Unlocking Unlearning – Episode 3 💫
Sometimes we go searching for answers in all the places we were told we’d find them… in careers, cities, degrees, relationships.. but what if the truth you’re seeking has been inside you all along?
When I lost my dad, my identity cracked wide open.
Everything I thought made me “me” no longer made sense.
The high achiever. The law student. The one who kept it all together. The good girl. The perfect one.
Grief stripped that away and forced me to sit with what was left.
And for a while, what was left felt like nothing.
Empty. Lost. Heavy.
Here’s what I came to realise.
Grieving doesn’t mean you’ve failed at being strong.
Feeling deeply doesn’t mean you’re broken.
It means you’re human.
There were moments I didn’t want to keep going—but I did, slowly, because I let myself feel.
Because I let myself be changed.
In that, I found something deeper: clarity, purpose, and the beginning of coming home to myself.
My true aligned authentic self.
If you’re in a season of unravelling if you’re grieving, shifting, unlearning who you thought you had to be — this is your reminder: you’re not alone. You’re not behind. You’re becoming.
If you’re ready to explore who you are beneath the expectations, the pain, the pressure — I’d love to support you. My coaching is a space where your truth is safe, your emotions are welcome and your becoming is honoured. Reach out when you’re ready. 🧡
