you — not what’s expected.
We have been conditioned to downplay, to wait, to keep the peace. The real work? Unlearning all of that. Reclaiming your voice. Asking yourself, “What would the audience scream for me to do right now?” Then doing it — scared, messy, real.
If you’re done living on the sidelines of your own life… that’s where I come in. 1:1 coaching, human design reading or come on a retreat (the vibe of the recharge & renew retreat in Bali this August — only 1 room remains!!) Message me for more details.
love & positivity ✨ phi
đź“– The Great Unlearning
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