“Self love won’t give you butterflies, but will give you wings.”
Butterflies come and go, but wings are lasting—they support you, they are your expansion and you rise with them; higher into your authentic, best self.
True self-love is not fleeting or rooted in external validation. It is a journey inward, a journey of UNLEARNING; where you strip away the weight of expectations, outdated beliefs, and self-doubt that have kept you grounded.
It’s a process of unlearning the stories that taught you to shrink, and coming to an understanding that your worth is innate, beyond question, and… always has been.
As women, we are often taught to derive our sense of value from how we show up for others, from the roles we fulfill, and from our perceived perfection, the “good girl.”
But self-love demands a shedding of these. Unlearning calls for the release of guilt when you choose yourself, for the reclamation of your time, your space, and your voice.
The more you let go of what isn’t truly yours—the inherited insecurities, the noise of comparison—the lighter you become. That lightness doesn’t just free you; it empowers you to ascend, to navigate life with resilience and grace.
In embracing self-love, you don’t chase the temporary flutter of approval. Instead, you build the foundation for boundless freedom.
You understand that self-love is less about adding to yourself and more about releasing… unlearning…
It’s in letting go that you find the strength to soar beyond what you thought possible. With wings of self-compassion, your journey becomes one of possibility. You are no longer limited to where you’ve been told you belong; you are free to reach where your heart dares to go 🧡
