Growth doesn’t always arrive with light pouring through the windows or the triumphant feeling of a new beginning. Sometimes, it enters quietly through the back door, disguised as endings we didn’t choose, questions without answers, the face of loss or pain you never saw coming… You’re not broken for feeling lost. You’re not failing because it hurts. In fact, the very ache in your chest is proof that you are alive, present and brave enough to feel. Growth moves like water – it softens before it shapes. It’s in the questions you’re asking, the boundaries you’re asking, the boundaries you’re growing to uphold and the tears that teach you what matters. It’s there in the confusion, the heartbreak, the quiet humiliation of not knowing what’s next… Beneath all of that, something is shifting – something sacred, unseen and necessary. The ache is not the end of you; it’s the opening.
Growth doesn’t always look like progress. Sometimes it looks like stillness, like everything falling apart, like losing who you thought you were.
It arrives not necessarily with supporters or triumphant announcement but in the moments you’re curled up on the bathroom floor, or staring at the ceiling wondering what the point of it all is.
One day, you’ll look back and realise the strength didn’t come from the victory — it came from being present with the storms you’re battling.
The choosing to stay soft in a world that hardened you. The way you kept showing up, even when no one clapped or noticed. You’ll see that the version of you who kept going through the silence, the mess, the mystery… that’s who did the growing. And that’s the version of you who deserves the deepest love.
So if you’re in the thick of it right now, if everything feels uncertain, heavy, or tender — know that you’re not alone, and you’re not lost. You’re in the sacred middle, where the real transformation happens.
Let this be your reminder: you don’t have to walk through it alone. If you’re ready to be held, guided and witnessed as you rise through the ashes into your next becoming, I’m here to help through 1:1 coaching and or a human design reading. Message me for more details.
