One day, you will get tired.
Not the kind of tired that sleep can fix, but the kind that settles deep in your bones after years of shrinking yourself to fit inside other people’s expectations.
Tired of apologising for taking up space.
Tired of explaining your ambitions.
Tired of softening your opinions so they sound less threatening.
Tired of carrying everyone else’s emotions while quietly abandoning your own.
When that day comes, something beautiful happens.
You stop asking for permission.
Permission to speak.
Permission to take up space.
Permission to set boundaries.
Permission to become who you were always meant to be.
The people who benefited from your silence may call your voice arrogance.
The people who benefited from your sacrifices may call your boundaries cruelty.
The people who loved the smaller version of you may struggle to recognise the woman you become.
Let them.
Not everyone is meant to come with you into the next chapter.
One day you’ll look in the mirror and realise you are no longer bending and shrinking yourself just to be accepted and loved.
And that is where your freedom begins.
You will realise that the life you were given was never meant to be spent performing for an audience. It was never supposed to revolve around being agreeable enough, attractive enough, selfless enough, or easy enough to love.
You were not born to be manageable.
You were born to be whole.
Born to be all of you.
love & positivity ✨ phi
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