Mindset

  • Presence is a present…

    Be here right now...

    they say you never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory… 💭

    life is so precious, this present moment right here and right now… you will never relive or get again.

    sure you may do similar things but it will never be the exact same…

    your mind and thoughts will change…

    how you feel will change…

    who you are will change…

    don’t take the present for granted…

    presence is a present for a reason…

    live and love fully beautiful soul.

    be here right now 🧡

    the audio is an excerpt by Caroline Myss her full Ted talk is “choices that can change your life” – I highly recommend listening.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • It’s safe to surrender

    On trust...

    This is your sign to let go.

    Trust where you are right now.

    Trust that you are capable and on the right track to where you want to be.

    Trust that you are becoming who you are meant to be.

    This is how you are changing your reality.

    The sign you've been looking for...

    This is the sign you’ve been looking for. I know you’re stressed and anxious. I know at times it feels like it isn’t happening for you but it seems to be for everyone else. I know you’re giving it your all and trying your best.

    It’s all going to pay off sooner rather than later.

    It’s safe to surrender, relax and melt into this moment.

    It’s safe to have trust and faith in the universe, you are not alone in this. You are loved and supported. You are a powerful conscious creator and the universe sees that.

    Watch as you change your inner world how your external reality is shifting 💫

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Open your heart

    Open your heart

    Beautiful soul, I know it feels like at times, life isn’t pretty or kind to you – even though you have the biggest heart.

    Don’t harden your heart, don’t close off your heart.

    Your heart is meant to be open.

    With time you will understand why you had to go through the clouds for the sun to shine.

    The tears you shed are clearing and making way for your desired path.

    You asked for change and for new beginnings.

    Let your tears dry and your light shine brighter than ever before.

    The very heart that beats in your chest can hold so much pain but it’s this very heart that can hold and expand with so much love.

    Better days are coming

    It’s easy to cut yourself off from loving and feeling more deeply in fact it’s evolutionarily instinctual to protect yourself.

    It’s harder to remain open and loving yet despite it all, do so.

    A big heart is a beautiful thing.

    Life can be cruel we know that but don’t let that discourage you.

    Better days are coming.

    One day you’ll look back and realize why everything has unfolded the way it has.

    Keep going 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Who you are becoming

    Lessons from life...

    You can’t rush who you are becoming.

    Life will unnerve you and take away all that you thought you needed.

    The security.

    The comfort.

    Life will make you question the twists and turns leading to anger, angst and agony.

    Life will send a quaking storm to shake you up and present a new fork in the road.

    Life will strip you down to your heart and soul, laying bare your inner truth.

    Life will throw sharp curveballs you least expect.

    Life will have you reeling from feeling so raw and vulnerable.

    Life will have you digging deeper into your own self, the roots and foundation of who you really are.

    Trust in this all, beautiful soul, because life is unfolding more of who you really are, in all its beautiful, wild, messy and divine timing.

    You are exactly the person you need to be right now, here in this very moment.

    Growth isn't linear...

    What’s the rush? There is no race. Often what feels like blocks and delays is the universe protecting you, keeping you on track for divine timing or even redirecting you.

    It’s all happening for you not to you.

    Life isn’t meant to be easy and breezy all the time and going perfectly to plan because if it was… what’s the point?

    It would be boring.

    Life is about growing and expanding that often happens most profoundly and deeply when you are uncomfortable and feeling into your edges.

    Life is not static and neither are you.

    You are becoming someone you haven’t been before, be patient – slow growth is beautiful too.

    Growth isn’t linear either it curls, goes sideways, plunges, shoots back up, stalls you get the point…

    Know here right now as you’re reading this, in this moment you are exactly who you need to be and exactly where you are meant to be.

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Life is happening FOR you…

    Life is happening FOR you, not TO you

    You think your life is falling apart when really it is coming together.

    With every heartbreak you are moving closer towards the one you’re meant to be with… the one you choose over and over again.

    With every rejection you’re being redirected to the path that serves you best.

    With every morsel of pain, your wounds will heal and drip into wisdom.

    With every disappointment, the smiles of tomorrow will be a soothing balm.

    With every tear, you move closer to your divinity and inevitable happiness.

    With every loss, comes a gain, more than you could ever imagine.

    With every setback, you will fall and get back up one more time again.

    Life is not happening to you beautiful soul, life is happening for you.

    Finding your power

    growth is often disguised and delivered as painful lessons and challenges.

    we want growth on our terms, to feel like rainbow and sunshine dreams 🌈

    often our biggest growth isn’t in those moments though ☔️

    we get frustrated about why it has to be like this and if it could be less painful when truthfully this is the only way

    we need the tower moments and to be thrown off the cliff to realize the wings we have to fly and soar 🦋

    it’s up to you, suffering is optional, pain is inevitable so you can continue asking why me or decide that you’re a powerful co creator with life, that you can take responsibility for your inner world and have the grace to let go of the things you cannot control.

    it’s up to you, you always have a choice and will always have a choice, that is your power 💥

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Always choose yourself

    This life is yours...

    Choose yourself beautiful soul.

    Choose yourself because you aren’t here to put others before you at the cost of your happiness and mental health.

    Choose yourself because it isn’t selfish, it’s the most important thing you could ever do to honour your heart and soul.

    Choose yourself because if you don’t, who will?

    Choose yourself because not everyone deserves to have your energy and presence in their life.

    Choose yourself because you are so incredible and deserve someone who knows it well too.

    Choose yourself because your dreams ought to become a reality that you experience in this lifetime.

    Choose yourself because it will save your heartache and pain later down the track.

    Choose yourself first because this life is yours and you are here to live it.

    It's okay to be selfish

    We have been conditioned our whole lives to choose others before ourselves, to not be “selfish” or to perhaps even wait to be chosen by another.

    Choose yourself in alignment with the best version of you here and now in this moment.

    Choose without fear knowing that when you are at your best and happiest you will have the greatest impact and influence in this world.

    Choose yourself first beautiful soul 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • Are you feeling overwhelmed?

    My not to do list...

    When you’re overwhelmed, take a step back.

    What NEEDS to be done right now?

    Forget a to-do list… you need a NOT TO DO LIST.

    E.g. I don’t need to take on more work.

    I don’t need to listen to negative thoughts.

    I don’t need to feel guilty or shame myself.

    Doing the best you can

    Who’s guilty of taking on more than they can handle? 🙋🏼‍♀️

    Most of us can relate.

    The people pleaser in us.

    The over achiever.

    The fear of guilt/rejection.

    The perfectionist.

    The control freak.

    In moments like these take a moment for yourself to breathe and ask yourself – does this actually NEED to be done?

    Maybe you desire to get it done quickly.

    Maybe you ideally get it done sooner rather than later.

    The thing about to do lists is often they never run out… as soon as you do something another thing pops up.

    When we can learn to surrender and allow this, life gets easier.

    Do the most and best you can in the moment.

    That’s all you can do!

    You’re a human being, not a human doing 🧡

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • On having a resilient mindset

    On keeping moving

    Truth bomb:

    I still struggle.

    I still have challenges.

    I still have doubts.

    Difference:

    I don’t quit.

    I don’t let it mean anything.

    I keep moving.

    Who is stronger? Your mind or YOU?

    🌶 this is the difference between those who succeed and those who don’t – no sugar coating here 💣

    Nothing means nothing unless you let it…

    Even those you look up to are still human (duh!) but here’s the thing… the people you admire don’t let their negative self talk stop them from making moves which is why they are where they are today.

    It’s part of the human experience.

    Learning to detach from your thoughts and identify with them.

    Seeing the greatness in the bumps, redirections and uncertainty in the journey ahead.

    Learning to hear, speak and most importantly EMBODY your truth despite what can arise.

    Everything you go through is intentional to help you grow, expand and evolve.

    Many people think failure is the worst thing that can happen.

    The worst thing is to do nothing.

    The worst thing is regret.

    Staying still and stuck won’t get you anywhere, you might as well try something different whether it’s your thoughts or actions.

    Who is stronger, your mind or YOU?

    Remember you are not your thoughts, they are a product of your life experiences, upbringing, programming and conditioning.

    No matter how far you advance in your career, even when you have the dream relationship, job, life, friendships etc you will encounter new level = new devil.

    Enjoy the struggle, challenges and doubts it means you’re on the verge of new growth and how boring would life be if everything went your way?

    Here’s to you beautiful soul, keep going ⚡️

    love & positivity ✨ phi

    If you’re reading to uplevel your mindset, self love, energy, purpose and power to be more confident & happy, I would love to help through 1:1 coaching 🧡

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  • Between me and the universe…

    Between me and the universe...

    Me to you:

    It’s easy to say you believe everything happens for a reason… It’s easy to say you believe and trust the universe… so what happens when things don’t go the way you want or expect?

    Universe:

    Flex your faith, prove it.

    Having an open mindset

    Warning: This may trigger and melt your mind and ego 🤭

    Time and time again whether it’s your life, perhaps it’s a relationship, your dream home or the work promotion you’re vying for, a business you’re building… it’s easy to talk to the talk but what about walk the walk?

    You say you have trust… prove it.

    You say you have faith… allow it.

    With a growth mindset we are open 🌱

    Sure from time to time we get knocked down, face really hard challenges and is racked, feel blocked and stuck – life can be tough. Acknowledged.

    I won’t kid you, it’s not an easy path that’s why it’s easy to say you believe but not actually believe… 🤭

    IF you truly believe everything happens for a reason know that it’s ALL WORKING OUT!

    In your highest favour: for your growth and expansion 🌳

    You aren’t facing and building everything on your own beautiful soul… you are CO CREATING with the universe.

    It takes two to tango 💃🏼

    Do your part and watch the universe help out with the rest🕺🏻

    Conscious creation is the game.

    Play and have fun along the way… 💫

    🔥 Oh and hot tip: when has faith ever been logical? 🤔

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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  • From overwhelm to overcome…

    Feeling overwhelmed

    Shift from overwhelm to overcome.

    Stop, step back

    What to when it feels like there is so much to do and you’re going to burst and break down 😫

    🛑✋🏽 JUST STOP.

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    Realise that your mind and potentially anxiety is running the show.

    Do you really NEED to do it?

    Is it REALLY a must?

    Why the RUSH?

    Collectively so much is going on right now and I’ve noticed a lot of clients and loved ones in states of overwhelm.

    We can become unconscious to the illusion of urgency and allow ourselves to crumble under the weight of the world and drown in our to do lists.

    Stop, step back and take your POWER back.

    You don’t HAVE to do anything.

    Everything is a CHOICE!

    Be in your POWER through CONSCIOUS choice.

    Realise that in a state of overwhelm you are misaligned.

    You’re more vulnerable to negative self talk, the voices of doubt, criticism and fear.

    Your energy is spread thin and you’re walking on eggshells.

    Your body is whispering for help which turns into screaming and shut down because you won’t listen.

    It’s OKAY to take a moment to PAUSE and recalibrate.

    There’s power in pause.

    Tune into your heart and soul.

    How are you really feeling?

    You KNOW what to do… your mind and ego are scared to execute… start questioning things.

    When all else fails return to the breath. Be here now.

    Deep inhale and exhale.

    Ahhhh….

    Let…

    Go…

    Shift from overwhelm where you feel powerless and a victim to circumstances into your power.

    Your power and resilience to overcome.

    Shift into solutions – step by step.

    You got this ✊🏽

    love & positivity ✨ phi

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